Help?! >_>;

[Dounick]

Ok, I have this friend named "Bob" (not the real name of course)

Bob's engaged to Marilynn. (but the lucky girl lives in another country and they never get to see each other)

And Bob was walking around one day and ran into their old friend Julia. (not realy name either)

Julia started coming onto Bob, and Bob didn't know what to do.

Julia asked Bob if he'd like to go to the "movies" with her this coming Friday. (real time/date) And during the time, Julia was all touchy touchy.

Even though Bob knows whats best, he still has doubts. (like should he do it/her secretly or forget about Marilynn and be with Julia instead)

Bob's only biggest concern is the fact that they live so far appart from each other now. And he needs your advice.



Edit:
-___- and ive been asked this
Bob isnt me!

[Planeswalker]

Randomness is not the place to ask for this help...

He shouldent do it. Its as ****ing simple as that.

[Boko]

We men cant have onley one chic, its inside our genes! But it all comes down to if Bob loves Marilynn then he shouldn't do anything with Julia.

[Aristocrat]

err...if bob cnt say no to julia then he should write a letter saying he was engaged to somebody else and that he was sorry and that it was hard telling her in person ^^ i think a letter is the best way to express ur feelings

[sto67]

if bob still loves marilyn then he shouldnt do i mean be with julia.

if bob has doubts about his relationships then call it quits cos bob was never serious enough in the first place. THEN be with julia. but bob should in no way two time.

and ffs just use first person its only the internet.

[Xkavanger]

Give it more time.. Bob should think about it before he acts.

Does Bob like Marilynn still?? If not then time should take its toll... Bob shouldn't rush

If he comes to the conclusion of being with Julia, then Bob should tell Marilynn the situation...

[SoundWave]

lol.. dude I dun think I can answer this for you, but... "bob" will have to decide what's right and wrong.. Anyways whatever "bob" decides to do, dun forget to talk to "Marilyn" if "bob" decides to go with "Julia".. Because "Marilyn" deserves to know..

I can tell ya what I would do if I were "bob".. I would stay with "Marilyn" and see how far it could go, no need to mess things up atm.. (forget about "julia" at least for now)

[Dounick]

lol.. dude I dun think I can answer this for you, but... "bob" will have to decide what's right and wrong.. Anyways whatever "bob" decides to do, dun forget to talk to "Marilyn" if "bob" decides to go with "Julia".. Because "Marilyn" deserves to know..
I can tell ya what I would do if I were "bob".. I would stay with "Marilyn" and see how far it could go, no need to mess things up atm.. (forget about "julia" at least for now)
ugh i know that, i only made this thread to show the retard about it

Dx

dont get mad at me

[SoundWave]

lol.. nicky.. I'm not mad.. Dx

it was just a piece of advise

[Dounick]

lol.. nicky.. I'm not mad.. Dx

it was just a piece of advise
>_>;
well "Bob" has a serious case of a disease called "MORONIDITY"

and wouldnt just take my word over it

[Xkavanger]

Dw dude... nobody is mad at you lol

Just tell the dude what YOU think is right

[Dounick]

well there another thing

"Bob" has just come up with yet another "reason" -_-

"Bob" wants to get laid, but knows that this isnt the way, but he also is questioning the fact that "when im i going to get it next?"

[SoundWave]

>_>;
well "Bob" has a serious case of a disease called "MORONIDITY"
and wouldnt just take my word over it
then it's his loss..

[Dounick]

ty all for you ever support and making me feel like an idiot

ty as well for those who think im Bob

-___-

[The_Supervisor]

lol. Bob should let his brains decide, not his hormones =P

[Pipp-ORK]

Bob is an ass. =O

Obviously, if he's engaged, he shouldn't go off having sex fests with this other woman. He should just tell her he has a wife-to-be, and hopefully she'll go the hell away. :Domo

[Helikaon]

I agree, I mean bloody hell, what he just wants to get laid? well he can go off and hire a bloody prostitute if he isnt happy with poor marilyn and ditch the seriousness because if he says he wants to marry her he has to take into account the fact that he might not be able to see her for a while.

[Xferox 02]

i would leave the far away one, but it depends on how long its gonna take her to get back

[Pipp-ORK]

If he leaves his fiancé to "get laid", he really wouldn't deserve to get her back.

If I was her, I'd set the ****er's house on fire for even THINKING about dumping me for the whore.

[Xferox 02]

its his fiance? oh ok nvm

[Mighty Aramir]

Bob has to be more of a man, he has to be honest with himself and with his fiancee, look deep into himself and find out if he prefers getting married or go off to a wild night of sex. But anyways, i think he is an asshloe for allowing this kind of behavior

[Xferox 02]

yeah then i'll pick the honest bob, be the man

[Kray]

"Bob" is in his relationship with another person. He needs to tell "Julia" and let her know that he is taken. That's that.

[LemonTaste]

Fu*k Julia, not literally.

Sex is sex, much easier to obtain than a meaningful relationship. If Maryln turns out to be a mistake, then I'm sure Julia will still be as frisky as before, so there is nothing to fret about.

[Daifuku]

I dont even know why some pple get engaged... while knowing that they are far away o_o

you either choose "Marilyn" or "Julia"
one lose, one wins but seriously, no one wins neither "lose" xD <- if you get the point hehe >.>

and, if he wants to get laid... then... its his decision XD cuz there are some risks out there.

[Xferox 02]

doesn't matter if bob, really love the girl over sea he should wait, when she come back he can screw her as many times as he want with ouy worrying about anything

[Evanesque]

I think bob should use his head and think of the innocent people involved like Marilyn, who has no clue what's going on. i won't say that he should've said no to Julia (since they're old mates and all) but if he really loves Marilyn, he should at least stop her advances and tell her about marilyn.

And someone really needs to let marilyn know about what's going on.

[Arei]

Marilyn should just ditch Bob =P They're already engaged and they've made that promise to get married. Its a big red flag; if Bob is already thinking about fooling around and having sex with other women to get his "fill", then whats not to say that if when they're married that one of them may go out of town for a long time that he still won't fool around? He's not in the casual dating, or even the serious dating stage anymore, he's up in the bigtime of marriage.

Marriage is a life-long bond and shouldn't be taken as lightly as bob might've taken his relationships in HS/college, they're a binding contract to one another as long as they live.

Its not always the right thing to go up to someones significant other and tell them about their lover's cheating. Bob needs to do some soul searching and find out if he is ready for marriage or still in the wild sex all the time stage. If he is he should break it off with his fiance so he doesn't end up hurting her in the long run. If he truely wants to marry Marylin, then he should break it off with Julia and anyone else and stay true to his future wife.

I'm sure that most married men and women DO atleast think about what it would be like to have sex with others, but when they get nearly in that situation and have to contemplate their "need" for sex or loyality to their spouse, its a litty iffy.

Again if Bob values sex above love, then he doesn't need to get married, plain and simple.

Sex isn't really nessicary for your own personal survival >.>

[Xferox 02]

the engaged part just kills it

[iladys]

Well I agree with what everybody has said. We're all taking Marilyn's side here. As much as he wants to get 'laid', he proposed to Marilyn didn't he? And he seriously needs to think about her feelings in this. He's not taking her seriously if he's letting his hormones to the talking. And there are girls out there who want to go after an attached man for the thrill of something they possibly cannot obtain, and ditch the idiot when they have him cause there's no more thrill.

[Xferox 02]

lol if he can clone him self then evreythnig would be solved

[~Anime4Life~]

NO! just no...... any guy who will cheat on his fiancé desurves a beeting!!!! and if he wants to do it so badly he should just masturbate, and who cares if its not enough! its better then nothing

[Xferox 02]

yeah if they are engaged then bob shouldn't such thing, but if they were just dating then he can do what ever he want

[~Anime4Life~]

yeah if they are engaged then bob shouldn't such thing, but if they were just dating then he can do what ever he want
even dateing is wrong >< unless he planned on breaking up with her then its a little better but its still wrong

[Xferox 02]

if they were just dating he can just feel about which one he loves the most, then go for it and break up with the other one

[Pipp-ORK]

Even if they were just casually dating, it's a pretty ***** thing to do. There's SUPPOSED to be a level of commitment there somewhere, and cheating is a pretty low thing to do in any relationship.

Marilynn should dump him. He obviously doesn't care enough about her to stay faithful, and even having to take time to decide what to do in such a situation shows how much of an ass he is.

[Xferox 02]

dump the far away one first then get together with the close one

[Pipp-ORK]

Or stab the close one in the FACE for being a blatant harlot and set Bob's house on fire for being a jerk. =O

[Fearful Shino]

Well, if he wants to get laid so quickly, he might as well go to a red light district. ish he ready to take on the consquences of julia becoming pregnant? WELL? ISH HE READY TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT?

[Sakura]

ugh! i come to this thread so late!

bob is an idiot. bob should never get engaged or married if he can't stay faithful even if the fiance is far far away under circumstances we don't know. bob should end things with marilyn before bob does anything to julia because i'm pretty sure marilyn will come home and beat both bob and julia's asses. everytime i say bob a kitten dies. i think i'll stop saying bob :lol

[Thelindra]

omg....what kind of man is this >_>;

since he decided to get married, he shld stick with it. But it doesn't seem like he can do it cuz he already having 2nd thoughts >_>;

Sometimes i wonder did hormones infested his brains =/

Marilynn is one unlucky overseas girl whos gonna end up hurt. No wait, she juz belong to the general catergory cuz guys like this are just too common. Like what Boko said, We men cant have onley one chic, its inside our genes!

I would pray to heavens that i rather remain single all my life than to end up in misery over a failed mariage. X_X

[Dounick]

i got some kicks out of what some people said xD

There's SUPPOSED to be a level of commitment there somewhere.
>_>; yea, what happened there....
cheating on me with old chucko
*cries in corner*




but as for the latest bob news
>_<
hes recently locked himself in his room because he doesnt know what the hell hes susposed to do.
and i thank the person who moved this to growing up, because this is the exact thing i wanna show him when he lurks outa that room
>_<

[Pipp-ORK]

>_>; yea, what happened there....
cheating on me with old chucko
*cries in corner*

PSSHHH, LIIIEESS, I did not. I logged on one morning and there was an anti-Chuck thread, because Chuck tried to steal your e-wife or something, and then war broke out. I KNEW NOTHING~ u_u The Chuck account was a joke, anyway. :Domo

hes recently locked himself in his room because he doesnt know what the hell hes susposed to do.

I think it's pretty obvious that he shouldn't do Julia. :Domo

[Icchy <3]

Flip a coin? >_>

[Thelindra]

thats worse, leaving yur fate in the hands of luck and chance X_X

[Livius]

no way he shouldn't do it if he really loves Marilynn and goes with Julia he'll have that on his conscience and feel guilt..so i say no...

[pikmin94]

i dunno =/


maybe bob should choose on his own, its not that hard if you know who you really want.

[Kuro-Chan]

like everyone said,if bob loves marilynn,then he shouldn't have anything to do julia..not break off ties but remain as just frens..bob shouldn't let his hormones get over his conscience or his brains...=D..he should know his emotions to marilynn by now i suppose..if not,he will need more time to think...

[Xferox 02]

like i said before the engagement is the only problem, if bob aint getting married he can just break up with the other one if he wants, but moraly he shouldn't

[AvidoWA]

if its true love ... than he shouldn't have temptation otherwise its just not meant to be