How to RUIN a Date...

[♥ Tess]

What things can ruin a date for you


Discuss/Post things that will just kill a date for you.
(especially if its a 1st)


If you already had a bad date and want to share some specific things that ruined it, go ahead.

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if your stuck:
Think about the key things you would want in a Good date,
...now think of the complete OPPOSITE of that...


optional: Do you yourself have any BAD habits? >.>
(answer if you want)

[Starlight]

Eating like you have no table manners always ruins a date. It's annoying when people talk to you with food in their mouths.

[Mighty Aramir]

when the person i go out with turns out to be REALLY dumb, no matter how good looking or how she treats me, or what she wants, if she is TOO dumb for my taste, i cant stand it.... sorry if i sound mean

[IntoTheHollow]

i have this problem when i dont like something i spit it out and that does it

[Nesquik]

when they say/do something unpleasant and when they are the "i dont care" type

[LordYakov]

I agree with myghty aramir.
Also I´d hate if theres a third person with me and my girl.

[angelicdesire]

when all they talk about is themselves without even asking anything about you, and when u end up paying for everything. hate that!

a bad habbit i have is i burp out loud

[♥ Tess]

when they say/do something unpleasant and when they are the "i dont care" type

should give a example of those *unpleasant things ;3

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for me, answering your cell phone more then twice would kill a date for me.
Too many interruptions isn't good ;/

[Nesquik]

Unpleasant things:
- Answer the cell phone a lot
- Doing pervy things
- More than 2 persons
- Acting very dumb
- lie

[ɯɐpɐ]

when the person i go out with turns out to be REALLY dumb, no matter how good looking or how she treats me, or what she wants, if she is TOO dumb for my taste, i cant stand it.... sorry if i sound mean

WAH, TOTAL DENIED-ATION!

Damn, you're good, Aramir.


I never been a date before, but I got a really bad habits: Restless Leg, tounge that always (yes, always) want to say F*CK, and tounge that always want to talk about Naruto or Bleach. It's hard to bear.

Oh, and other than always wanting to say F*CK, I like to raise my middle finger. IT'S BADASS.

[Minami Ikki]

- Can't keep a convo
- He/She has absoltely no manners
- Too clingy
- He/She turns out to be a guy/girl XD
- He/She makes you spend too much
- He/She laughs like a pig (ugh. I know someone who snorts every second of her life. It annoys me so much :()

[Mighty Aramir]

I know someone who snorts every second of her life. It annoys me so much :()
IS that humanly possible??? id like to see that, and LMAO for a while XD

[Sweeney]

I hate when they just EXPECT you to pay for everything. I mean, I believe in paying for a girl on a date, but I dont like the feeling that she knew I was going to pay for her, and just expected me to shell out the cash.

[Mighty Aramir]

thats sucks... getting your wallet squished like a lemon... I like to invite, but not the abuse, the person can at least try to be considerate

[Minami Ikki]

My view on paying for dates is this: You ask the person out, you pay.

Sure you can cover once and a while But I get tired after the 3rd cover :\

[Nesquik]

WAH, TOTAL DENIED-ATION!
Damn, you're good, Aramir.
I never been a date before, but I got a really bad habits: Restless Leg, tounge that always (yes, always) want to say F*CK, and tounge that always want to talk about Naruto or Bleach. It's hard to bear.
Oh, and other than always wanting to say F*CK, I like to raise my middle finger. IT'S BADASS.
That happens to me too

[Mighty Aramir]

I have restless legs, but im a drummer so it can be explained, and i dont curse much, but some guys are into that, who knows

[Nesquik]

most of the guys i know are into cursing, but i dun know why my tongue is like that...
and i dont have restless legs

[Mighty Aramir]

i only curse when with my friends, when im with a lady im respectful and dont curse or spit or burp

[TheRapist]

I always sniff my bread before I eat it. That make things awkward for a while.
I can't believe no one mentioned farting!!!
For me, nothing ruins that first date more than farting.

[Mighty Aramir]

not much, its natural and if propeerly disguissed means no harm

[zaffy04]

to ruin a date would be not to show up for a date

[Future]

meh, never been on a date...

but running around naked, screaming at people and waving your 'parts' in there face, wouldn't be a very good thing

[Kyoko<3!]

I think constant phone calls ruin a date. I remember I went out to lunch with a girl once and she was just on the phone for most of the time. I finished my sub before she was done.
Added to that, RIGHT after she finished one call, SOMEONE ELSE called her! IMMEDIATELY! Damn I mean she was realllyyyy hot and realllyy popular, but that was just a sign of total disrespect. Guess I wasn't important enough to pay attention to.

[Evanesque]

One of the things that can ruin a date is when one person talks on and on about something and doesn't know when to shut up. It's worse when he/she continuoulsy talks about his/her ex's, what they did, how they got dumped, etc, etc...then spilling his/her personal problems, etc.

Now that would make you never want to see that person ever again!

[deto]

omg i hope no one chooses his/her ex-gf/bf as topic in a date that would not
only be contra-productive but also pretty stupid and there we have the reason
someone else mentioned "if the person is REALLY dumb" :redbiggri

what else would kill a date, i guess if the other person acts nice towards you
but is rude to others. (a person who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter is
not a nice person, they say)

[Evanesque]

But that depends, if the waiter isn't a nice guy and leers at you, then what can you do? Sit and smile and pretend nothing's wrong?

Many waiters are sarcatic (can't blame them, they're under pressure) and they behave rudely, in such cases, it's ok for the person to complain...although it's best to notify their supervisor rather than the waiter himself.

Another date ruin-er is when the person barely talks and you later find out that you have nothing in common and dislike most of the things he/she does.

[deto]

well if that occurs you stay calm and put in your complaint but i meant being
rude as in disrespect them, acting as you are something better. you know
that arrogance thing. and the waiter was just an example here. can be anyone
else aswell.

well the risk that you aren't really of the same type, with same interests
is always there, i guess you have to be aware of that.

[Evanesque]

Yesh but there are some people who are experts at pretending to be someone they're not. How do you tell the difference between the real guy/girl and the fake?

I agree, being arrogant is a big turn off, I mean who are you to even say that? We're all human beings..having tons of money doesn't change anything, you lil peice of dipshit...*cough*

That was an example, btw..:redbiggri

Oh this is from experience, one of my ex's (whom I totally regret feeling bad for) was an idiot, I mean by idiot I mean he was lame and just plain sad..he was such a miser too.

We once went bowling (Rin was there)...that's where he kissed my cheek and then actually apologised for doing it. I was o_O and shuddered..the only reason I went out with him was because I felt bad for him..never again will I try to interfere with people's miserable lives...ugh..

Anyway, after bowling we all went for sheesha where the guy started telling me how much it cost him to come to this place by bus. Dh 8, which is like $2. He went on and on about how much his clothes cost and how cheap they were.

Geez now if that wasn't a worst date, what is? I woke up the next day thinking 'wtf am I doing? What was I thinking?' and dumped him ASAP...:redbiggri

I don't think he took it very well...who cares anyway :D

Note: Ev ish not mean, Ev ish not mean, Ev ish not mean :redbiggri

[deto]

well you should always tell the truth that way you don't have to remeber
what it was you've said. and i wouldn't try to act different or disguise yourself
because there are people that can see thru the veil you created and the
outcome could be devastating.

also talking about money could be a turn off, it's like bringing a copy of
the letter from your bank, you get at the end of the month, to a date.
uncool!

[BabyLoving]

I think girls who expect guys to pay the bill is kinda thickskinned. I would go split half half. Anyway, the total ruiner is that the person just talks in monotone and gives you one word answers. IT WOULD BE SO BORING.

Dates are supposed to be filled of laughter and fun. (:

[Xkavanger]

Have one of your guy mates call you on your mobile/cell and converse with them for a bit...

Same thing for guys.. but other way around LOL

[SoundWave]

Would be bad if you fell asleep.. :P

[Xkavanger]

Oh yeah!! True that!

It would also be bad if you went to the bathroom, had an emergency call and didn't tell your date that you had left XD!!

[SoundWave]

Or worse puke and then kiss... Dx

[Xkavanger]

BLEH!! YUCK!!

If you get drunk and do stupid things... and don't remember the next day...
or if you eat garlic/onions and then kiss ahahah!!

[SoundWave]

It has happened.. And dun fall asleep in the toilet, to get thrown out later when the place closes like my friend did.. xD

[Xkavanger]

LMAO!! Now that is LMAO!!!!! WAHAHAHAH!!!

*wipes tears of laughter*

> <;

how's about:
Touching your date's food with your hands and rubbing it all 'round.. I watched a girl do that to her date on Oprah X)

[SoundWave]

Ahrrr... Yuk!

Tried sniffing yer date? maybe that's a no no.. xD

[Xkavanger]

Syche - Nobody would do tat.. except maybe some
"eww.. your shirt stinks! We gotta get you a shirt NOW!"
> <"

Taking your date to a movie that doesn't entice both your satisfactions T.T

[deto]

It has happened.. And dun fall asleep in the toilet, to get thrown out later when the place closes like my friend did.. xD

with the appropraite amount of alcohol it's considerably easy. i heard that
quite often :redbiggri (never happenend to me tho)

more like "oh your shirt stinks, GET IT OFF!" :rolleye09 :winking56

[Cheryl]

how's about:
Touching your date's food with your hands and rubbing it all 'round.. I watched a girl do that to her date on Oprah X)

o.O

Now that is just freaky... >__>

[Xkavanger]

more like "oh your shirt stinks, GET IT OFF!" :rolleye09 :winking56
LMAO!! That works as a pick up line.. not ruining a date at all...

Oh yeah, if the date eats like a pig =0!!

[silverwolf801]

if your date says lets skip the plans and go straight to touching. Now that should end the the date and get you a free slap

[Kray]

How about keeping that awkward silence, and not trying to break it. Talk about shitty.

[Mighty Aramir]

hmmm, lots of comments:
@Eva: Kissing on the cheek is common here as a way of saluting each other, but then again, if you're on a date, first: you dont ask for a kiss, you just take it; second: you never apologize, if you are gonna kiss, let it be for a fair reason, and not with doubts about it, havr nothing to regret. Third: if she/he didnt want to be kissed, prepare psycologhycally for a slap or a reaction of some sort.
@Silverwolf: Of course thats bad, shows you have no real interest for the person and how she feels, and youonly care for what you can do with her/him
@krayZekriz: thats definetely a killer, an almost immediate sign that both are: 1)too shy, and find it hard to talk. in which case i recommend to try to find a common interest and start by that...
2) you have no common interests and the thing just winds down to a a certain failure

[Elocin]

These are just personal opinions of mine...

Ruin:

-Don't know when to shut up about something
-Constantly on the phone
-Acts really dumb
-Obviously wants to get into your pants at the end of the date
-Turns out to be the opposite sex
-Acts immature (like burps and farts and laughs about it or something)
-Chews with their mouth open
-Doesn't wipe food off their face
-Doesn't know how to kiss at the end of the date
-Asks about your sex life (or previous one)
-If you're in a bar and he tries to get you drunk

GOOD:

-Chews with mouth closed
-Acts like a civil guy (even if he wants to get into your pants)
-Acts smart
-Courteous
-Makes minor moves on you (like holding hands, putting arm around you in a theatre)
-Doesn't answer their cell
-Is really a guy
-Tries not to get you drunk
-Walks you to the door

[silverwolf801]

hm I won't do any of things on a date. well maybe the try to get into your pants at the end of the date one, but that is only if you are really good looking.

[Elocin]

Sexing on the first date = insta fail, IMO.

[Pie <3]

You can fart and be like "Atleast go to the bathroom" (being a jackass and implying that it was her :p)

[Anubisrage]

Only talking about yourself the whole day...

[Silhouette]

Ways to ruin a date:

- Make her pay for the food.
- Ask her if she's ever done [insert sexual activity here].
- Checking out other girls.
- Taking her to McDonalds for a date..
- Looking at places other than her eyes. >.>;
- Leave to go to the bathroom, and come out smelling like shit, with tissue paper on your shoes.
- Having a condom fall out of your wallet when you go to pay for the food bill.
- Having a picture of your ex, or another phone number drop out of your wallet when you go to pay for the food bill.

Ways to make your date pwnage:

- While she's eating...let's say "steak". Say something like, "Would you like some [insert name here] with that steak?

lmao. Just kidding. Don't do that...

[Icchy <3]

@Tasogare: What would you know? Anyway, you proebly did all those things first, to see if they where bad.

Youv'e never been on a date, so I'm speaking rubbish.. Which some people say I do alot lately.
But I do agree with you when you say "Looking somewhere other than her eyes". Haha. X)

[Silhouette]

Just figures that Icchymaru would search the forums for a thread I posted in, and post something negative towards me. Psh. And people say I'm an ass.

Ok, its common sense. I may be a guy, but I know what ticks girls off...most of the time.

@Icchymaru: And you're like...13. You should talk. Pfft.

*sees Angel_shikigami lurking* Am I right? O_o

[Angel_shikigami]

There are many.
-Eat like a pig
-Act like a 3 year old
-Talk too much
-Don't talk at all
-Try to get in bed with the person
-Be a total ass
-Be someone who would probally wipe your ass for you if the could (Like they wanna do EVERYTHING for you like your a baby)

@Taso. Yeah. So? And how the hell do you know my age anyway?

[Kalashnikov]

well...i know how i ruin dates......
when i suddenly decide to get into a bad mood lol

"What?!"
"Dont really care.."

or if i really get pissed for some odd reason...

"Do i look like i give a ****ing shit ..?????!!"
"What *****!?"

^^ - ive never said the two above to a girl...but once i was gona...

ive changed now though :D - im a nice person that everyone likes :)

[Silhouette]

@Angel: Sorry, that was at Icchy.

[Icchy <3]

@Tasogare: I'm 13, and I have more expeince than you.
Admitting it is the first step, my fuzzy freind.

[Xaimas]

When she/he starts talking to you and you seem distant, that can ruin it.

[Elocin]

Wow. Is there a reason there are like... 10 people looking at this? o_o

But yeah... a condom falling out of your wallet will ruin everything.

[silverwolf801]

lol that is so funny. I would just be like my friend stashed it in my wallet for safe keeping.

[Ronin36]

when your date wants to do something physical, but you're not ready for it. It completely ruins the mood, and it's almost impossible to recreate that mood in the same night.

[BabyLoving]

Another date ruiner is that your date KEEPS talking about HIMSELF. And he never asks a question about you. It's so IRRITATING and FRUSTRATING. LOL. (:

[Anubisrage]

Thats what I mentioned earlier...
See that means its right!!! yay...
*ahem*
when your date starts eyeing someone else during your date... GRRRRR

[Lucki]

When they arnt clear that you are on a date so you go the whole time thinking it is just a mate meal and then they start getting all close and push themselves on you so you end up fleeing. and shoving celery up their nose is a big turn off!!!

[Anubisrage]

Talking on your cell phone on the first date can kill the entier day...

[♥ Tess]

Bad breath is a quick date-killer.
It's always good to carry 2-3 mints. You bring extra just in case for meals and stuff.

Also, try to avoid using gum as it will become a annoyance.
if that's all you have for your breath, spit it out after 2 minutes.

[deto]

smell bad in general, that would be a turn off i guess

[Vladimir]

how to ruin a date is ask ur frens to appear at ur date venue . those embarrassing ones . to embarrassed urself . to make the other person think bad about uu . so they wun go out with uu any longer .

[Anubisrage]

how to ruin a date is ask ur frens to appear at ur date venue . those embarrassing ones . to embarrassed urself . to make the other person think bad about uu . so they wun go out with uu any longer .
What about if you did want to go out later???hat then?

[chiriyuku]

Arguing instead of talking. =_=;; This guy I know has this TERRIBLE habit of arguing against EVERYTHING I say to make conversation. It got annoying REAL quickly.

[SoundWave]

Playing with the food.. :O!

[Evanesque]

Burping or farting out loud =0..

That's definitely going to make sure you never see that person ever again as long as you live XD

[deto]

arriving late without spectacular reason would be kinda bad aswell, showing
no respect and the other thinks he/she isn't important enough to arrive on time

[Vladimir]

What about if you did want to go out later???hat then?
that's another question . if uu wanted to ruin ur own date why go for another then ? not like you are going to date the same person eh ?

[Sakura_Drops]

Having a bad cough ruins a date >.> flem, flem, flem, flem, flem..

[死神 クリス]

Boasting about yourself.

[Kay™]

take your boyfriend/girlfriend to a highclass place,then take a water and splash her face and left,that surely will end your relationship or tell her father you make his a hooker and cause his daughter pregant,another good way end the relatioship

[Elocin]

Tell your gf's parents that you're sleeping with their daughter. =P

Yeah... happened to a friend of mine once. =\

[死神 クリス]

Heh, very funny suggestions above,

Call your gf's parents and tell them that she is cheating on you, and you need someone's shoulder to cry on.

[BabyLoving]

when your date does ALL the decisions.

when your date leaves in the middle of the date, without giving any money to settle the bill.

when your date keeps wiping his/her utensils, thinking that even 1% of bacteria would kill him.

[Kyoko<3!]

By constantly hinting to or referring to the 'awesome sex' you guys are gonna have after the date....unless thats the sole purpose of the date.

[adorkable]

When your date talks about a past romance and how they wrote a poetry book together back in middle school.

[死神 クリス]

By bringing along a talking yet perverted plushie. :p

[Arkturus]

Rather pointedly referring to the girl's boobs as 'the girls' and making rather pointed comments about them. And constantly saying that 'the girls are awesome' helps too... :p

[deto]

everything that makes your date feel like an object rather than a person
like looking at something else than the eyes while talking, not listening,
checking on other girls/boys

basicly everything that could be followed by the sentence "HEY I'M OVER/UP HERE!"

*g*

[Vladimir]

humiliate urself . make ur partner involve with it . eventually they wun want to go out with uu anymore cuz they feel humiliated being with uu .

[unwaken]

By bringing along a talking yet perverted plushie. :p

LOL :Haha
Kon ftw! <333333

Hmm anyways back to the topic.
Urm. Having bad breath. ^^;
I wouldn't wanna get close to anybody with bad breath.

[.System]

Hmmm...

where can i get me one of those plushies?

Boring him/her with your hobbie can ruin a date, no one wants to know about your ear wax collection!

[sham16]

Looking at other girls when you are on a date and say.... Men i wish that was me wth her... lol

[BabyLoving]

That would be totally evil. LOL. (:

When you start singly loudly, and badly, in the middle of the dinner, where it is superbly crowded.

[Sakura]

when you date someone 13 years younger then you and they're stupid enough to say, "wow, Dave and Buster's is the same age as me," don't EVER say, "i'm way older then that."

i felt weird after he said that and i basically shut up the rest of the dinner. it got worst when he tried to kiss me when i dropped him off at his house cuz he didn't have a car. i was almost able to grab the door handle but he got me on the cheek before i could get out :lol i railed on my coworker who set me up wit me. she felt real bad cuz he was her friend at the time and she only set up the date cuz he'd been obsessing over me for months and bugging her to set us up. scary dude.


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[Phasmatis]

So if you're 25... You dated a 12-year-old? :eek13:

...Or were you just exaggerating?

[Sakura]

no, when i was 19 my coworker's friend begged her to set me up wit him on a date. he was 32. i don't date younger men :lol

[♥ Tess]

- discussing the future of the relationship (on the 1st date)
- getting drunk
- smoking
- replying to a text message on your cell phone
- avoiding eye contact / looking down
- trying to look cool / wearing sunglasses at night :p
- talking with your hand over your mouth
- being over-sensitive / crying on "my" shoulder at the movies
- using internet lingo offline (L.O.L) | though that would be quite funny ^ ^

[AvidoWA]

When the main tank pulls too much aggro causing a wipe.... that usually ruins my dates...or if the nelf hunter leaves pet on aggressive and afk droods

[DespoticWalnut]

What pisses me off is when they make you spend too much. I give an example by ordering the most cheap ass item on the menu (once when i was nearly broke) and she got something that costed ****ing 18 dollars...damn.

[Gojira]

I feel your pain, Despotic, but man, that is nooooooooooooothing. I had been talking to this girl for foreeeever and my friends' all kind of warned me that she is a bit of a gold digger... No offense ladies, I know some of you don't like that term but you must admit that among your sex(the fairer sex I might add) there are some women that like men who have money... Please don't see me as a chauvinistic pig because I'm not. I promise. I'm just one who says it like it is. Anyways, she finally agrees to go out with me and I take her to this really nice sushi place. I like a lady that likes to eat... theres nothing worse than seeing a woman who only drinks water and eats half a cracker on a DINNER DATE. So i encourage her to order whatever she wanted... Wow, that was the first time I had ever regretted saying that because that's exactly what she did. She ate like it was a Thanksgiving Day Feast. Man, the date cost me well over a hundred. After that I made a quick mental note, to change my policy on telling a girl to order whatever she wanted. I don't mind spending money on dates, but at least wait a couple dates before robbing me blind. WOMAN, ITS JUST THE FIRST DATE! LOL, in any case, even though it actually was a surprisingly good date I didn't ask her out again because I don't think my bank account could handle it. All I'm saying is... Ladies, we are playing this mating game because we know you guys like it. If it were up to me, an ideal date would be sitting at home, order some pizza, sit back and watch a movie(and I'm sure most guys would agree with me on that) but we play this game for you!!! Try to cut us some slack!!!

[DespoticWalnut]

WOW, well that's much worse than mine...I feel for ya man.

[Sweeney]

I love buying my dates movie tickets or food or something like that; especially if it makes 'em happy, cuz thats the whole point, right? Of course, there is a point where it gets too far. I dont want to spend every cent I have on one night, ya know? Just dinner and a movie, not some necklace that you happen to see in a store as well, lol. I hope I sound like a jerk, because Im not. I swear. :Domo

[Tyekanik]

One oddity was when I met a certain girls father for the fist time. The father had some problem with his 'little girl growing up' or some such thing and ended up wanting to box me. Yes, a boxing match. The idea was to belittle me in front of his daughter.

After almost half an hour of pestering me about being a man I gave into my growing aggravation and agreed to the match. Hell if I won I'd be a total ass and not welcome anymore, and I hate to lose. Everyone has limits to how much annoyance they can take before walking into a lose lose situation. I reckon he figured he'd drive me off or get me to enter such a situation that ended with me leaving. Little did he know his daughter would end up doing a fine job of driving me off for him.

Luckily the testosterone fizzled when her mother said you boys can fight or have dinner, but not both. Later curiosity showed me I wouldn't have been able to use the spare set of gloves anyhow, I think they were made for cave trolls. So yeah, worked up over nothing.


I figure my own father trying to hire one of my dates as a maid might not have been in good taste either. Things never seem to go well when its not just me and a girl.

[Shinigami K]

I'm a very picky eater, so I'm not up for fancy restaurants. I'd rather go to a dinner [Johnny Rockets.] If I don't like something, I wont eat it.

Things that would ruin a date for me would be:
- smokes excessively [Every other bite, there running out to take a drag.]
- over does it with liquor. [I like partying, but I don't want to be the one driving you home lol.]
- clown [someone who's constantly joking around and can't just talk.]
- talking about your ex.
- texting at dinner.
- checks out every chick walking by.

[Darkwatch]

1. Paying too much.
2. When you're expected to do something.

I especially don't like it when my date asks me to go on the date, and then she expects me to do something for her. It's like--wtf?

[Gojira]

@Tyekanik - HAHA, yeah having your dad try to hire your date as a maid is definitely a surefire recipe for disaster. ROFL...

Another way to ruin a date is - I don't mind the texting as long as it doesn't consume you but talking on the phone in the middle of a date. Seems like a total lack of respect. I haaaaaaaate that.

[warforge]

What things can ruin a date for you


Discuss/Post things that will just kill a date for you.
(especially if its a 1st)


If you already had a bad date and want to share some specific things that ruined it, go ahead.

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if your stuck:
Think about the key things you would want in a Good date,
...now think of the complete OPPOSITE of that...


optional: Do you yourself have any BAD habits? >.>
(answer if you want)


Skip dinner and the movie use the money for a hotel room= good

Pay for all that crap to get a peck on the cheek= wtf

=) seriously though... First sign of selfishness or negative chatter is a turn off...bad mouthing people...or just negative attitude on anything.

I prefer someone who is positive ...attempts to show optimism and truely just wants to have a conversation about eachother to learn about eachother...if the date doesnt go this direction...I call it dead and try to end it quick.

If you dont click on the start why waste time and money.

[DatLatina!]

yea i got 2 agree one negative thing then see ya wouldn't want to be ya

[Tsukuyomi]

I think one of the best ways to ruin a date is to pick your boogers and NOT show them off. >.> That's just me.

...j/k

[Takeshi]

Best way to ruin a date?

Don't go to it.

[Graffik]

Attempt kissing without brushing your teeth.

[Starlight]

When you whip it out it automatically ruins the date. No one wants to see you showing off your cellphone/text/talk to someone on it the whole date.

[Kenji]

How to ruin one? The topic already has a bunch of great answers lol

But I guess I could contribute.

-Don't expect to much
Don't wander into the future (Children, Homes, Jobs)

-Look at another guy that way
God, you're in a date with me not Dale the waiter that just went by >__>

-Hate on stuff I enjoy
It's ok to disagree and have preference, but for example.
I like rock music, don't say I'm an emo punk who only listens to screamo.

-Don't start on the sexual side of intimacy so soon
I'm absistent so yeah that explains it

-Expand on conversations
Don't just laugh at my past embarrassing experience and let a possible great conversation die off like that. Continue it with something of your own, or just keep it alive. I hate that silence, I feel like I'm trying to plan out the conversations and that's just weird.

[Starlight]

Silence is a killer. If I get caught in the silence I'm done for.