Long-Term Crushes

[Kimochi]

well.. ii duunnoo is uu everr had a long term crush on sumone.. but ii do.. fer four years and now still has it.. if uu had been the same share with us..

[Xferox 02]

i had and i finaly found the courage to tell her how i feel and asked her to the homecomming dance, then we started to date. i was on the edge of jummping down a cliff before i told her how i felt

[Kalashnikov]

Nahh, i never have long term crushes. i guess its because i have confidence. if i like a girl ill ask her out straight away :)

[Kimochi]

wow.. i wonderr how people get that courage... no one knew abt my crush.. i ask some of his frens how is he like.. i have no courage at all telling people i like them.. cuz ii will be hated ferr life..

[Xferox 02]

lol you are the man, i had the confidence when i got my part time job and a new car, so i can actually take my gf cruising next to the beach and to the mall

[Kimochi]

wow.. and how old are uu again? lols.. ferr me whenn ii see handsome guys i know they sure have a gf.. the confidence is so high.. they noe they will get it..

[Xferox 02]

17 got a job at a hospital clinc, 17 dollars an hour baby!!. and i have the Toyota Yaris with 18 inch crome wheel with twin turbo installed, lol feel the power!

[Kimochi]

wow?! lols.. thats hot.. but do uu ever feel that maybe they like uu cuz uu are rich? lols..

[Kalashnikov]

damn...id get a job. but A-levels are hard (wat u study in the UK, before you get to university :P) and i cant waste time - since all the subjects im studying are quite hard.

[Xferox 02]

lol no cuz my gf never ask me to buy her anything just want me to be with her 24 7, so yeah i love my girl. lol g2g you 2 can keep posting i'll be back in 2 hours.......dont know why i got to school this early today.. any way peace out i'll reply in 2 hours

[Kimochi]

oo ok.. cya.. uu take a levels?!?!? wow.. it quite difficult?? well do have anitime fer relationships?

[Kalashnikov]

I dont know - i manage everything somehow lol - A levels are really hard. and im only at the first stage. studying Mathematics - Physics - Biology and Computing.

i seem to find the time lol

[Kimochi]

hmm.. phy is difficult and maths is fuunn.. funny that uu have time whenn uu seems to duunn to me..

[Nicole]

In HS, mine normally lasted for quite a few months, and then when I'd get rejected, I'd move on to another person...

But my longest was 2 years to a guy in middle school. We never ended up dating and I think he eventually turned gay.

[Kimochi]

lol.. tats really awfull that uu said he turn gay.. y?? lol..

[Cheryl]

Eh...yeah, guess I've had one of those crushes that last for a really long time before... ^^;

Longest one yet lasted for four years...died out last year when I just got bored of the fact that I liked the same old guy for a long time though. >_>" I hate telling people that I like them, have never done so before too. Lol. It's so much nicer to stay in the background and admire the person from afar! ^^

[Kimochi]

yes.. its true.. uu nn me are same... onii that ii can really admire sumone ferr long..

[Cheryl]

Heh, as long as that person is still in front of me and I actually get to continue seeing that person, yeah...but we're in different schools now, so... x__x

[SoundWave]

Never had a crush on anyone.. It seems so troublesome, why even bother to like someone if you're never gonna get close to the person.. No use putting yourself into this kind of a situation. What's the use of longing for something that you can't bring yourself to actually do/get?...

[Xferox 02]

if you got a crush on someone badly, just tell them how you feel. alone with that person.

[SoundWave]

My thoughts exactly.. But when you do tell the person then it isn't a crush anymore, right?.. That's why I see it as pointless.

[Xferox 02]

right but most ppl fear of dissapointment like what if she said no she dosent like me. some ppl cant live with that kind of decition, they will just break down to pieces if they find out their crush was a total waste. so yeah its hard to do,

[SoundWave]

Life is full of rejection.. Why even bother to care about it, just pick up the pieces and move on.. And yes I know it can be hard to tell someone how much you like them.. Some ppl should reflect on what they waste their time on.

[Xferox 02]

yeah your right, you can also use your normal actions in daily life to show some hint, you have to get to know what person well to be with that person. the first thing i found out about my gf is that she hates mexican men LOL i was laughing so hard when she told me that

[Kimochi]

difficult!! admiring just do my job...

[Xferox 02]

do you have a crush now? just go up and tell him that you like him, thats it and see what he says

[Kimochi]

lol.. yea i have hes in scool tho.. he's nice but he's frens is not.. so difficult..

[Xferox 02]

lol difficult to choose? or too difficult to tell him?

[Nicole]

Well... he went to prom wearing a prom dress as a prank. And cross-dressed in the past as a prank, too.

Plus he sent off that "gay vibe" if you know what I mean. :P

[Planeswalker]

I believe that its impossible to get rid of a feeling...therefore crushes will always be long term. You just have to repress or overtake them with another feeling.

[Nesquik]

i used to have a crush last year, we were friends (i discovered i just like him as friends)

[Reefern86]

crushes are weird...cause they are suppose to always be there, and kinda never forfilled! I mean...i've gotten with a few of the ppl i had crushes on, but then u no longer have a crush, and u don't rly remember it. BUT if u never got with someone u had a crush on...it will haunt u for eternity lol

[Kalashnikov]

But my longest was 2 years to a guy in middle school. We never ended up dating and I think he eventually turned gay.

wow - wat a story :S -

i still dont understand how someone could turn gay ..

[Kimochi]

maybe the attraction turn towards guy.. how wudd uu noe.. different people have their way...

[Planeswalker]

crushes are weird...cause they are suppose to always be there, and kinda never forfilled! I mean...i've gotten with a few of the ppl i had crushes on, but then u no longer have a crush, and u don't rly remember it. BUT if u never got with someone u had a crush on...it will haunt u for eternity lol

While the feeling will always be with you it wont cause any problems if you can overtake it with another feeling.

[Kimochi]

crushes are fuunn.. i duunno y but fuunn.. make uu wanna look forward to another day..

[Iro]

i had a crush on this girl back in high school and it lasted for a really long time. until now she doesn't know i liked her. :)

[Kimochi]

wee!! yea!! not telling herr?

[Iro]

wee!! yea!! not telling herr?
how could i tell her now that we're far apart already, lol and besides it was just a crush. I admired her because she was so beautiful and smart.

[Kimochi]

oo.. same as me too!! sweet!! i like a guy fer 4 years..!!

[Xferox 02]

i watched my gf for 2 month then i couldn't wait cuz some other guy was trying to hit on her, so i took her first. that guy actually wanted to fight. every body was like "dude he had her first, chill out" i wanted to fight him too. but my new gf went berzerk at him telling him how she hate him and he was such a jerk. LOL i was saved, that guy was actually bigger than me, i would have lost if it wasent for her

[Kalashnikov]

hehehe - saved by your queen :P

[Xferox 02]

totaly a safe, other wise i would been the home run base ball whos outta the stadium

[BrokenImage]

I dont see what the point is in having a long term crush. If you have a crush at all you should immidiatly ask said person out. Otherwise youll just be wasting your time on something that might not happen, or something that will float and whisk itself away from you for waiting so long.

[Xferox 02]

ppl having long term crush is because they dont have the courage to ask the other person out, thats the only problem

[Kimochi]

thats the point.. its just that ii duunn have the courage to tell my crush that ii like themm cuuz ii just am scaredd that ii will lost the friendship with him.. altho its long term im happy with it as long as he doesnt noe..

[Xferox 02]

actually most people just tell you they just wants to be friends, you dont lose your friendship, you just lose faith in him cuz he doesnt like you

[bbnflpn]

ah yes the crush.

i had a very long term crush, in away i still have a crush on him. this goes back about 18 years.

i met him when we were in 7th grade, we had classes together and we were always sat next to each other since we were abc neigbors. he was very cute and popular, i was a somewhat embarrased and quiet girl and not popular at all.

pretty much every one knew i had a huge crush on him, and eventually he asked me out on valintines day. which he then told me the next day it was a joke. i found out later that his friends made fun of him because he asked me out. (sorry excuse i know) sure i was mad and i still hate v day for that reason. anyway... eventually i got up the courage to ask him out, and he accepted he was my first date. we went horse back riding, and later in the summer we went to the beach a few times together. i remember the first time he saw me in a bathing suit. he just stared at me with his jaw open. i guess i had a hot body or somthing, and i had never had a guy look at me like that before. and on 8th grade graduation we walked together and he protected me from some guy who was hitting on me, as he played with the layers of my dress and tried to rub my leg.

through high school, we rarely talked other than when we were freshmen, occasionaly but nothing big, and on graduation day we again walked together and he told me how disapointed he was that i was going out with a freshman.

right before our 10 year class reunion, i ran in to a friend who was my office ups driver, i had heard that they were room mates, but i didnt ask about him, i was afraid to, as i could see that his friend (also a classmate) was trying to get the corage to ask me out, i almost asked him out a few times, but he was always in a hurry and i never got around to it. and about a year later i started dateing my current boyfreind. durring this time i had some very naughy dreams about my old crush. and when the ups driver met my boyfriend he started moving in to the back ground of the dreams. i saw him at the reunion, and gave him a hug. (ok both of them)

so last year, i was cruising myspace, and found him and sent him a message (my crush that is) and went for a while with out a response. and one day there was a instant message waiting from him. it was intresting the conversation we had. about how he wanted to be with me and how badly he wanted me. of course this was a huge boost to my ego. i had never known that he felt that way about me, and if i had i would have tried to persue him eariler. and even though i really thought about it, i realized that it was only lust takeing over my brain, and that i knew that it would just be a waist of time and a disapointment. on top of this how much i loved my boyfriend. he stopped talking to me after i turned him down. and again in a few months i talked to him again. and it was the same thing and this time he said he would pay (so to speak he said he would give me a "job" since i needed one at that time). and i couldnt bring my self to do it. and i didnt and i havent. and im glad that i didnt.

since then i have had a few times when i could have had a job where i would have ran in to him, he is a paremedic and firefighter. and i had asked my higher powers to not let me fall in too this temptation. one job i had, i was there for 2 weeks, and then we had the fire dept come, that day i was laid off, and when i got home i found a pic of him standing next to that citys fire truck, which was right down the street from my work and across the street where i ate my lunch every day. i cant help but think that i was being removed from his path,

in febuary it will be a year since i last talked to him, i have sent him messages, just to tell him how sorry i was cause i knew i truly hurt him. but he has not responded to me.

this whole time i wonder, why all of a sudden did he want me so, when did this happen, if he felt that way why didnt he say something, if he knew how to get a hold of me before why didnt he. and why now was he so desperate for my affection.

i guess i will never know.

[Xferox 02]

wow what a story.....cant think of anything to say.

[Kimochi]

i think it hurts that guy too much.. well thats one heck of a story..!!

[Xferox 02]

i think it hurts her more than the guy

[Kalashnikov]

what a story...damn..

thats the kind of story a producer would want to make a movie out of.

i guess those thoughts will be with you for the rest of your life then.

[bbnflpn]

i dont know about a movie, i am suppose to write a book about my unusual life and he will probably be in it.

in a way it does hurt me, and in another im glad that i know how he felt about me, and that i am somewhat strong enough not to make really bad decisions baised on lust.

but i think it hurt him alot more than me, because me the one person who back then would have given her self to him freely was now turning him down, with out much of a very well explained reason, and a few times in a row.

it boosted my ego yet demolished his.

[minori]

I had a crush for at least 8 years older skiing instructor (I know, it's a cliche xD ) for... about 4 years. It was terrible, cos for the last two years I didn't even see him cos he moved to an other town. I thought I would be comparing everyone to him for the rest of my life but thank god it eventually faded away since I got new people in my mind.

[Kalashnikov]

another 4 years person eh..

well at least you have moved on - thats a good thing to hear :)

[minori]

another 4 years person eh..

well at least you have moved on - thats a good thing to hear :)
I found an other person who became kinda long term crush, which looked almost as hopeles as the first one and to whom I compared everyone but that only lasted about six months until he became my boyfriend. So sometimes it's worth waiting. ^^

[Lucki]

i used to with a guy i knew since he moved where i am from kenya, so i basically grew up with him, we went out most of our childhood until we moved to another school together where a girl i already knew came along and split us up ;-; i was heartbroken for a year after that, but all that was ages ago^^

[Kalashnikov]

I found an other person who became kinda long term crush, which looked almost as hopeles as the first one and to whom I compared everyone but that only lasted about six months until he became my boyfriend. So sometimes it's worth waiting. ^^


ooh - thas great :) - yeah it is woth watiing sometimes :)

@xai - awwhh - sorri to hear that

[Atrias]

Heheh... ohh this subject is an emomaker... long term crushes crushed me...

I still have a crush on this girl, and im 20... I've never told her how I feel nor asked her out or anything... and I've known her since I was 14... 6 years this has been going on and every time I see her its painful and beautiful at the same time.

I'm sure I've left it too long now to be anything more than friends, so I say to all you guys and gals out there don't make the same mistake I did and just bloody go for it or you will never know what you could be missing.

[Xferox 02]

you think she deserve better? or you just think your not good enough for her?

[davidn15]

Yeah back in middle school i had one. 2 long years. Then we went to different high schools....

[Kray]

I had a few,
but they were pretty useless.

In the end i got hurt, badly, twice.
So I'm over it.

[Sweeney]

I had a long term crush on a girl that had just dumped me...yeah, bad idea.

I had convinced myself I loved her and that she'd come back to me, so I waited and waited, only to find out she had dated about four guys in the two month period since we broke up. Needless to say, it was a waste of my time.

[Xferox 02]

needless to say indeed, just fear that drives you crazy when you want to tell someone you like but your afraid that person wont accept you for who you are, or you think that your not good enough to be with him/her. but with the right support and a wise heart, you can always get over the bad results

[bbnflpn]

its a learning experience really

crushes are called that because they will CRUSH you emotionaly at times. you will get over it eventually.

the lasting effect of the crush will also guide you to your preferences towards partners later on. like the guy i mentioned. i know for a fact that because of me, he now has a thing for very large breasted women.

since i was a DD cup by the time i was 12, i think i was probably the first girl his age he saw fully developed, he told me in our conversations that he still has fantasies about that. he even told my boyfreind.

[Kimochi]

long term crushes is just a crush uu have it fer long.. well i did fer four years.. i just like the idea of having a crush on sumone.. not ready for relationship.. it helps me look ferward to another day.. another day of looking at sumone i really like..

[Kyoko<3!]

I had a crush on a girl for 3/4 of my high school years. She was the object of perfection in my eyes. Lol, needless to say I got turned down multiple times xD
Now she's going to college in Scotland, so there's not much I can do. I got over it eventually.

[Xferox 02]

if your too obsessed with that person you will do anything for him/her to notice you, even to the point of total lameness LOL, high school drama are so fun to watch, the ticket is free and you dont have to sit down for the whole time

[Ronin36]

I liked a girl for 2 years. I still know her, but she kind of hates me. I really liked her, but I didn't have the courage to do anything about it. Then I finally told her and she said she didn't even know me. I said that we could get to know each other, but she said she didn't care anyway. It sucked. I realize now that she REALLY didn't care, and I never should have liked her in the first place.

[Kimochi]

but sumtimes i realise its pointless to have a crush on sumone.. cuz uu noe uu wuun get him/her.. y bother looking at him/her.. y bother to make that person notice uu? y?!?! even to the most lame stuff!! its that giving the person bad first impression?

[Kray]

I actually hated having my long term crushes. I still hate crushes to this day.

Every time I see this one kid, still, I get all emotional. Bleh.
I hate that, it's just not me.

[Neko Rae]

Yeah, I don't like to have crushes. It's really annoying. Especially when the first person I had a crush on died before I got to tell him how I felt and I vowed never to have a crush on anyone ever again and now I have a crush on a guy again and I'm really upset about it

[KawaiiYukia]

aw, how sad ;_; I'm glad I never had a crush on anybody

[Aristocrat]

i hate having crushes...its tiring...and troublesome..and im too lazy to do that if i liked someone id tell them...then id now what they think...even if they dont like me more than a friend -_-

[rhoden23]

i agree with blushies long term crushes is troublesome and tiring.

[Neku]

Maybe when i was at school i had crushes for around a week before i asked the girl maybe a month at the most but but now i just cant be bothered with waiting, no point in waiting, go for whats right infront of you really.

[Kaze.]

i hate having crushes...its tiring...and troublesome..and im too lazy to do that if i liked someone id tell them...then id now what they think...even if they dont like me more than a friend -_-
lol i do the same thing... never really had a crush i was going out with a girl for like 8 months... then she moved back to sweden... now i'm single ... it's hard to like some1 else after that... every other girl to me is sorta like blah..idk

[Kibe]

i'm still currently in one! :///3

lol, i had this crush since... well... like... 6-7 months ago?

[Iro]

the longest long term crush i had was way back in highschool, I had this crush in this girl and also my classmate but she never knew I had a crush on her until her bestfriend told her... ^^

[Kimochi]

hmn..
i rather love crushes that relationship . it's more better and interesting . in relationship i always get bored easily . if i have crushes it's more interesting!

[.multi]

I used to like this girl for two years, then now I told her that I liked her a long time ago and she said she knew. :/

[~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™]

lol.. my longest one was like 1 year... it was after that when i told her myself ^^

[Sonuva Bleach]

:sad crushes are really strange:face82: In my experience they are awkward because of the fact that each time i talk to the person i have a crush on, I kinda tend to pretend that I don't have a crush on them. I know that it sounds paradoxical but sometimes that is all that one can do especially when you know that your crush is already involved with someone else. The most awkward crush that I have ever had started last year when I developed a crush on someone who lived on the same coridor as me ( our residence is a mixed residence i.e boys and girls live in the same building). At the time I didn't know that she was involved with someone. One day I knocked on her door and asked her if she could explain something to me that had been mantioned during the lecture. What I didn't know that she was with her Boyfriend at the time, so I went into her room and she introduced me to him. I was shocked and it all felt awkward. Now, whenever I speak to her boyfriend I kinda tend to get the feeling that he knows that I have a crush on her :Haha I still have a crush on her though....:rolleye09

[Sakura_Drops]

My longest crush..hmm..lasted about 2 and a half years. I hated it though, I really wanted to get over it =/ but emotions are emotions..such troublesome things.

[Lenne]

hmmm, my longest crush was a yr i think. i wanted to be with him so badly for some reason O.o kept confessing to him... but still got rejected.

lesson learned: NEVER beg >.>;;;;;

[SHiKaMaRi]

My longest was probably two months-ish. I just met the guy, and just made friends with him, but he was really kind and attractive XD It seems like he felt the same way.. he asked me out. Too bad that it ended last year though. We're still good friends, which is a good thing ^.^

[asian]

My longest crush was....three...almost...four years? It was with one of my friends from grade school. And we got pretty close but he didn't know, (but practically everyone else did. >.>) he's slow. But yeah, I told him I liked him during summer break and we didn't talk the whole summer. We talked again when class started again. I'm over him but we don't really talk anymore.

[Miss M]

I had a long term crush for about 1 year and 4 months.... :)
too bad he died last November... *sighs*
well... I didn't consider losing a crush though...
I lost a friend... ^^

[DireCry]

I remember in Primary School, I had a crush on a girl for more than 2 years, but she moved. I wish I told her how I felt.

[BabyLoving]

-DireCry
Awww. That's so sweet. (: LOL. (: Mine was three years ago and I had a crush on this popular guy in my school. Took me a whole lot of time to get over him. >.<

[sham16]

Long term crushes are good it tends to build up trust and would help you know each other.... This would also test your ability to hold your relationship against the test of time... So yeah better go on a long relationship first befire comitting to marraige..

[paige_]

i have.. its been 3 years and i still like-like him and it sucks big time... but we're good friends... and it's just a crush.. nothing more

[Momentum]

Hmm... I used to have a crush on this girl for two years then after I just grew out of her because of her personality. I'm pretty much over it... I just don't really care about her anymore...

[bbnflpn]

sure you do, just not in the same way. i still have mild crushes on all the people i had crushes on, even the one that ended up almost killing me in an accident (he was drunk and almost hit me head on if it were not for my quick reflexes) you will look back on your memories of her, and comparing her to others you will meet later on in life, in some way she has effected your life, and she will always be in your heart

[KuroIcchi]

i loved this particular girl for like 3 years and only found out that she also loved me for 3 years but in the end,guess what?we didn't work out..=/

[Kyoko<3!]

Crushes will always remain what they are.

Crushes.

[KuroIcchi]

makes a lot of sense there.
seriously,i agree that to a very large extent.
crushes will always remain crushes no matter what.

[FreedoM]

Having a long term crush is annoying indeed. Even worse knowing that you're crush is going out with someone now, which pretty feels like you got kicked in the you know what (coming from a guy). Currently, I do have a crush on someone for about 3-4 months, but I have mixed feelings about her. We are in the same class, but every time we get near each other for about 1 second we just walk in opposite directions. Pretty weird to be honest, but I do think he did like me at one point since she kept getting near me at random times. No idea what to do at this point =X

[Syph]

Crushes will always remain what they are.
Crushes.
Exactly. Crushes usually develop because of either how the person looks or how popular they are. Almost always the first. I mean, I've had crushes before, everyone has, but they don't usually turn into anything. And if they do, then chances are the relationship won't last. A relationship built on what you think a person is like and what they really are like isn't a real relationship. You never know if you truly love and care for someone unless you get to know them.

[Yuffie]

8D Yep, yep true 8D

I had this crush for a guy for 1 year and 4 months ><

[Kimochi]

0.o one yearr ish not that bad right ?
i once had a crush for four years . i never dared to tell him cux he ish really scary to talk to . ut he's hawt enuf to look at . ^^

[FreedoM]

Hot to look at, but scary to talk to? Weird combo =O

[♥ Tess]

i'm not good at keeping crushes.
i kinda make it pretty obvious that i like you.

plus it's hard having the same crush for a long period of time.

[Yuffie]

Hard? Uh.. Ya.. Well sometimes my crush get obvious because everytime he's around me I will get nervous.. A habit >< But now it's stabilized 8D

Hot to look at, but scary to talk to? Weird combo =O
Haha, definitely agree with this one 8D Well if you just try and talk to him it wouldn't hurt right? OMFS.. Pot calling kettle black ><

[Isis]

Well, I understand where you're coming from Lity. A guy can look good but once you get talking to him, you might realise that yes, he's the guy you were hoping for, or no, he's the biggest jerk ever. I've had that happen to me before. Shin, I know where you're coming from. I've had some guys I liked before state the obvious, or people get the wrong message because I hang out with guys <_<. My longest crush would have to be 4 years, but I think its normal to forget that you like him, especially when he's overseas most of the time *sigh*

[Yuffie]

Really.. *Pats
Oh well, I had this crush for a few months and then my "Crush Wire" in my head got cut off and I don't know why, but now I don't like the guy anymore.

[Isis]

That is called lust my dear. It happens sometimes, you feel like you're really into the guy but after a while, you realise you never really did like him. I liked my best friend before he became my best friend haha cept he was gonna leave so we didnt do anything about it hah.

[Yuffie]

TT^TT NUU!!

Eh well.. It's hard to have a crush eh? The longest crush I have is the crush I have now. I still like him ^^

[Isis]

I'll be stopping after this cause I dont wanna get a warning my dear :) It's always hard to have a crush, a lot of pondering and wondering what you need to do but if he ends up liking you, that's a good thing. All the best with your current crush, chii :)

[Yuffie]

Sankyuu.. Oh well, I guess I have to stop too ^^


-Elocin Edit:

Too late.

5%.

Caught you on other spam as well.

[Kimochi]

Hot to look at, but scary to talk to? Weird combo =O

yea kindda weird .. he so hot but he never smile .. so scary .. i actually try to talk to him . a one liner qn.. he ans one liner too . so i jux got the feeling he's scary ..

[Miss M]

somebody kill me now... ;_;
well... I met my long lost cousin for 8 years... and I find him quiet cute...
gaah... this is incest I tell ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;_;
so... what should I do to avoid this kind of crap? >_>

[Envy]

Yes, I've had quite a long term crush. I don't typically have crushes, but this one won't go away... and it's driving me insane. Plus it's a lot stronger then any crushes I've had in the past, which scares me. O_O

[Isis]

Driving you insane in a good way? How long have you had this crush for? It sounds rather intense, perhaps you might want to tell him? Unless he ignores or doesnt know you exist.

Miyunami hun, its ok to find your relatives cute/hot/wtv as long as you dont start developing a crush for them. I understand how some people's mindsets are not to see their own blood as something other people want but the thing is, it happens. I mean I know a lot of my guy friends who tease their other friends, saying their bro/sis is hot. I'm not one of those people. I think my sister is pretty and my bro cute but I dont fall for them. I swear, there are too many good looking people in my family but my love for them is always platonic.

[Yuffie]

I find my brother good looking too >< So shameless 8D Maybe sometimes girls fall in love with their siblings for no reason or maybe they think their siblings are HAWT. But you can say it's nature =3 Even an idiot like me likes my siblings for no reason.

[Miss M]

ohh....*ish relieved*
I think this'll wear off... :)
I was just a little worried there... >_>''

[Kimochi]

wow .. how cann uu eventually like ur own bro . i mean it will fell weird .. but cousins are fine cuz they are not siblings .. i find my cousins how too !! the way they talk to uu and stuff ..

[Hunni3]

LOL i dont consider 2nd cousins actual family. so is flirting with them ok? NO?!?!!? well too late :p

lol long term crushes suck it prevents you from moving on in life and constantly relating every detail back towards your crush. Ive liked this guy for like 4 years and he rarely speaks to me. a rumour went around that i liked him ( which i denied) and he brushed it off saying it wasnt true . and now hes dating my best friend which totally sucks T_T

[Isis]

Oh wow, talk about major heartbreak. Well, having a long crush would definitely differ for everybody. I mean the guy I liked was really accepting because of the distance between us but I would give anything just to be with him. Distance is cruel *sigh*

[SoundWave]

yea kindda weird .. he so hot but he never smile .. so scary .. i actually try to talk to him . a one liner qn.. he ans one liner too . so i jux got the feeling he's scary ..
Ehh.. lol.. that seems pretty normal to me.. >.>

But I dunno the circumstances so..

[jemz09]

I have one.. well two actually XD

One is like.. two years and the other one is like a year already.. let's see..

I don't know about the other guy whom I had a crush on for two years since I have lots of crushes XD

But I dunno.. I feel like I don't have a crush on him anymore.. but then .. sometimes the feeling would come back >.>

[Alex26]

I had 2, one that i had for like 3 years, and another one on high that lasted 2 years, never got the courage of asking them about how they felt or anything, now they are pregnant, arent studying and both of them are pretty much f up ... well on the positive side, it could've been me whose future would be f up :whatevah:

that sounds cold, but its the truth :sad

[MiniMog]

I had two. *gasp* The first one, went on for a year &a half.

The other one lasted for three months, I met him by the school rooftop &then I realized he was a Nihon-jin [AWW. <33333 Happiest days of my life~!!] we started talking about stuff &he asked me for lunch. I had a crush on him for 3 whole months before we became best friends.


~MiniMog

[Yuffie]

I have one.. well two actually XD

One is like.. two years and the other one is like a year already.. let's see..

I don't know about the other guy whom I had a crush on for two years since I have lots of crushes XD

But I dunno.. I feel like I don't have a crush on him anymore.. but then .. sometimes the feeling would come back >.>
Yep, it happened to me too!! oo(><)oo
But now I have no expression. This year I liked no one ><

[Future]

There is a couple of girls online that i kinda like... and have for a while...

[DespoticWalnut]

I did at one point, this year, I met her and couldn't work up the courage to ask her out for 4 months and when I finally did she said yes right off. then I regreted not asking sooner, we're now very happy together...actually this is the happiest time of my life now.

[DatLatina!]

one time i guy asked me out when i was in 5 th while he was 6 th now hes in 8 th and were in the same school again.he asked me and this was the time i didn't like him then i realized i did then i liked him but it was too late he went out with my friend and i said shoot there's more people so then i moved on to somebody else and his name was carlos but i don't like him anymore

[Miyagi Rikku]

Well. Ok. Not exactly a crush right.

*cough* Ive already told this story in the other thread.

When I was in 5th grade I was applying for varsity and I saw this
girl. She was pretty and all that she was a 4th grader. My aggressive
'friend' is trying to get me with her but I know it wouldnt happen anyway.
I had the chance to touch her hand at least once...I turned into an apple.

Uh..then we still attended the same school. I always see her with her
friends. I would always write her letters. Like, Happy Bday and how is
she doing and stuff like that and pass it on to my friend that is her friend
too. She is smart as well. I got her phone number and I would call but hang
up and sometimes just say whats up. It went on for like 6 years...a part of me still likes her. Well, my boyish side...if I could go out with a girl. I
would go out with her.
So lets count...

1999-2007 = 8 yrs?
*nods* No, I am not a lesbian. I just happen to fall in love with her out
of nowhere. ._.

[Heart <3]

I've never had a crush on anybody yet. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

[Malice]

I have a few crushes here in CB and a few in RL. But I worry on rejection so I do little or nothin to express it. I really wish I did in the past.

[Miyagi Rikku]

I have a few crushes here in CB and a few in RL. But I worry on rejection so I do little or nothin to express it. I really wish I did in the past.
I got one crush in CB :3

and having no crush is normal. I used to not have any and so is my cousin.

[Neko Rae]

I've only had three RL crushes and two of them were really short and I couldn't figure out why I liked them in the first place. I also had a crush on my best friend but he died :(

I've also had 5 e-crushes but none of them ever felt the same way about me :sad

I don't have much luck when it comes to these things

[Malice]

@ hirahira: nor do I. It's not easy to find someone who is attracted to someone such as I.

[~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™]

well its hard to maintain long term crushes, and i usually doesnt do any good. I've held one before years ago, for about 1 year... it doesnt do any good, it just makes u want the person more than ever, but usually its to no avail ^^

[Silentstrike]

Hmm... I've liked a girl since Feb. 2006. Yeah, I tried to ask her out twice, and was shot down. I've kept my distance this year, so I won't tempt myself to ask her again. Iunno if she's not wanting a bf now, or if she doesn't like me. She's not gay, though.

It's like #1 on my list of questions.

[Domhnall]

Damn you, Rachael! With her starting the entire thing by suddenly hanging around with me and giving me a Christmas present out of nowhere and inviting me out only to say no then appear again much later and suggest a possibility but say no whilst in the next breath essentially saying there's a chance and then inviting me out camping only for that to be scuppered at the last minute by being called into work ( I got called into work) and then hanging around with her for a while and then her disappearing again but phoning me and saying she's got me a birthday present!

Well, needless to say she's pretty, kind, smart and has the biggest most beautiful eyes...Plus she's a redhead...Which is always good...

So..That's been the last year and a half of my life...

On the negative side though she has a bad taste in music but no one's perfect (she doesn't like The Beatles but believes Queen are the best band ever!).

:musak:

[bleach_4_ever]

Sry man but I THINK (notice the word THINK) your a back-up to her, so that if she had trouble with her love life, she'll alwayz have you

[Future]

There is someone on CB that i kinda like i guess, and this girl at my school who i wouldn't mind going out with

[DatLatina!]

i had a 2 yr. crush on someone then i said f**k it

[Harley Quinn]

Had a crush on this guy I new at school, he was in my tutor group so that means I started liking him when I was 11.I'm 21 now & I still have dreams about him.Think I still have dreams about him caus I kind consider him as the one who got away I suppose.

[DatLatina!]

my crush got in a fight with someone i knew

[Xkavanger]

The longest I've ever had lasted for four years

It was on and off...

and the way it ended was bad...

My best friend told him and then the guy hated me for the rest of :\

ah well, he was a jerk.. and if my mate didn't tell him, I wouldnt've stopped liking him
and I owe my buddy for that, but he cost me a great friendship.. which I hate him for

This guy I used to like, well... he was my exact double and now its all gone u.u

he's not even a friend anymore :\

oh well, Life goes on ^ ^

[DatLatina!]

what confuses me is when people go out with each other it then doesn't work out then they get together then they don't then they do and they don't again.My uncle whos in jail now went on and off with his gf but since he was throwin in jail maybe like a few months ago i think they were goin 2 get married but then she was still married 2 another guy and idk about the divorce know but i guess their still together even if hes in jail.

but anyway back to the subject i don't realy like long-term crushes they just lose intrest in the ppl and then u realize ull never get to get together with them as long as their dif. from what u expect.but i think my longest crush was like 2-3 yrs then he asked me out but then i realized he liked my other friend to cause i couldn't giv him answer so he asked my friend and she said no to him cause sh had a boyfriend.so im like whatever i need 2 get on with my life

[Harley Quinn]

Crushes are soooo confusing.I hate them.

[$ãsµK€]

I move on.

You'd be suprised how fast.

And yet. I'm barely a teen

[Fujiwara Ayumi]

maybe the longest i have was 3 years. then suddenly my feelings faded that's when i really started to have boyfriends.:)

[HitsugayaEX]

wow you seem like hiatina(sp)

[DatLatina!]

i hate waitin 4 crushes 2 like u

[adorkable]

i hate waitin 4 crushes 2 like u
And yet, sometimes they never really find out that you like them.

Do you reckon it's better to tell your crush that you like him/her or just keep it a secret to yourself?

[DatLatina!]

yea sometimes i do.ur ttly right

[Artemis]

I have a friend who is still having a crush on a girl he knew in....I think grade 3...
let's do math, children...
my friend n' I are in Year 9 (Aus schooling...)
9-3= An amazing 6 years!

But it's nice in a way. He tries his best everytime Valentines Day comes around, but he's shy. I think he left a bunch of roses on her door this time, (everyone's queue to say "awwwww")

Nice guy though. I think it's about time he actually tried to ask her out. 6 years and not a single attempt...

[♥ Tess]

^that's pretty sad.
Is he even friends with her?

[Nesquik]

9 months count?
cause that's the time i've had a crush on.... someone

[Kuroi Getsuga Tenshou]

I had one of those, but I hated myself cause it just made me look like a coward, I mean having that feelin't is cool and everything but the longer you keep it the less confident you become,l after a while you'll have problems if you decide to confess your love....

I got dumped yeah....

[Shezmu]

I had one or two in the past.. but meh i guess i'd just tell the girl now, i feel like a coward if i have a crush for more then a month and i don't have the guts to tell het =(

[Artemis]

^that's pretty sad.
Is he even friends with her?

kinda.
He's less obsessed nowadays, which is good for him...and somewhat her.

But I remember in Grade 6, like 1/2 in the class liked her. I was one of the few that didn't. I was always kinda her friend, so it didn't really matter to me whether she was going out with someone or not.

Did I mention that every year some of the other guys would hold contests on who could guess what he did for Valentines? That's how well known his crush was, even though he wouldn't admit it...most of the time

[DatLatina!]

i always wonder if high skool crushes can last

[Nicole]

They can.... mine lasted for a long ass time. Like... 6+ months. =x

Then again, I'm one of those people who, it takes alot for me to fall for someone, but when I do, I REALLY fall for the guy.

[ichigo81195]

Mylongest has been quite a few years I still like him too!!

[DatLatina!]

mine is done my crush 4 3 yrs. i lost intrest hes in freshman yr. already and im in 8th grade so whatever

[emmasu]

thank god, i never had any crushes, i guess its the way around, guys had crushes on me,

i knew about them, but i was ok with them, i mean i feel sorry for them

[lorraineChan]

I don't have long term crushes....

[Hathore]

i have had two long relationships

[Neko Rae]

I'm one of those people who, it takes alot for me to fall for someone, but when I do, I REALLY fall for the guy.
It's the same for me. It takes a long time for me to like someone but when I do I really, really like them. I get almost obssessed with them and can't stop thinking about them and then suddenly, after a few months, I stop liking them.
It's really wierd and it's been like that every single time :sad

[peppertrapped]

I think people love to have crushes because having one is exciting and more fun than being in the relationship... because in that state, there is lesser chance of getting hurt compared to actually being in a relationship with your crush. All you do is daydream about him/her, get goosebumps when you see him/her, all smiles all day... that sort of stuff... completely intoxicating...

[Artemis]

I have a friend who is still having a crush on a girl he knew in....I think grade 3...
let's do math, children...
my friend n' I are in Year 9 (Aus schooling...)
9-3= An amazing 6 years!

But it's nice in a way. He tries his best everytime Valentines Day comes around, but he's shy. I think he left a bunch of roses on her door this time, (everyone's queue to say "awwwww")

Nice guy though. I think it's about time he actually tried to ask her out. 6 years and not a single attempt...

I said this I think about 4 or 5 pages back. Well this is an update for those who care...

2 friends and I are now attempting to get this relationship finally going. We're pitiful and such. So we're planning to organize and fund his attempt to get the girl his likes.

I think I can officially declare it 'love' as most crushes wouldn't last 6 years. Which is why i've decided to help him, because I truly believe that he is in 'love' with her...
even though we're in Year 9. Nevertheless, gives me a chance to practice my skills in lying, funding and such... XD

So here's what we're doing.
Scorch's TRUE attempt to help his friend Calvin the girl he's liked for 6 years.

Our budget is ruffly 50 dollars.
The lady, who's name is Kris, is on a holiday to China. So the plan is to get her during Term 3 which is in about 2 weeks.

I'll update you guys during the week.

[peppertrapped]

True, e-gramps, your friend Calvin needs a little push over there...

[Artemis]

Hm, seems like only one person really cares...
oh well.

-==mini update==-
The idiot didn't accept, even after a whole bunch of other guys asked him too.

Must be that we all feel quite sorry for him. 6 years is a real long time, if you've realized...

And apparently we don't know all of it, according to Mr. Calvin. There's some thing that affects the situation, and the reason he hasn't spilled it is because he shares it with the only person he would:
Kris...

So, we're gonna talk to Kris about this.

Are we going overboard? Yes, yes we are.

[peppertrapped]

Maybe he already asked her, and he got rejected... Maybe he's just respecting her wishes or something...

Or perhaps... if you help him, it'll push his loser status way beyond helping... it would look like he couldn't even get his own girl (well, he really couldn't, but accepting help actually shouts it out in public, doesn't it?)

[Artemis]

We've decided to give up on him...
For real. We've lost all hope in his ability to gain enough courage...

Or like my friend said
"Even God can't convince you"

[peppertrapped]

I think it's better off that way... I mean, if he can't even muster the courage to ask her, how could he sustain the relationship, right?

[Artemis]

Well, if he got to the stage of actually committing towards each other, then perhaps it would 'clear' sailing from there...

But the "unknown info" that he keeps to himself is the main thing...

what if they're already going out... What if she's told him 'No'....

Oh and another thing, she kinds half-flirts with all the guys she knows... some more than others, but nevertheless....

[peppertrapped]

As you said, the unknown thing is the main thing... so, it's pointless to ponder on his whatifs with Kris... Until someone spills the beans that is

[Artemis]

I'll just punch Calvin until he tells me XD...
jk, it's a stalemate that doesn't have to be one...

[peppertrapped]

It's frustrating to see something with so much potential go to waste, ain't it gramps?

[Artemis]

Sure is, granddaughter.

And they look so good together...
then again I look good with her, so I guess it's the lack of courage that stops them...

[peppertrapped]

why don't you make a move, if you look good together... wahahahha
XD

[Hathore]

i have a long term crush on some one but they dont know im alive

[peppertrapped]

i have a long term crush on some one but they dont know im alive

It's usually like this when it comes to long term crushes... don't end up like scorch's friend Calvin... make your move man!

[5th of April]

i have a long term crush on some one but they dont know im alive

Go and get your guy/girl! Regret is the most bitter tasting fruit in the world.

As for my self, I don't have a long term crush. But i have lots and lots of crushes. Superficiality... that slides off every after few days of bathing.

But love, is another story.
:musak: