do you think your friends is violating your space?

[too gangsta]

most friends a tend to act like they can own you without knowing how you feel.

[emmasu]

you are totaly right and i agree with you, they keep telling you that wht you think is worng and you should change you way of thinking or your ideas, every time i have a discssion with my friends they disagree with me and they try very hard to change my waaay of thinking.
Just, today one of " i called a freind" told me that i worth nothing in the college and they worth something, why do they want from to say, to call them names and all of that.
Also, when they treat you bad, they never abologize and say sorry.
They judge all the time.
All the things that you do are worng.
You should your atittude and all that crap, am actually fed of them and am soo angry at them

[IsshinMan_Hero]

lol Truthfully I am one of the only friends to my friends who actually has enough balls to apologize. Anything else my friends usually stay out of my business because I usually don't let them get up in my stuff. They would basically have to pry me away from my secrets then unlock my door. Though I have one really thick headed friend that not only believes that he is the greatest but acts like he owns everyone else. So I know how you guys feel in a sense of things.

[yumisan]

well there is friends like that at school,they tend to act as they control everbody and start to bully them..but it is kinda fun watching them bullying others(not the serious type just a joke bullying) i have a friend like this and most of us in the grade are pretty scared of her except me:D
Lol..i'm the only one she won't mess around and get into my way...she knows how my space is,the life i live and she knows when i get really serious about it...*glop* she dead but yet she still acts like she controlling everyone especially the weak ones...they tend to get control by her easily and they always listen to her orders..how dumb are they though they fell hurt inside(but she will said sorry in the end actually..if she finds out) .mind you..she even argued before with a teacher.(me too together in it arguing with the stupid teacher:D)...no wonder she is been elected as the dicipline manager of the class.:P

[The_Supervisor]

most friends a tend to act like they can own you without knowing how you feel
if that's the case i'd say those ppl are not your friends, or something went really wrong
real friends'll treat u as equals 'n don't go feeling they're better than the others

[Makaze]

No. I have a few good friends who I would die for. To say that friends only get in your way, or that they hurt your feelings, is 100% bullshit. If you think the former, you need a rethink. Everyone needs someone who they can get along with, to hang around with, do whatever crazy things you do together. Don't go all loner tough guy on me.
If anone thinks the later option, then perhaps these people, as stated by supervisor, are not your friends. Besides, do you want your friends to nanny you? I get slack of my pal's all the time, and I give it back at an equal rate. I would hate to be friends with a bullying asshole, but I would also hate to be friends with someone who doesn't stand up for himself

[Ios]

I actually never have the feeling that friends are 'owning' me (except when we're gaming ;) ). I did have some sort of fight with a friend on a vacation lately. 2 days before the vakation ended we laid in bed and we talked to eachother and told eachothere EVERYTHING we hated about eachother. next day, we were good friends again.

[Byakuya7]

I have a friend like this, but I don't let him "own" me. I just stand up to him and make him feel like an idiot.

[Tanya]

Yes, I feel they violate my space if they stand too close to me. But that's probably because I'm clausterphobic :)
No, I don't have friends who act like they "own" me. I don't involve myself with people like that. If I happened to meet someone like that, I am very willing to tell them 'stfu' and to leave me alone =] So I dont have to deal with that.

[Ulquiorra]

lol if he/she does , move back 3-5 steps, it will make themm feel stupid or un welcome :)

[BeeCrest]

I don't have any friends who take over my life/invade my space. Actually, it's quite the opposite. I feel like there is this space between some of my friends and I that is growing steadily. I think this is due to the fact that I have new friends who haven't pissed me off in the past/betrayed me. but I've never had any friends who've tried to take over my life, thank goodness :)

[twisted99]

As long as my friend is a hott female, she can violate me anyways she wants :winking56

[emmasu]

wht is worng with you and the hot girls??????

[Black Shadow]

what? that's very healthy ^^;

[Machiavelli]

what? that's very healthy ^^;

Is it, healthy?

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Anyway, I think those kind of "friend/s" are bossy-type... they look upon you as something lower to them[selves].

[Makaze]

Who cares if it's healthy or not? A man has his hobbies.....

[JokerXgg]

Wow ummm My friends never really try to manipulate they do....but when they do Im just tell them to shut up lol

[_Ink]

Seriously... why use MySpace?
It is like.... the only place where every one advertises their less than sexy bodies and are generally emo, might be better off you advertise on a website like www.cuttingbuddies.com and use your boxcutters to slash your wrists.
It is more fun that way.
you might even make the headlines for being "artistically inclined"

[MooL]

Rofl, I thought "cuttingbuddies.com" was a real website.

Anyway, all I have to say is that NOBODY INVADES MY INTERNET. I have all the space I need. =)

But regardless, I'm too tough in real life that NOBODY messes with me. GRUNT.

[Caesar]

thank god i dont have any friends like that!! xD
but im being a bad friend lately..T_T i keep getting angry very easily (which is not my normal me) and being an arse.....

[♥ Tess]

*shin super-bumps old thread*


not really. i'm the one who usually violates their space if i'm concerned or worried about them.

most friends a tend to act like they can own you without knowing how you feel.
- can't relate -.-
Your probably too passive & let your friends step on you =/
If you don't really have a voice when your with your friends,
they will treat you like a object instead of a person.
Thats why you feel like they own you ;1

[SomberChaos]

well there are always those invasive ppl, but normally i dont mind telling them things, im very open minded, and i speak my mind

so who cares?
well they do obviously HA...

[Asuka]

Well I've known most of my friends for over ten years and as we got older they learned that I'm not the type of person that you can bug on a moments notice. So they call and ask me to do stuff in advance. I mean they'll sometimes on the spot ask but if I decline they just understand that I'm like that. I don't want to do stuff all the time. They also understand when I go about a month or so not talking to them in person. I honestly need a break from people every so often, so I don't hang out or do anything for a month. It's relaxing and refuels you. So no, my friends don't take up my space. They respect, and I respect theirs.

[Sakura_Drops]

Only two of my group of friends tell me what they think and their opinions. However, they're usually wrong, because me and my other friends all agree with eachother. They're really big-headed, especially one of them..only because she's extremely clever at MOST subjects. (of course, not all=D) She always thinks she's right and doesn't care of embarrassing her or others around her. gah.

[SomberChaos]

They also understand when I go about a month or so not talking to them in person. I honestly need a break from people every so often, so I don't hang out or do anything for a month. It's relaxing and refuels you.

I understand completely, I am the same way. There is this one girl at school that always wants to hang out after school, sometimes i do, sometimes i say i cant and make up a bs reason just so i can go home and relax. Too much of anyone can get on your nerves.

[sxian]

There are alot of friends like that annoying and sometimes get on your nerves... How about the way your friends feel about you?...

[SomberChaos]

anyone can be annoying, it all depends on the mood of the other person.

[boredomlover93]

this is interesting. i like this topic.

i used to have a couple of friends that i let walk all over me, i didnt even know i was letting them do that. then an arguement happened and i've resolved never to let people invade or walk all over me again.

[Evanesque]

My friends don't violate my space and I don't do theirs. I respect everyone's privacy.

If it's something I really need to know, etc. then I ask one but if they refuse then I back off. I'm glad my friends give me the same treatment. That's why we're so close <333333

[Kimochi]

i just tell him to his face that he's irritating and needs to quit it . thats the best way . uu havta be honest nd dun care abt their feelings then uu can be free . doesnt meant that he/she is ur fren, they can violate ur space . uu need ur life so just tell them off .

[Lucki]

most friends a tend to act like they can own you without knowing how you feel.

i had a few insecurities from the past, so i often kept myself at a distance from everyone, a girl befriended me, and i relied on her. She knew my insecurities so she would control me and basically be my mouth and talk for me. it was bad, and it got worse when she started threats, but i relied on her and trusted her, she would tell me my parents dont care for me, then she told me to do something very very very bad. we never see each other anymore. no more really to say, caused hell. lol but that was a long time ago and thank god i have grown from that. :redbiggri

[latara]

do my friends violate my space...? No.

But I'm a violator!!

I 'borrowed' a key from a friend's house who has cable tv, cut it, and then returned it. Then I told her, just so it didn't seem so illegal.
I now have cable tv even when she's on holiday overseas!!! :D

...but I don't psychologically screw people over... honestly, not a bad person, just poor, yes, poor and tv-less.*nods*

[mochimochil3]

Eh...yeah...they do that a lot. And they use me too...-___-' I'm actually one of those rare people that anyone can confide in and know I'd never tell anyone their secrets...and my friends use me to their advantage...but whatever...I can deal with it as long as they don't kill me.