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blackrican
10-17-2006, 06:37 AM
well right now im emotionally upset and im debating what to do (not suicide attempt don't worry)
should i go out and drive to calm my emotions, or go outside and smoke?
im listening to music but its not doing ne thing to help me
ne other suggestions would be nice
fyi: in a dorm building too.
Telvanni
10-17-2006, 06:40 AM
Go walk around your dorm a bits and just not talk to anyone the cool air should help some (works for me when I gets upset)
Bak3d on H1gh
10-17-2006, 07:05 AM
Go for a drive, always better than smoking. Well not for the enviroment i suppose.
Decado
10-17-2006, 07:09 AM
yeah, i'd agree with Telvanni to go for the walk. Fresh air should do u some good.
As bak3donh1gh said, u could go for a drive. That way u could listen to songs too.
U could always read a book...is there a certain author that u really like which makes u feel better? I have one...that's wat i usually do.
ChansteR
10-17-2006, 07:16 AM
Man, call up some friends, get some alcohol, have yourself a fun ass drunken time and then pass out to wake up the next day reborn
:)
Or for a more healthier solution, you could take the walk, or you could go and exercise it out, run or work out or such. Driving isnt such a good idea since your emotions could affect your driving and cause an even more serious thing.
blackrican
10-17-2006, 07:22 AM
yeah, i'd agree with Telvanni to go for the walk. Fresh air should do u some good.
As bak3donh1gh said, u could go for a drive. That way u could listen to songs too.
U could always read a book...is there a certain author that u really like which makes u feel better? I have one...that's wat i usually do.
i like reading quotes that are inspirational and that i take to the heart. i just went outside and it was refreshing.... i feel calm enough to go out and drive which i just might do now that i can't sleep.
, call up some friends, get some alcohol, have yourself a fun ass drunken time and then pass out to wake up the next day reborn
Or for a more healthier solution, you could take the walk, or you could go and exercise it out, run or work out or such. Driving isnt such a good idea since your emotions could affect your driving and cause an even more serious thing.
as much as i would love to get drunk, all my friends are sleep.
Wake your friends up, true friends will help out \o/
true... and for me, i just do something to take out my frustrations. somethings like play sports or play computer... it works for me.
Who said you need friends to drink
The bottle is your only true friend don't listen to them..
Another suggestion would be to get alot of popsicle sticks and start building a model.
Evanesque
10-17-2006, 09:13 AM
First of all, why are you upset...maybe if you tell us personally, we'd be able to help you better...to answer your question, I think you should go for a drive around town...it might calm you down..
Munky
10-17-2006, 09:38 AM
Run down to a local liquor store and buy a six pack beer :)
Or if you are a smoker, then nothing beats smoking to calm your nerves :lol
Evanesque
10-17-2006, 09:50 AM
HEY, I don't think either smoking OR drinking is the way to cheer up...sure they may provide temporary relief but it won't help much. It's better to just talk about it or find out exactly what's bothering you and SOLVE it, instead of drowning it in smoke or liquid...
Z_Blitz
10-17-2006, 10:42 AM
Wake your friends up, true friends will help out \o/
Is that the reason why you disturb my sacred sleep? =O
On a more serious note, I guess going out for a long walk/jog helps. I tend to burn more calories when depressed than when I go to the gym =/.
Dark Zero
10-17-2006, 12:32 PM
well here is something that cold help. when in doubt drive somewhere. that always helps wiht me.
Munky
10-17-2006, 12:45 PM
HEY, I don't think either smoking OR drinking is the way to cheer up...sure they may provide temporary relief but it won't help much. It's better to just talk about it or find out exactly what's bothering you and SOLVE it, instead of drowning it in smoke or liquid...
contradicts my post, but true nonetheless. Yeah, drinking and smoking is just for temporary relief. But what about you...
Get some friends
All of you get drunk (the more the merrier)
Go on a road trip with all of your drunk friends!
SHiKaMaRi
10-17-2006, 01:25 PM
Play some sports. Eg: Tennis. Let out your frustrations there. Always works for me. Or just go for runs and all...
Sakura
10-17-2006, 02:46 PM
from a smoker's point of view, smoking calms you down enough to think again :3 but that's the way smokers think. then again, we usually look for any reason to have another stoke :3
otherwise, take a nice long hot shower. :3
blackrican
10-17-2006, 04:26 PM
First of all, why are you upset...maybe if you tell us personally, we'd be able to help you better...to answer your question, I think you should go for a drive around town...it might calm you down..
basically in a nut shell, my fiance is mad at me bc i didn't want to get up at 8 this morning with him, and he's basically making me feel like shit for it. and even now he's still at it. he didn't care if i was up right now or not, and i kno i shouldn't be upset but he says so much hurtfull things to me, not to mention i had a bad day in general yesterday and he just made it worse
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