I need some advice

[~Anime4Life~]

THIS PROBLEM IS SOVLED BTW
theres no were else to go but here, ive been crying since last night, it wont stop
i love him but he wont belive me when i say "im sorry" he says ive lost his trust he says i wont do anything he tells me to. i was so bilnd i couldnt see what i was doing. i want him to forgive me so badly, id die for him. last night he went to the hosbital because he could barely move his jaw and they said he was under extrem stress, its my fault i just wish i could fix my mistakes. i love him
Edit: one thing i forgot to add, when i heard he was angry at me and that he was going out and wont be back i ran strait over there, as fast as i could. for once i didnt care if anyone saw me all i could think about was that i love him. i told him i was so sorry and i held him so tightly but he still didnt belive me...

[xDemonDogx]

omg...these things happen in life...i feel with ya Anime....as time passes by stay with him....is the only thing i can say for ya

[Mighty Aramir]

give time to the time.... wise words, be patient, if you really love him you can wait, and if he really loves you, he'll forgive you, and you can regain his trust, true love its like water, its always finds its way, no matter how dark, how gloomy the moment is, if there is real love, you'll be fine, if not... Im sure that if there is no love, you'll get over it, for love always rewards those who paciently wait for it...

[Lucki]

aww...*hugs* what aramir said is true if he loves you he will forgive you, just hang in there and time will sort it out...trust the corny phrase i go by it makes me feel better through tough times^^ what is meant to be will be, everything happens for a reason, so maybe your relationship is going through a rough patch, if it is meant to be you will pull through it and it will be fine^^. As long as you really are sorry he will see that, reassure him and give it time^_^...so dry your eyes and trust the corny phrase

[~Anime4Life~]

one thing i forgot to add, when i heard he was angry at me and that he was going out and wont be back i ran strait over there, as fast as i could. for once i didnt care if anyone saw me all i could think about was that i love him. i told him i was so sorry and i held him so tightly but he still didnt belive me...

[xDemonDogx]

Dont give up!!!!Jus dont give up

[Mighty Aramir]

yeah... we support you girl... if he doesnt realize how you feel for him... well he's gotta to be blind

[~Anime4Life~]

yeah... we support you girl... if he doesnt realize how you feel for him... well he's gotta to be blind
i made the same mistake 3 times, i promised him id go and i didnt. i even lied to him once. thats why he doesnt belive me

[Mighty Aramir]

ohhh, that puts things in perspective... why did you lie?

[xDemonDogx]

Dont give up!!!from mistakes you learn i hope but still dont give up!

[~Anime4Life~]

ohhh, that puts things in perspective... why did you lie?
i guess it was because i was going threw my period :(

[Lucki]

aww babes..*hugs*..thats a tricky situation you have there:(..have you spilled your heart out told him everything you think, you feel, exposed yourself to him and said that you trust him with all yourself and secrets and you hope one day he could trust you again..hmm thats sorta mushy but you never know^^...again with the corny phrase it what happens is ment to.....

[Mighty Aramir]

well, honesty its really important in a relationship, and it was wrong to have lied... but now, you have to learn from your mistake as AH said, if you really want him back, change first, be honest, prove him that your sincere and reliable

[Evanesque]

Um, i'm sorry but can I ask what exactly happened?

[~Anime4Life~]

Um, i'm sorry but can I ask what exactly happened?
ive been with him for 2 months now, he hates it when i skip school but i skipped anyways forgetting what he said and he fainly got anrgy and told me "do what you want, i dont care anymore" then he told me he was going and wont be back later. i logged off and ran striat to him and told him i wanted to talk. we walked outside and he said, "i dont care anymore you've lost my trust thats all i have to say". i said, "im sorry.. im so sorry Dan". he said, "i dont belive you" i asked, "why?" he said, "because you wont do anything i ask you to, you just push it aside" i said, "im sorry... but this morning i though whats more important? my heath or an exam i can do on monday" he said, "your not gonna die if you go, i went to school when i was feeling sick you can to". i said "im sorry..." he said, "i just dont want you to fail and drop out like i did" i huged him and said, "im sorry" and he said, "i dont belive you" it was so hard to keep from crying. i said, "what can i do for you?" he said, "Trust is very hard to regain and you've lost mine" i said, "just tell me anything i can do and ill do it" i could feel him shaking from the cold. he said, "just go home me and Josh are going to the store we'll talk some more tomorrow after Josh leaves" i said, "ok, i hope you have a goodnight" he said, "i dout it but ill try, and dont get to depressed" i said, "thank you"

[xDemonDogx]

:( :( :( :( :(


But wy sdis ya skip class..........the onyl thng i can say Stay with him in the hospital stay and support him and say something lieke this: I will never lie etc.

[Kalashnikov]

i still cant believe that - hes angry at you for such a minor reason...

just keep with him - show him you love him - and like its been said before if he loves you he will forgive you. Try not to keep making the same mistakes.

awwh - this is so sad..

[~Anime4Life~]

theres some more to add on i didnt have enough time cause my mom was bugging me to get off the computer this is our conversation online after i went to his house
Me: hey
Him: hi
Me: whats up?
Him: nothing
Me: ok
Me: what did you wanna tell me online?
Him: nothing right now
Me: ok
Me: *sigh*
Him: what
Me: just sad
Him: ah
Me: meh..
Him: meh
Me: *sigh*
Him: still sad?
Me: yes
Me: im so stupid..
Me: *sigh*
Me: are you still there?
Him: kinda
Me: ok
Me: *sigh*
Him: gotta go to the hospital
Me: how come?
Him: jaw is locked, could be tension
Me: :(
Him: i can barely open it
Me: i can find anything to say ><
Him: well it may be your fault
Me: how?
Him: stressing me out
Me: im sorry :(
Him: gonna head to the hospital bbl
Me: hope you get better
Me: :(
Him: i'm back
Me: welcome back
Me: how did it go?
Him: not too good
Me: what happned?
Him: i'm under extreme stress
Me: :(
Me: ...
Me: i wish there was something i could do
HIm: you've done enough
Me: ?
Me: what do you mean by that?
Him: nothing
Me: :(
Me: is it my fault?
Him: little bit
Me: :( im sorry
Me: :(
Me: i wish i could show you how much i care
Me: *sigh*
Me: im going to bed.. but i dout ill get a single moment of sleep
Him: =/
Me: goodnight
Him: bye
Me: i love you..

[Kalashnikov]

*hugs*

i cant imagine how hard this must be for you...but i have to say - hes not making it any easier. im not sure what you could do.
there has to be some way you can show him how much you really love him - you just have to find out how..

ahh this is so sad..

[~Anime4Life~]

*hugs*

i cant imagine how hard this must be for you...but i have to say - hes not making it any easier. im not sure what you could do.
there has to be some way you can show him how much you really love him - you just have to find out how..

ahh this is so sad..
btw after i said, "i love you.." i waited 3 minetes and he didnt say anything

[Kalashnikov]

thats not good...

has he said he loves you?

[~Anime4Life~]

thats not good...

has he said he loves you?
yes he has many times before, in fact he was the first one who said it

[Kalashnikov]

well if he still loves you - he should definately forgive you.

because if he still loves you - this should be affecting him a great deal aswell, and the only way for him to solve his problems would be to make everything better by forgiving you

well at least thats what i hope.

[Atrias]

Hey, *hugs*

Thats so suckish... just hang in there... it sounds like he's being a little stubborn to me but maybe thats just my take on the situation. Its all to easy to spout stuff like "if its meant to be, its meant to be" and "just be patient he'll come around" (no offence to anyone here who said that, hehe) but its honestly true... sure it sucks... but its probably the only thing to say.

If he doesn't come around, then maybe he wasn't the guy who you thought ht was...

Don't worry, though he said trust is a hard thing to rebuild... it isn't, sure maybe getting things back to the level they were before might be, but he can't stay mad at you forever and he'll at least be able to TALK to you about it soon. I bet my hat on it.

[BabyLoving]

I think he is kinda weird to get angry over something like that. And I seriously think he doesn't like you anymore, because if a guy truly likes a girl, he would not make her feel guilty at all. And if he still loves you, he would tell you he loves you too. Maybe you think I'm too cold or hard, but I feel that these are just what you need to know. Instead of having false hope.

[Vladimir]

hmn . i got this b4 . when i got into this, i cried like uu do . but as time passes uu'll forget abt it . if he really loves uu he will come back to uu . give him some space first . den after that uu can ask whether he forgives uu or he still love uu . if not just move on . if yes good for uu .


pls close?

[Elocin]

Hmmm.... I hate to be a crazy pseudo-mod, but if problems are solved, shouldn't the thread be closed? =o

But I'm glad the problems been solved and stuff. :)