What do you see first in your date?

[M-50]

What is the first thing you look at at your date? Is it the shoes,hair, clothes, eyes, fingers, face, boobs what? Mine would be the face. :headbang:

[eLcHaKeTeRo]

eyes, defently the eyes. I know its corny but they are the window to your soul. If you have a kind soul your eyes will show that. Thats the thing that I find the most attarctive in the opposite sex.

[Marke]

I would have to say. The Hair? and after that eyes body and so on.

[nyuu_chan]

eyes, defently the eyes. I know its corny but they are the window to your soul. If you have a kind soul your eyes will show that. Thats the thing that I find the most attarctive in the opposite sex.
awwww! i agree with you!!! although, cool hair is definitely an added bonus for me :biggrinlo

[Kenken]

Hair, i don't know why but the i see first is the hair, then the face, body, etc

[eLcHaKeTeRo]

awwww! i agree with you!!! although, cool hair is definitely an added bonus for me :biggrinlo

Well, being a guy I dont really take much notice on hair. So you ladies dont have to worry about ur hair all that much. As long as it doesnt look like a ball of lint we dont really notice. Sorry, but thats the truth.

Except when you get a new hair do, I notice that. Now that I think about it I find Jet Black hair very attractive but its not a must.

Most of the time I have my hair close cropped, but some times I will go for about 7 months w/o a hair cut and my hair gets curly.

[yesplsnothnx]

teeth!always look if they have nice teeth

[eLcHaKeTeRo]

Open wide, bcz im going to check!

How can you really check? I geuss you can stare rudely. LoL

But you have a point though. But there is always a line, between bad and acceptable, right?

[Isis]

Ehehe, those are like the most simplest things you can notice about your date. For me, they can look casual or dressed up (depending on situation of course), and maybe not have the best hair or teeth, but you should be able to look into their eyes and feel something. I would think that the most obvious thing that I've encountered is body language. Ok,so maybe Ive never been on an official date before (I say that because the last time I went on a 'date', I had no idea it was one, just watching a movie cause I really wanted to see it..heh,guess he/I got the wrong idea in our head.), but the one thing I should feel is being comfortable with the guy. First time, it could be of nervousness, but if I'm the one that has to make up random conversation and the guy doesnt communicate with me, then it'd just feel awkward and ruin the date, now wouldnt it?

[Ethanol]

I would have to say. The Hair? and after that eyes body and so on.

I would probably agree with you....hair first, then eyes, etc.

[konakona]

Eyes, hair or lips

:p:

Prolly eyes

[Raku]

Well since we're saying first thing on a date I would say I would know the girl pretty good right? Then it's without a doubt how she dressed up. its a clear factor of how much the girl is in love with tha person :O

If she made a big deal out of it you can pretty much see she was looking forward to it and if the opposite I would mean she just want to get this thing done

[Savage Dragon]

well when you go on a date you have seen the person before so you kindave seen the intire package but if you meen whats the first thing you look at when they get dressed up for a date..............i guess it would be what she is wearing and then the way she has her hair and mackup

[SoundWave]

The ass oh yeah shake that ass... haha lol J/k J/k

I'll look at the face, lips an stuff... then work my way down >.<^

Edit: I'm a male...

[strydr]

This is interesting...
Me - I look into the eyes, then i would hafta say body (which includes complexion... and the curves, ya know ;) ), then the hair... then the lips... but most importantly the voice.

[M-50]

So no-one looks at the shoes?
And can you state whether you are a boy or a girl please cause it will make it easier to see what is the first thing looked at from both genders. :headbang:

[Mercurius]

Definitely the eyes like eLcHaKeTeRo said before they tell something about you, how you feel, are, you're mood it's al written in the eyes.
And of course beautifull eyes are sexy:redbiggri
And then clothes and make-up(they like it when you compliment clothes and make-up)

[Lenne]

i look at the overall face, or just their composure, how they move and so on. XD

[Princess Tofu]

I look at their face. And how they move but mostly I just want to hear their voice. The voice determins everything: Their mood, whether their a tomboy or a plastic girl, their tone of voice is just something I like about a girl. I don't care if its a sexy voice I just like to listen to teh sensitivity in their voice to determin who they r and wat type of person they r. Yesh i know I'm VERY corny. Well sometimes I look at their boobs. >>

[Kienergy]

I generally check out the ladies general looks since I do believe that some initial attraction is needed to start a relationship. Funny thing is that it starts to take a back seat to the soul of the individual after a few weeks.

When I'm old and grey I want someone I still love to be around, not a nussance.

[eLcHaKeTeRo]

But to me the MOST important thing is that shes not dumb like a bag of rocks.
I cant stand girls that are stupid, I'll hang my self before I subject my self to a bad date like that.

[saycheese]

her head(or its features), coz thats about the only thing id reconise when looking for her.

[M_A]

Face and figure, at first. There needs to be some physical attraction. Then I can see if her personality suits me.

[Kesumi]

I say hair and the face. Oh and personality too :3

[eLcHaKeTeRo]

Personality is the most important thing, becuase if the only thing that youre looking for is physical attraction then youre prob one of those people that are dumb like bag of rocks.
Physical beauty fades, but the beauty on the inside is the one that shines for ever.

I guess im just a sucker for girls that are sweet. You cannot ignore that at all.
I think that dwelling on things such as hair is pointless and shallow. Im not saying that anyone here is shallow, but only if you dwell on physical appearances and try to base a serious relationship of from that.

I also have to find out the girls interests, im not judgemental about some of the thing s that they may like but if I cant seriously share an activity with that person then I dont see how we will be able to get along in a month from that day.

Wow

I really come off as a jerk.

Im a guy.

[emmasu]

So no-one looks at the shoes?
And can yous tate whether you are a boy or a girl please cause it will make it easier to see what is the first thing looked at from both genders. :headbang:
well, i do am very obessed with feet, so the first thing i saw in the person is his shoes and his feet, i know that is weird, but i really those people who do not take care of their shoes or their feet and the last thing that they thinka bout is their shoes:LOL:

[Ios]

I don't know what I look at first but somehow I always know what kind of shoes someone has so I guess that's first...

[Cassie]

I'd probably look at the clothes, then work up to the face.

But if I like someone enough to go on a date with them, then it really doesn't matter what I look at first, cuz there aren't much that'd bother me.

[Tenebrus]

ow...so this guy pretends to be original...i don't see you leaving the PC genius. What's with your date...
hah this guy's funny...

[Sacred-kun]

hmm i dont really understand the question but i'll go with Hair. Hair coud have a big difference in whether a girl is "hot" or not well, in my opinion anyways next would most definately be face and then personalitly.. no wait that would be first.. hmm >_< lol

[blackmary]

hair, not too messy and not too brushed!
face, any face will do! hair carries it out most of the time!
nails, of course this is where their personal hygiene takes place! but most guys forget this!

[halomaster]

everything

[SLVR]

What I dont like about her.

[emmasu]

What I dont like about her.
wht do you mean, how do you now the things that you do like about her???:eek13:

[¤ Ichigo ¤]

Didn't really care on the first date cause as long as shes well dressed and looks hot alls good.

[unwaken]

urm actually..
i listen to the voice. :p u can tell alot about a person by how he or her speaks and also i see how he carries himself.

confidence is very attractive. :biggrinlo

[Ronin36]

Im not sure why but ive noticed that for me its always the hair, then the voice, then the body. I just cant date someone with crappy hair. It sounds mean, but i cant help it.

[Sanzora]

For me its not so much a matter of see as a matter of feel... I'm an amazing judge of character (even of I do say so myself). If I don trust them on first meeting, it ends right there

[emmasu]

For me its not so much a matter of see as a matter of feel... I'm an amazing judge of character (even of I do say so myself). If I don trust them on first meeting, it ends right there
you mean that you can tell from the look of the person if he is good or not??

[Hinamori-Chan]

I look at their face and then I look at what they're wearing.
I'm partially shallow. :]
I also look at their shoes. It turns me off if they don't have nice shoes. >.>

[Shinomori]

The little wrinkly things.

Dates don't generally turn out well for me.

They made me puke once.

Dates = EWWWWWW (http://www.wegmans.com/kitchen/ingredients/produce/fruit/images/date.jpg)

Ok, now that I'm done being a sarcastic bastage, let's see....

I see....well, eyes probably. Mostly. Either that , the "chest", or the legs. I'm not going to lie, I'm just like any other man on a date - it's either the top, the middle, or the bottom. XD

[Azalea]

Well for me a guy MUST NOT WEAR a shirt! It doesnt look romantic at all :face82:

I like a guy with strong eyes that when I see them it makes me think "TAKE ME! I'M YOURS!!" :biggrinlo

[Shinomori]

Well for me a guy MUST NOT WEAR a shirt!

........nanda?

Where I come from, that's called indecent exposure on a date.

[Azalea]

........nanda?
Where I come from, that's called indecent exposure on a date.
:LOL:
NO! NO! NO! Thats not what I meant... I mean he must wear a polo, a jacket not a simple shirt :winking56

[Captain BenZ]

:LOL:
NO! NO! NO! Thats not what I meant... I mean he must wear a polo, a jacket not a simple shirt :winking56
Yeah, you had me thinking for a second as to why you wouldn't want a guy wearing a shirt, lol.

[Azalea]

Yeah, you had me thinking for a second as to why you wouldn't want a guy wearing a shirt, lol.
:LOL:
Now that's crazy talk on a date
...but on other events I prefer no tops at all :face82:

[grimm_fans]

Face since don't want to have a date with a pork chop

[S.J.Shinigami]

Eyes for me, because I find the gaze of a pretty girl to be a little intimidating sometimes. I like to look at everything else though.

[emmasu]

Well for me a guy MUST NOT WEAR a shirt! It doesnt look romantic at all :face82:
:biggrinlo
I totaly agree with you in that, i think the guy should make a good impression from the first date and i like my self if the guy wears something kinda formal in our first date, but in the later dates he can wear more comfortable clothes for him cuz at that time we know each other

[Icestorm]

haha in my country it isnt indecent exposure mostly because we are the land of beach and sun haha.. what do i look for? hmm a nice personality, someone that has a sense of humour and can take a joke, and someone that is easy to talk to.

[emmasu]

haha in my country it isnt indecent exposure mostly because we are the land of beach and sun haha.. what do i look for? hmm a nice personality, someone that has a sense of humour and can take a joke, and someone that is easy to talk to.
we are talking abouy wht do you see in your first date, not what do you like your gf to be

[Icestorm]

yeah... thats what im talking about

[emmasu]

so you are saying that youdo not care about the look of the girl that you date???

[Icestorm]

No im not saying that.. ofcourse i care.. but thats MAINLY what i look for.. Im not really a shallow person but obviously everyone has there own opinion of what they like in a person in terms of looks.

[재]

well i thought you were talking about the other date, so you were talking about the date with your girlfriend.
well first i would look at tehir face, and you are missing somethign on the list, their heart like kindness or something. yeha nad second i would have see if she is funny, nice. i don't want t agirlfriend that is easy to get angry, even if she is very sexy. really i think how they behave is very important.

[emmasu]

so you are saying that people who care about the look of their partners are shallow, so you are saying all the people that have posted in this thread are shallow:redbiggri

[Icestorm]

no.. i didnt say that, i said that everyone has there own opinion of what they like in a person i didnt say everyone was shallow in this thread.. i said im not shallow, people who are shallow are people that only look for what on the outside.. not the inside thats why its called shallow. I never said everyone in this thread is shallow

[재]

i look on teh inside and outside. but i think the most important thing is the inside. and the second is their face. i think boobs doesn't really matter, since not a lot of girl have big boobs. at least they have, sometimes the problem is the girl doesn't really like you. it's quite hard finding girlfriends.

[Endess Wings]

The hair and the eyes! They are so pertty!

[strydr]

Eyes and hair... but i dont pic up hoes... she has to be my kinda girl.

[Purvis]

For me it'd be face, then body, then I start paying attention to their personality. Hair isn't an issue for me, because sometimes girls get the tendency to change it, so no use worrying about it. As long as it looks cute on them, and they aren't bald, or just plain looks bad.

Maybe shallow of me, but they need to pass all three checks before I really start thinking about them.

[Hits]

I'd look at her boobs, then vagina and then ass. >.> J/k :D

The only one thing I have is the hair. God I hate girls with enormous hair. I'd really not want to date Diana Ross.

[S.J.Shinigami]

I'd look at her boobs, then vagina and then ass. >.> J/k :D
The only one thing I have is the hair. God I hate girls with enormous hair. I'd really not want to date Diana Ross.
Diana Ross is one helluva good singer though.

[재]

hitsugaya, so you don't look on tehir inside? wello that's something very interesting.

[bearman]

i see everything if is good i just keep looking

[재]

what do you mean? if it's good you just keep looking, keep looking at what??/

[bearman]

the whole body

[재]

the whole body only? not the inside? that's also strange.

[bearman]

:winking56 when i say the whole body,is the whole body inside and outside in general. hehe

[재]

what the heck, whole body is teh body man, not including inside.

[Captain BenZ]

:LOL:
Now that's crazy talk on a date
...but on other events I prefer no tops at all :face82:
Sounds like my kind of event. ;)

[Hits]

hitsugaya, so you don't look on tehir inside? wello that's something very interesting.
Of course I do. But I think this thread is only about the physical appearances, right?

[재]

well not really, maybe some people only look at the outside? well but that's very rare.

[Azalea]

Sounds like my kind of event. ;)

Well its summer, so pretty much i mean the beach :face82:

[Marke]

when u first meet someone you cant "tell" who they are as a person instantly.

we discuss what you first see in a person when you meet them.
Hard to see inside a person, with all the flesh bones and so on.

[Z_Blitz]

Probably the hair. Then its the face followed by the eyes and then the her overall physical appearance :).

[kaede822]

:musak:
the face...if she's cute..
then her hair then her body....

[ashiin]

face, hair, body.

but if its not about appearance, personality first :D

[Allicat]

hair i like nice hair, teeth, um i have a fetish for calves.

[Argument]

I would have to say the eyes, you can tell a lot by them. I think they're one of the most important aspects of a human being.

Next ... maybe the hair, what they're wearing, their aura [how relaxed are they?], their smile. All that stuff. ;P

[YuRiPaWings]

Definately the eyes, eyes are very important. Followed by their smile then face and hair. Then what they're wearing.

[koichi]

In contrast to popular answers, mine isn't actualy a physical feature. More like a physical observation. The thing that draws me and my attention is actually body language. The first thing I ever notice is what body language someone displays and that usually tells me whether or not that person is even worth my time or if they are what I like to call "normal" or "non-anime folk". lol.

[Toasty]

It's not a physical feature for me really. It's they way they talk and what they talk about. I tend to talk to people and get to know them long before we go out. I've actually never cared much for physical features. I learned a long time ago that the physical part comes last. If they aren't the type of person I want to be with, then no matter how attractive they are, they are not worth my time.

[twisted99]

Eyes.
Then face.
Then body.

[strydr]

WOW! a lotta people say eyes and hair...
well mine too, my girlfriend has these deep eyes, where you can see the sunrise appear each time you look into them... I LOVE THEM!
Hair is very important, look at someone u know, then look at them when they wake up... totally different, look at them with no hair... totally messed up, or if they are bald, look at them with hair... AAHH! totally weird.

Then i would hafta say the face... the body doesnt exactly attract me as much cause i dont touch much... but having a nice body is always the best... i like girls who fit firmly into their clothing, not too fat and not too skiny... just perfect, like my gf... hehe. ( Body of a Goddess )
Her feet... its a minor fetish... which only really kicks in later.
Having a pretty girlfriend isnt exactly the easiest thing, there is always gonna be another guy after her, or looking at you guys as a couple... or someone saying something about you guys, or just plain out staring... but i think that if you are both in love with one another, nothing can separate you, thats a cliche line...
bi bi

[summer_faerie]

Ok well for me its hieght! I'm tall, so I want the guy I'm dating to be taller than me. Smiple enough. Then I notice eyes hair, and so on.

[KurosakiKun15]

eyes and hair together because eyes are number one but you can have weird hair combinations with eyes

[KurosakiKun15]

eyes and hair together because eyes are number one but you can have weird hair combinations with eyes

[KurosakiKun15]

:doindadom I would have to say eyes but i first have to see how the hair works cuz i dont like some hair and eye combos

[KurosakiKun15]

the eyes are by far the most beautiful part of the body becuse of the emotion translated through them

[moppiz]

Face and after a little talking the personality. is the person interesting, funny and so on. if i notice that the person is dumb as a shoe, i jusually use the "ill call you" and disappear

[MatsumotoRangiku]

I dont know I guess I want them to me clean and not smell like sweat when they come in and be respectfull and not dress like a slob.

[MatsumotoRangiku]

I dont know I guess I want them to me clean and not smell like sweat when they come in and be respectfull and not dress like a slob and I would also want them to have brushed their teeth.

[chiriyuku]

Whenever I see my bf... well... we always smile at each other as soon as we make eye contact... so I always watch for that smile.

[Jimmyz]

If i can talk to her comfortably, thats all i care about, i dont stress on looks at all, if they are kind and nice, thats all that matteres to me.

[Xferox 02]

its hard to take my eyes off my gf, i actualy ran into the wall once LOL

[Kimochi]

its hard to take my eyes off my gf, i actualy ran into the wall once LOL
take kaiire of urself..
ii look at the persons eyes.. denn their face.. but when it comes to personality i take it seriously.. dating sumone boring is not good..

[Xferox 02]

lol im a booring person in some part of life, usually i just sit on the beach until the sun goes down thinking about nothing and chill with the wind. apprently my gf love that too, lol so we both are very boring people

[silentyas]

I can't be so much of help in this because I never bother to go on a date

[Xferox 02]

why not? just a movie date is fun

[Kimochi]

lol im a booring person in some part of life, usually i just sit on the beach until the sun goes down thinking about nothing and chill with the wind. apprently my gf love that too, lol so we both are very boring people

nehhh that romantic!!! i like.. but too romantic make me sleepy..

[Xferox 02]

heheh thanx fate. my first date was in the cafe right next to the beach, we sat and talked then we went to the movie, i think the movie was The fast and the furious Tokyo drift

[Kimochi]

oo i love that movie!! wee.. i love it..
beach is so nice... the scenery andd peaceful surrounding..

[Xferox 02]

it clams my heart, learn from memorie, and make your own future. thats what my father always told me

[Kimochi]

sweet.. i wish to have a bf just like uu.. but ii duunn like to kiss that the prob.. too romantic make me sleepy.

[Xferox 02]

got msn? =) lol i got a web cam too

[Kimochi]

yea i have.. lol.. y?

[Xferox 02]

no reason, just wondering

[ninjabot]

Sexual attraction? Definately the butt. But if we're talking general emotional type of attraction, then a nice face and voice melts me...

[Evanesque]

The first and foremost thing is, can I talk openly with him without thinking twice?

I mean if I feel completely comfortable with him then I'm onto the next step, that is, his personality..whether he'll talk about random topics or egotistically about himself.

Don't ask me about looks because I wouldn't even be on a date with him, now would I?
JK :p

[Isis]

Well obviously you go on a date with someone, you ask them out because you think you'll like him/her. For those random dates, you asked the person out cause they looked good. For the blind dates, there's no point in knowing unless its someone you know. The thing I would notice is how good the person looks. I mean you're finally on that date. The next is how they handle themselves around you and then their personality. The main thing really is how well you guys communicate together.

[Xferox 02]

im really bad at starting a converstation, before i met my gf, i freeze up when i see a pretty girl talking to me, and end up in embarrasment

[BrokenImage]

I look at the body first, clothes/hair/basic style etc. And then if im not too scared already i go for the face/eyes which are the most important to me. And then finally to seal the deal, you have to hold a steady convo with me about something other than your clothes/hair/basic style.

[Xferox 02]

i would go half on looks and half on personality, broken when you mean style you mean hair style???