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Hakuoro
02-02-2007, 04:35 AM
Okay then.. This thread is for all those girls that have questions to ask about guys behaviour/appearance/random questions that have been bothering the girl that they were too embarassed, or too lazy, to ask someone in real life.
Why am I setting up this thread, you might ask? Simple. I'm bored. It seems like a good idea and I'm sure all you girls out there have some sort of question that you cant ask a guy face to face.
So ask away.
♥ Tess
02-02-2007, 06:19 AM
hmm... i kinda know why guys do certain things =/
*thinks* ............................
Why do guys like porn so much?
(even those who are in a relationship)
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 06:26 AM
i dont like porn! as a mather of fact i never had porn in my pc, i just never considered it interesting
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 07:02 AM
hmm... i kinda know why guys do certain things =/
*thinks* ............................
Why do guys like porn so much?
(even those who are in a relationship)
Coz they dont get or as much sex from the person there with ..
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 07:08 AM
MAybe that th reason why i didnt like it... I lost my virginity at a young age, 13... maybe thats why i skipped the pornographer phase, masturbating did'nt seem interesting enough
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 07:13 AM
MAybe that th reason why i didnt like it... I lost my virginity at a young age, 13... maybe thats why i skipped the pornographer phase, masturbating did'nt seem interesting enough
so ur girl give it to u all the time. u want it.?.lol
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 07:16 AM
jajaja, interesting way to say it, i still havent done anything with my current gf, but since the first time and after a few years of mayhem, i dont find sex as interesting, and i think thats good for the relationship, not having it spin around sex, but really focusing in our emotional side
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 07:20 AM
lol. so u rilly respect ur girl. thats good!!
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 07:24 AM
Of course i do... i love her with all my heart, and would'nt be able to do that unless i truly respect her
Bak3d on H1gh
02-02-2007, 07:31 AM
Maybe they get something else out of porn or hentai that they either can't get in real life(hentai there) or they don't think their partnetr or spouse would want to and htey don't want to discofort or lose them.
Honestly how many chicks are willing to do h-core dp group S&M with their significant other.
For teens its probably more of just cause they can't or know they shouldn't be having sex at the teen age.
For me its a bit of what i said above, and no other reason than i like it, it think for this one we are goin to need a phycologist.
PS i do think this thread was a good idea. Do you mind if i borrow part of it a little?
hasuke
02-02-2007, 07:33 AM
Same reason girls like porn? (Hahaha don't give me the shit that girls don't watch porn. Bold faced lies aren't very nice :( )
An escape? Gets out pent up frustration? Jeeze.
:/ i know a couple of girls who like yaoi... >.>
why do guys hate smart girls?
Decado
02-02-2007, 08:42 AM
Not all hate smart girls.
Maybe some get intimidated (because they feel stupid in their presence) - and find it easier not to associate with them. Also the common stereotype being, that smart girls aren't attractive
Evanesque
02-02-2007, 08:45 AM
Why do some guys just love to fool around with other girls even though he's in a relationship and tells that girl he loves her a lot? =/
Not all hate smart girls.
Maybe some get intimidated (because they feel stupid in their presence) - and find it easier not to associate with them. Also the common stereotype being, that smart girls aren't attractive
:/ heh. how strange. all boys will change when they see my model friend. straight A's.
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 08:58 AM
Why do some guys just love to fool around with other girls even though he's in a relationship and tells that girl he loves her a lot? =/
coz guys want to experience different kind of girls or they just doin it to impress their friend . that they can get any girl they want. i used to do it b4.
:/ heh. how strange. all boys will change when they see my model friend. straight A's.
mmhh i like to see.. lol
♥ Tess
02-02-2007, 08:59 AM
Same reason girls like porn? (Hahaha don't give me the shit that girls don't watch porn. Bold faced lies aren't very nice :( )
An escape? Gets out pent up frustration? Jeeze.
well, if you research, you will notice that the porn industry mainly target men because they dominate the market. Also, with more research; you will find it's mainly men who usually end up becoming sex addicts, offenders & rapists.
I didn't say women didn't watch it, but... ^(read my 1st paragraph again)
Anyway, this wasn't a challenge about the sexes.
just wanted to hear a guys POV about it since this is a Ask a guy thread & i didn't want to ask something easy. :musak:
thanks for those answers (bak, aramir, rhoden)
Why do some guys just love to fool around with other girls even though he's in a relationship and tells that girl he loves her a lot? =/
because they don't know what they're really doing.
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 09:04 AM
mmh i knda agree on that one..
and thats when the girl starts yapping her mouth off.
yes @shin's post: but many women rape young/teenage boys you know?
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 09:07 AM
and thats when the girl starts yapping her mouth off.
yes @shin's post: but many women rape young/teenage boys you know?
yeah those horny women that cant get sex from guys. so they decide to rape young teenage boys.!!
Evanesque
02-02-2007, 09:18 AM
Teh poor young boys @_@
I've been wondering about this for some time now. Do guys talk about their personal intimate experiences with their girlfriends?
Bak3d on H1gh
02-02-2007, 09:19 AM
See i wo9uldn't mind getting raped by a chick as long as she was hot.
at guys goin out with multiple chicks its because their an ass, it wouldn't be so bad if they hadn't said to their girlfriend(s) that he loves them.
I don't mind smart chicks as long as they aren't fat or ugly.
Maybe they don't want to get into a relationship because their intimidated and/or they don't want their partner to be smarter than them. You know the saying "never marry anyone smarter than you."
:0 really? my parents tell me to marry a doctor. :/ or something.
and these aren't 'chicks' that rape you. it's a 40 year old fat-pervo woman.
I've been wondering about this for some time now. Do guys talk about their personal intimate experiences with their girlfriends?
some do some don't. i for my part think it's personal as in something between
you and your partner and no 3rd person has a right or a reason to know. i
wouldn't go around and tell stories. but yeh you hear alot of boys brag about
it but then again i don't believe everything i hear.
♥ Tess
02-02-2007, 09:31 AM
yes @shin's post: but many women rape young/teenage boys you know?
i know. thats why i said Mainly, not Only.
Teh poor young boys @_@
I've been wondering about this for some time now. Do guys talk about their personal intimate experiences with their girlfriends?
thats a pretty good question^
EDIT:
@Deto: true. it would be weird getting into intimate details
about your ex with your current girlfriend.
...but with other guys, it usually becomes a topic to brag about for some
Evanesque
02-02-2007, 09:38 AM
@shin: No I actually meant do guys talk about what they do with their girlfriends to other guys..
I know it's weird to tell your current partner about the past. It gets awkward and makes a lot of differences...things might never be the same again =/
Decado
02-02-2007, 09:39 AM
and these aren't 'chicks' that rape you. it's a 40 year old fat-pervo woman.
lmao not really. Not from all the news cases of this I've seen (not that many)
If a young lad is being raped its usually from another man.
Dear Lord.
but then again, that's diff.. it's harder for women to actually commit that act on a man / boy for obvious reasons.
bleh, totally off topic now.
well, if you research, you will notice that the porn industry mainly target men because they dominate the market.
cos of... i forget the word.. testosterone? has been proven to be far, far more abundant/ have a much greater effect in men than women. Which will also answer your question of y males would tend to go for these things.
i know.
why do boys act so so so so stupid? *excluding de-chan, cause he's perfect >:3*
i mean, why do they show off when they already have a GF? *no, i'm not a GF*
and why do boys have *** with out protection? imean, i just read in a Dolly magazine that a 13 year old girl had *** and is now preggie! i mean i thought australia had lessons on this!
Evanesque
02-02-2007, 09:49 AM
It's possible to have sex without protection, that is if the guy knows when to pull out..
@shin: No I actually meant do guys talk about what they do with their girlfriends to other guys..
depends on the character of a guy. i'd say no, because you have respect for your partner, if you wouldn't respect your partner i wonder how you could
ever look her in the eyes and say "i love you."
but thats the way _I_ see it, i know lot of guys wouldn't agree with me on
that but i can't take them serious. cuz yeh 80% of what is said is pure
bragging and so far away from truth.
♥ Tess
02-02-2007, 09:56 AM
thanks Decado for completing my point.
i think that also answered my original question ^ ^
@Kia:
i think its a lack of knowledge about sex.
pretty much being completely oblivious of the risks
Usually pregnancies at that age is a result of 1st time experiences (IMO)
though I'll leave it to a guy to really answer
Decado
02-02-2007, 09:57 AM
It's possible to have sex without protection, that is if the guy knows when to pull out..
@Eva: apparently that was "tested" and there was a high 90% chance it didn't work... b/c...u know >_>
Anyway, it's just risky, is all...and that's only to protect against pregnancy anyway, not other things...
why do boys act so so so so stupid? *excluding de-chan, cause he's perfect >:3*
XD thankiez Kia
& np shin =]
A lack of knowledge about it? NO WAY!
kids in high school are taught to use protection whenever doing it, it's part of our syllabus.
never, never, never underestimate the stupidity of people. (especially in large
groups)
Evanesque
02-02-2007, 10:06 AM
Some people can control it, others can't...from what I've seen and heard :redbiggri
But of course protection is the best thing to do when it comes to avoiding pregnancy...
Most guys want to do it without protection because it 'feels good' compared to a latex thing covering them, that's why..
Bak3d on H1gh
02-02-2007, 10:08 AM
Yea they really try and ram it into us(no pun intended) they only thing they lack is giving us protection not exactly as if a store is going to sell them to me or if gunna walk into a clinic(really no one would for fear of bein seeing(not chicks who've had unprotected sex i mean)) though if i really need one its bin offered by a parent 'oy.
lot of ways lead to rome ;)
Bak3d on H1gh
02-02-2007, 10:09 AM
Yeah they built roads.
o.O...wait. i'm gettting confuzzled here.
ok... i see.. so it wreaks their fun if theres latex on them, sure, but how about the girl? will she have fun when she finds out that she's preggie?
Bak3d on H1gh
02-02-2007, 10:14 AM
Lol good point but its the idiot and/or ass hole guys that have sex without protection when they don't want kids, honestly do they want to ruin their lives and gets some menial low paying job?
Decado
02-02-2007, 10:27 AM
o.O...wait. i'm gettting confuzzled here.
ok... i see.. so it wreaks their fun if theres latex on them, sure, but how about the girl? will she have fun when she finds out that she's preggie?
or receive a disease... which was wat i meant earlier if no one picked up on it..
selfishness.
:/ boys. but why do they act like that?
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 10:53 AM
:/ boys. but why do they act like that?
They act like that cause most of us are stupid in this field...
Many guys are so sexually frustrated that they would do anything to get laid.
And even if they know that they need to wear protection, they might want to try the real thing at least once, because that feels much better, but alot of them dont have the sense of responsibility to their partner and just ejaculate in them, which if you dont want a child is really an act of reclesness...
I think I will help out here as well so if there are any more 'personal questions' that girls want to ask but dont wan others to see it, you can PM me and I will try my best to give you the best answer.
X_x. jebus. this sounds like Bob.
but i'm catholic and i believe in the 'marriage before ***'. but of course it's how we grew up and stuff.
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 11:11 AM
X_x. jebus. this sounds like Bob.
huh what do you mean???
oh, some thread ago with this guy nicknamed Bob and he just wanted to get laid with another girl though he's engaged.
in the whole chapter about marriage, sex and love i have huuuge differences
with the church, ok on all other points aswell but thats just me.
shouldn't bother you and it doesn't change a thing about some being selfish
and not responisble enough. it's not an age thing either
Bak3d on H1gh
02-02-2007, 11:51 AM
Isn't the chatholic church against condoms?
Hey everybody "YAY AIDS"
One reason why im agrostic.
thats one of the things i will never understand.
Nicole
02-02-2007, 01:47 PM
Okay. I got a question.
What is up with the male ego? :P
what should be up with it? :P
bring up an example with it....
Decado
02-02-2007, 01:51 PM
Guys don't like to appear inferior in front of others since it's seen as weak. And not many, if any, girls like weak guys
the typical protector role ;)
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 01:57 PM
Guys don't like to appear inferior in front of others since it's seen as weak. And not many, if any, girls like weak guys
Pretty true...
Nicole
02-02-2007, 02:03 PM
bring up an example with it....
Um, like, a guy brags to his friends after sleeping with some girl or that.
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 02:06 PM
Um, like, a guy brags to his friends after sleeping with some girl or that.
That just shows that he is insecure with his manhood and needs to brag, mind you, not all guys are like that, I have never bragged about something as personal as that...
SoundWave
02-02-2007, 02:09 PM
I quite never understood that..
It's just to make all his friends jealous I guess.. but why.. beats me :/
It depends on the guy.
You know, like those super masculine frat boys that brag about making out with another girl - even though they don't remember it because they were completely wasted.
Stuff like that usually fits the stereotype....such as the guys that are like that are ones that party a lot, goto the gym like every day, and try to play the role as a "player".
Which is one thing I don't understand. Why would you want the title of "player" on you? If all the girls know you are a player, what makes you think they are gonna go after you? They'll just end up getting hurt. But then again, some girls are the same way as guys, they talk about with their girlfriends that they slept with so-in-so last night, and that he was the dreamiest guy ever, and she's wanted him for so long. Blah, blah blah, bah.
Ladies and Gentlemen ---- Society!
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 02:17 PM
It depends on the guy.
You know, like those super masculine frat boys that brag about making out with another girl - even though they don't remember it because they were completely wasted.
Stuff like that usually fits the stereotype....such as the guys that are like that are ones that party a lot, goto the gym like every day, and try to play the role as a "player".
Which is one thing I don't understand. Why would you want the title of "player" on you? If all the girls know you are a player, what makes you think they are gonna go after you? They'll just end up getting hurt. But then again, some girls are the same way as guys, they talk about with their girlfriends that they slept with so-in-so last night, and that he was the dreamiest guy ever, and she's wanted him for so long. Blah, blah blah, bah.
Ladies and Gentlemen ---- Society!
True True, its not everyone that does it anyway,
good speech Kriz
True True, its not everyone that does it anyway,
good speech Kriz
Thanks.
These topics are something I discuss a lot.
:Domo
Nicole
02-02-2007, 04:01 PM
Yeah... I somehow fell for this guy that had the "player stereotype" and after getting to know him better, I realized that he's a genuine guy (and I like him even more now).
But yeah, stereotypes FTL.
Another question:
What types of girls do guys generally go for?
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 04:17 PM
I go for someone interesting, someone who is different, who intrigues my mind and warms my soul... Someone who can make my mind wander around, revolving about the scent of her hair, the feeling of her skin, and that a single comment by that person is able to keep me awake during the night... Someone i can be in the same bed with, just staring at her, talking to her, the house all alone but the two of us, and all the mythological creatures we talk about, all of the politics, art, music we discuss, making ourselves the main part of the realtionship, not sex or anything else, but true feelings and comprehension.... all summed up, i need someone like my gf XD
Nicole
02-02-2007, 04:39 PM
I see...
Another question =D
What's so appealing about large boobs and a large ass?
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 04:41 PM
Personally I dont see that attractive...
I find big boobs kinda disgusting...
That's a good question - but I can't answer that for you, this time.
Why? Well those of you that know me, know why :D
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 04:46 PM
Its a natural response, bigger asses so to speak, depend on large hips, which are better for carring babies, and has a safer pregnancy for both the infant and the mother... Big boobs, well for nurturing mainly...
The human still conserve the innate intelligence required for survival, and its imbed genetically to look for the best option...
Same thing happen, why do men have sex with anything and females are more picky? Cause a man hass millions of sperm awaiting to be used, and produces more by the second, while the female has only one ovule(is that the word?) and has a limited quantity, therefore looks for the best mating option
Lucki
02-02-2007, 07:17 PM
virgins is that scary territory for guys?
Ethanol
02-02-2007, 07:25 PM
virgins is that scary territory for guys?
I don't think virgins are scary territory for guys. If it's your gf, and she's a virgin, it adds to the feel when you guys finally do it that she gave herself to you. If your both virgins, might be a lil rough getting started (lol). If the guy isn't, but he truly cares for her, then he'd go slow and help her through it.
But, if its one of those one night stands and the virgin girl clings onto you cause you took her cherry....that could be scary.
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 07:36 PM
hmm, virgins are a bastards greatest accomplishment... its very appreciated, even tough mostly in a bad way... virginity is somthing precious you lose only once, let that moment be something beautiful, and something you will always remember
pero_renji!
02-02-2007, 07:37 PM
I dont think any of us guys fall for giant boobs and asses, well probably big, but it has a limit, what's too much is too much.And virginity is not a scary territory i think .
Anubisrage
02-02-2007, 07:39 PM
virgins is that scary territory for guys?
Virgin girls are actually more appealing to males because to get to be the first one, that is whats so special about it. There are people who actua;;y 'collect' virginities!!! But especially if its your spouse, that can be the best moment of your life when the girl you love bleeds on you...
Its mainly a mental thing, just knowing that you are the first one can give an extreme sense of satisfation.
Hakuoro
02-02-2007, 10:53 PM
/me dies
Man this thread is supremely active.
K then I am also going to answer EVERYONES questions.
Why do guys like porn so much?
Most guys like it for these few reasons:
1. They are lovesick and it makes them feel better
2. Most guys naturally like naked women
3. They are a hopeless romantic and have reverted to porn as a way of confort
4. All the guys friends watch porn and he doesnt wanna feel left out
why do guys hate smart girls?
Some do, some dont. As for me I odnt hate smart girls. Most guys would probably hate them because guys would think "Ew, smart that means nerdy and nerdy is uncool". I call those guys the assholes of todays society. There is also the reasons that it makes them feel dumber or intimidated.
Why do some guys just love to fool around with other girls even though he's in a relationship and tells that girl he loves her a lot? =/
This sort of relates to the asholes of todays society. Most guys probably do this because they feel they can have as many girls as they want (Wrong) or because it makes him feel stronger or because he really doesnt care about the other girl anymore and is having an affair.
Do guys talk about their personal intimate experiences with their girlfriends?
Some do, some dont. Most guys, if they do, are bragging. THey probably wouldnt be sharing how they felt that they loved the person a lot, or that they loved being with her if it was to there friends then they would be like "i banged her so hard. Oh yeah I am a player...". But mostly only the assholes of society say that...(its getting catchy that name...) If you really love the person you will either decide not to talk about twith anyone else or to share minimal details.
why do boys act so so so so stupid?
i mean, why do they show off when they already have a GF?
and why do boys have *** with out protection?
To the first one: Because a lot of guys think that they must fit in or must do this for their friends to look cool or if they dont do it they arent cool. Mostly in other wordds its due to peer pressure and the want of fitting in.
To the second one: Do you mean show off like "Hahaha I have a girlfriend you dont!" like that? If so then it means that they are, you guessed it, assholes of society. Personally is disgusts me when they treat a girl like an object you can freely accuire and throw away as you please. ANyways, guys probably show off like this because it makes them feel stronger nad more liked by their peers and in other words fit in.
To the third: Because they are... I am not going to say it again lol. The guys friends probably told him "Oh yeah having protected sex is like being a wimp" so again its either peer pressure or the guy is very stupid.
Elo
What is up with the male ego?
What types of girls do guys generally go for?
What's so appealing about large boobs and a large ass?
The male ego is an interesting thing. Personally, I dont have one. I dont show off and I dont brag. I dont usually say I can do things I cant. But from what I have seen from people who do have it I say this: They are full of themselves. Making false promises that inside they really dont want to do, or having sex with someone because there friends pushed them into it. It all comes down to stupidity, gullability, and peer pressure once again.
The type or girls guys generally go for is the most popular one is todays like style. Of course thats only for some guys and mostly the popular ones who want to fit in. They think to themselves "If I got out with a nerd they ill lose my popularity" so they will go out with someone who looks good and the relationship willl last like a fire. Personally, I dont like the popular girl. I dont like the "Ive got the biggeest boobs and the finest ass and can give the best sex in the world" thing. None of that stuff matters to me. As long as they arent horribly disfigurated in a wheelchair with half a face (in other owrds decent looks) and have a great personality that I like ill go out with them and see how it goes.
As for the boobs and the asss question. Lots of guys like the biggest breasted girl with the nicest ass you can find. I know that because thats all I liked for a while until I met someone whom I liked who sure as hell didnt have the biggest boobs or the nicest ass, but I liekd her because of the way she looked and her personality. Most of the popular guys generally like the big boobed girl for a few reasons
1. The just naturally like big boobs
2. THey feel that a girl must have the right features to be "their girl"
3. Peer pressure again...
Some guys just like grabbing big boobs and big asses though. Actually its more like most guys.....lol.
virgins is that scary territory for guys?
Well it eather is or isnt. For some guys and fir some reason virgins could get pregnant easier they think or something. Also, they might not want to take very virginity or it could be for some other reason that i am not sure of.
Wow, that took a while.... Oh well I am done.
Setsuna Ai
02-02-2007, 10:57 PM
May I ask why a lot guys (not all!) around the age of 12-17 refuse to grow up or mature? Seriously, the laughing-at-anyone-who-says-penis or throw-spit-balls-at-people-we-hate are a little annoying.
And is sex very important?
Do you think about having sex with a girl when you have interest in her?
I bet these questions were already answered. But for the sake of curiosity!
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 10:59 PM
virgins is that scary territory for guys?
i agree with aramir. virgins is the best accomplishment for guys..lol
Mighty Aramir
02-02-2007, 11:06 PM
@Senbon Zakura:
1)well, in my opinion, sex is a big deal for most men, it marks the completation of their physical growth, yet mental and emotional growth hasn't... and with out that a very unfortunate series of events tend to happen, they might have later social realationships problems...
2)At least in my case, its unimportant... but for most guys it is, because the ultimate idea of relationships are to preserve the species, fortunately for us humans feelings are also involved...
rhoden23
02-02-2007, 11:09 PM
May I ask why a lot guys (not all!) around the age of 12-17 refuse to grow up or mature? Seriously, the laughing-at-anyone-who-says-penis or throw-spit-balls-at-people-we-hate are a little annoying.
And is sex very important?
Do you think about having sex with a girl when you have interest in her?
I bet these questions were already answered. But for the sake of curiosity!
coz they wanna have fun till there young coz they wont be able to those things wen they grow up..
yes i think about havin sex the girl i have interest with. its normal for guys. but doesnt mean i wanna do it wen it comes to it. coz if i really like the girl i'll wait till she's ready i dont wanna force her or for to think i just want sex from her..
Hakuoro
02-02-2007, 11:09 PM
May I ask why a lot guys (not all!) around the age of 12-17 refuse to grow up or mature? Seriously, the laughing-at-anyone-who-says-penis or throw-spit-balls-at-people-we-hate are a little annoying.
And is sex very important?
Do you think about having sex with a girl when you have interest in her?
I bet these questions were already answered. But for the sake of curiosity!
K then.. For the first question. They probably just havent matured yet. Either that or they have some sort of disorder that doesnt let them mature fast. Puberty maturity rate varies for every guy.
Sex is important for some guys. It makes them feel more like a man or something. It could also make them feel stronger or it could make them feel crappy when the guy realizes that he has a child...
When I like a girl I dont usually think about having sex with her. But thats just me. Other guys probably do, again, it all depends on the guy and also on who you like. Some people may feel that it could be disrespectful or something along the lines of that until they actually do it..
Frozensolid
02-02-2007, 11:13 PM
May I ask why a lot guys (not all!) around the age of 12-17 refuse to grow up or mature? Seriously, the laughing-at-anyone-who-says-penis or throw-spit-balls-at-people-we-hate are a little annoying.
Well i dont know why but only when i was 12-13 we still said that cause we "thought" it was funny but when i was 14 me and my friends became alot of mature though there still were a few immature ones in my class most of them grew up ;).
Strange you also asked 17 year olds though i cant see a 17 year old doing that at my schoolO_o
And is sex very important?
This one depends on the guy because i myself always want to know the girl better first >_>
Do you think about having sex with a girl when you have interest in her?
Nope i always check on personality first though looks might get my attention quicker if the person is nice i usually end up liking the nice one instead of the good-looking one.
Icestorm
02-03-2007, 06:37 AM
1) Well most of these questions depend on the guy. I know it is true that some women dont mature as fast as other women the same applies to men. But I know for sure that no 17 year olds would ever do that at my school. The same could be said for me .
2) Well I think that if you are to have a normal adult relationship sex is very important, but that is in relationship terms and notice the adult part. The reason i say this is because sex could be said as another way to show love to that special person and if you wernt to engage in it often it could be an indication to your partner that you dont feel that attracted to him/her (this depends on the individuals). To some (again depending on the person and again the age) they dont exactly grasp the meaning of sex, only that it feels good so do it whenever possible. Stupid? I think so, but then thats my opinion because I have never sought sex jut because it feels good. I would only have sex with someone I love, call me old fashioned but I think thats how it should be.
3)Well probably from the above answer you would gather that id have more decency and more respect for a girl than to think that. But again some guys do.
hasuke
02-03-2007, 10:59 AM
Why do boys act immature sometimes? It's fun at times. I'll admit I'll shoot spitwads at people or punchbuggy a friend (WHILE HE'S DRIVING BECAUSE I AM FUCKING CRAZY. ok, not really) Cause hey, goofing off is fun sometimes. Not all the time though.
As for asking why sex is important for guys... Well, some think of it like an accomplishment "HEY LOOK AT ALL THE PUSSY I GET". others think having sex rates you as a man. Guys like me however, think sex is something important and special in a relationship. (In before 15 other guys call me a faggot for this).
And for the quest about why guys like big boobs/butts. personal preference. It's like asking why some guys/girls prefer certain hair colors,some girls prefer prettyboys over normal guys, etc etc etc
EDIT: Missed a few questions.
When I get to know a girl, I don't really focus on getting her in bed and screwing her. In fact, it's the last thing that crosses my mind. I'm probably the type of guy to not be answering these questions, since i'm so far from the average male mentality it's kind of funny. I think more about compatibility and such, but thats because I'm actually looking for someone to have a mature relationship with and not some suckfuck melodrama relationship.
And for the "are virgins scary for guys?" I would say no. I personally would prefer a virgin. As it shows she hasn't been running around, fucking guys at the drop of a hat. (no offense to girls who aren't a virgin or anything. I know some of you aren't sluts, but just keep in mind there are a lot of slutty girls like there are a lot of piggish men.)
So yeah, once again I suppose it's a personal preference thing.
Anubisrage
02-04-2007, 10:32 PM
May I ask why a lot guys (not all!) around the age of 12-17 refuse to grow up or mature? Seriously, the laughing-at-anyone-who-says-penis or throw-spit-balls-at-people-we-hate are a little annoying.
And is sex very important?
Do you think about having sex with a girl when you have interest in her?
I bet these questions were already answered. But for the sake of curiosity!
Ill answer that for you:
They dont grow up because they think that girls like immature guys, I know because I know alot of guys like that, they just want to get the girls attention, they dont care how and think that girls like that... I always found that foolish.
Sex is not VERY important but it does play a part... I mean you can have a GF without having sex, or you can have sex... It depends on the individual person's sex drive... Personally I have a strong sex drive but I can control it...
And thinking about sec with a girl if you have intrest in her is not always true, occasionally you might get a thought or two put they arent anything nasty, that is only if the guy only wants the girl for sex... I hope I answered your questions, if not, inform me and I'll try to make better sense... ^_^
maximoose666
02-06-2007, 09:05 PM
Lol good point but its the idiot and/or ass hole guys that have sex without protection when they don't want kids, honestly do they want to ruin their lives and gets some menial low paying job?
The women should use protection if they are so concerned.
Isn't the chatholic church against condoms?
Hey everybody "YAY AIDS"
One reason why im agrostic.
1. The word is "agnostic"
2. Having unprotected sex doesn't automatically mean you get aids, you need to be sleeping with an HIV/AIDS carrier.
3. Alternatively if you want to be even safer than using condoms (which can sometimes break) you could just refrain from having sex with your partner. Tough, I know, but that's what the Catholic Church suggests, not an AIDS-fest.
Don't insult other people's beliefs, and do some research before you claim to know about a religion.
Phasmatis
02-06-2007, 10:43 PM
(NOTE: I'm not answering these in any order. I'm not putting any thought into them. So don't take them too seriously.)
Why do some guys just love to fool around with other girls even though he's in a relationship and tells that girl he loves her a lot? =/
Two things: Males are like this naturally, and none of us care. When we see a hot girl, our heads naturally follow. It's instinct, as far as I can tell. But we're friggin' human beings, we can overcome instinct. If you can't or don't control your own self for the sake of the woman you are currently with (who gets annoyed when you look at other women), then you're just an instinctive... animal. Oh, and I'm as guilty as every other guy here, so...
Why do guys like porn so much?
(even those who are in a relationship)
Heh, tough one. I'm going to go with instinct again. Disgusting, isn't it? And again, it's easier to go along with. "I like looking at this." is the most that goes through guy's minds.
why do guys hate smart girls?
They don't. I'll take a smart girl over a hotter and dumber girl any day. But... There seems to be this myth out there that dumb girls are easier to convince to have sex with you. Whatever, sounds like total BS to me.
why do boys act so so so so stupid?
Because we are, sometimes, usually, most of the time, stupid as all hell and do whatever we feel like at the moment.
i mean, why do they show off when they already have a GF?
Because they want a hotter girlfriend. As much as I hated writing that last sentence, it seems true enough, from watching friends of mine who have GF's.
and why do boys have *** with out protection?
Because they are redneck hillbillies who haven't been to a Wal*Mart in months. I'd like to blame this on stupidity, but I can't. When you are stupid, some thoughts are crossing your mind. I doubt that anyone who has sex without protection is thinking anything. They're usually totally wasted, and think that they are invincible... Let me tell you: Hepititis is laughing at you right now.
What is up with the male ego?
Oh, have you noticed that each of us is replying to each and every question, without reading the previous answers? At least your male-ego theory is well-supported. XD
*ahem* Anyways, I think that most guys need to be more modest about themselves. :rolleye09 Once you learn that nobody gives a flying damn about you anyways, it becomes a lot easier. LMAO
What types of girls do guys generally go for?
That depends entirely on the guy. Different guys like different things.
Don't even get me started on the "anal sex" trend going around hetero couples... Those of you guys who are doing that... Isn't it time to come out of the closet already? :eek13:
What's so appealing about large boobs and a large ass?
Because rap songs tell us to like them, we do. Or rather, some guys do. Again, guys like different things.
I've been wondering about this for some time now. Do guys talk about their personal intimate experiences with their girlfriends?
Guys brag about it to other guys. But, despite the myth portrayed on TV... Guys don't ask each other about it.
One reason why im agrostic.
LOL@YOU Show our religion a little more respect, mate. ;)
May I ask why a lot guys (not all!) around the age of 12-17 refuse to grow up or mature? Seriously, the laughing-at-anyone-who-says-penis or throw-spit-balls-at-people-we-hate are a little annoying.
Yeah, I hate that. It's retarded and immature. Unfortunately, I'm as clueless as you are about it. I never went through that phase, thankfully. :musak:
And is sex very important?
Yes, it's part of who we are... or something. Ask Freud, he'd give you a bunch of BS on the subject.
Do you think about having sex with a girl when you have interest in her?
Sometimes. But it's pointless and is really a waste of time.
Ronin36
02-07-2007, 01:28 AM
The only thing I'd like to elaborate on is the reason why guys are so stupid. Sure, we are sometimes. But most guys actually look stupid purposely, because stupid people are funny and get attention, and being the center is everything for a guy. Have you ever noticed that most guys get a good laugh from the entire class for being stupid? Those laughs are what makes a guy popular with the ladies. Most girls agree that they want their BF to be funny (or at least all the girls I know at school, which is at least a couple hundred).
silverwolf801
02-07-2007, 02:12 AM
Yea guys just like to act like dogs and duffuses it's nice when people pay attention to you in a good light especially females because having female attention is the best
The only thing I'd like to elaborate on is the reason why guys are so stupid. Sure, we are sometimes. But most guys actually look stupid purposely, because stupid people are funny and get attention, and being the center is everything for a guy. Have you ever noticed that most guys get a good laugh from the entire class for being stupid? Those laughs are what makes a guy popular with the ladies. Most girls agree that they want their BF to be funny (or at least all the girls I know at school, which is at least a couple hundred).
well to be completely honest... I don't know what you are talking about...
I don't know any guys who make a fool out of themselves to get the class to laugh. Maybe it's just the dutch mentality or it is my class (we only have 4 guys, including me) but I know other classes too.
Silhouette
02-07-2007, 08:24 PM
Wow. Most of the questions you girls are asking are directed towards the stereotypical "immature, sex-obsessed, porn addict" male.
Ok, first off. I know girls who are all of the above. Its not a gender thing. Its a person thing.
Second, I'm very mature. I always have been; even when I was a kid, I wasn't the type to laugh at burp/fart jokes, or laugh whenever someone said "penis".
Sex and porn. Both genders are capable of being addicted to it. Personally, I'm not though.
And fyi, the acting stupid to get attention thing pisses me off. Girls do this far more often than guys. Ugh. You have no idea how much I just want to get up and smack a....nvm.
Night Prowler
02-07-2007, 08:40 PM
*Was gonna post what Taso put...*
A-men Taso.
Icestorm
02-09-2007, 07:55 AM
I agree.. Good job Taso. For all those femininsts out there... males are stereostyped aswell.
its like asking...
Why are girls sluts?
what kind of question is that?? Would it not entirely depend on who it is??
Or
Why do all girls like to cook?
Again a stereotypical generalisation that all females like to cook.
The questions that you guys are asking makes the guys who arnt even close to who you describe feel bad that you think of them in such a way.
Starting off a question with "Why do all guys like to.." is pretty mean. Im not talking to all the girls who asked questions, only those who worded them so.
And I for one agree that I would never act stupid just to gain attention, I would rather gain attention for having a good personality.
Why do all girls like to cook?
most men are cooks, women cook only cause their husbands are working.
men are better in cooking than women. (cause I say so and I can prove it lol)
seriously, why do people ask questions like these?
Icestorm
02-09-2007, 11:47 AM
No I was using that as an example for gender generalisations that are put on people. I wasnt actually asking such a stupid question.
Does anyone have a guesstimate on the percentage of guys that want to date yet not have sex till marriage?
ravenx
02-09-2007, 08:12 PM
I would say that percentage is 0. I doubt that any guy out there will wilingly and without the influence of parents, church, goverment or girlfriend will want to wait for sex.And I'm saying really want to wait. Not say he wants to wait but deep inside to regret it.
silverwolf801
02-09-2007, 09:15 PM
wow you really know your men because I would never wait to have sex. I just can't. If a female pushes up on me then I can't help myself it is an automatic thng that just happens.
You don't know that for sure, ravenx
I'm sure there are a few guys out there that will wait until marriage, just like some girls do.
They're hard to find, but I'm positive they're out there.
Night Prowler
02-09-2007, 09:18 PM
@#Kray: True but I bet they've had doubts or done "Alternative" ways.
Silhouette
02-09-2007, 09:27 PM
There are females that don't want to wait either. The reason why females want to wait, I assume, is incase they get pregnant. They are pregnant from the person they "love" and married, as opposed to some high school fling.
Guys, don't have to worry about that. I mean, if the girl gets pregnant, then that's our problem too, but still. Its easier for us to avoid those situations.
Personally, since I'll never get married...*shrugs*...depends on the girl and the situation I guess. >.>;
Ishikawa_Masahiro
02-09-2007, 11:20 PM
You don't know that for sure, ravenx
I'm sure there are a few guys out there that will wait until marriage, just like some girls do.
They're hard to find, but I'm positive they're out there.
Those guys would probably be sheltered as hell. With some crazy parents. lol
Anyway, aren't divorces extremely common? Or am I getting my facts wrong? I'd rather not put a child through all the stress of growing up with his mommy and daddy then one day they split. That would be more horrible than baby momma abandonment :redbiggri
Also, about that guys being stupid question.
A lot of guys I know think females are stupid as well.
Is it a coincidence? Or maybe it's just because we don't understand each other. :rolleye09
silverwolf801
02-10-2007, 02:45 AM
Man please females are very smart, they are actually smarter than males. I guess because they are mre dedicated and stuff, but this only goes for some girls.
~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™
02-11-2007, 01:35 PM
Does anyone have a guesstimate on the percentage of guys that want to date yet not have sex till marriage?
dunno, in my country maybe 70% :redbiggri
Evanesque
02-11-2007, 01:42 PM
In my country, everyone's doing it...no body cares about values and morales anymore...That's sad...>.>
~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™
02-11-2007, 01:44 PM
awww...*pat*
in my country the laws and education gets you so down that i bet 60% of the students here did even get into a relationship till 15 or so....
its also sad here....
silverwolf801
02-11-2007, 10:49 PM
In my country, everyone's doing it...no body cares about values and morales anymore...That's sad...>.>
actually that sounds like woodstock. that's hot no morals
I've met a lot of people that say they wait until marriage, actually.
But saying one thing, and actually following through is totally different..:rolleye09
Silhouette
02-12-2007, 09:26 PM
Man please females are very smart, they are actually smarter than males. I guess because they are mre dedicated and stuff, but this only goes for some girls.
Speak for yourself. Not all females are smarter than all males. That's a very ignorant statement. And dedication does not go by gender; the situation + the person in question's personality is what determines their dedication.
silverwolf801
02-13-2007, 03:31 AM
I said this goes for some girls. SOME
Silhouette
02-13-2007, 11:28 AM
But you're still saying that some girls are smarter than all guys. Which is still wrong. :whatevah:
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:05 PM
Are you saying no girl is smart then? >=/
Silver even wrote SOME in capital, he didn't say all girls are smart...
Silhouette
02-13-2007, 12:07 PM
No. I'm not calling girls stupid, I'm just stating that they aren't smarter than all guys.
The way he worded it...nvm, forget it.
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:09 PM
There you go, now you're saying ALL guys...
When you say some, it shows the amount of people who are actually dumb and applies to them only, without offending others.
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:09 PM
Girls Are Smarter than Boys: A PASS Theory Validity Study
Paper presented at the Annual American Psychological Association Convention, August, 1999, Boston, MA
Jack A. Naglieri, Ph.D.[1]
George Mason University
Sex differences have been of interest to many researchers and practitioners and the subject of substantial debate in the popular media for some time. Many recognize that girls and boys are different, especially in school. Research has shown that girls do better than boys in verbal tests and school achievement, and are less often identified as having learning disabilities or attention deficit disorders. In this investigation a sample of 1,100 boys and 1,100 girls who matched the U.S. population on several demographic characteristics were compared using the PASS theory. Results showed that girls outperformed boys on measures of Planning and Attention by about 5 points.
There is considerable research on differences between girls and boys and a full range of reactions and interpretations to the findings. Halpern (1997) summarized some of the major findings as follows: boys have been found to do better on tasks such as mental rotation, mechanical reasoning, math and science knowledge, and verbal analogies; girls have outperformed boys on tests of verbal fluency, foreign language, fine motor skills, speech articulation, reading and writing, math calculation, and they typically earn higher grades in school in all or most subjects. McHough, Koeske, and Frieze (1986) argue that sex differences cannot be adequately understood and examined unless boys and girls are compared according to a theoretical model of cognitive functioning. Geary (1989) further emphasized that conceptual models of cognitive differences between the sexes should provide an integration of the neurological and sociocultural components that influence the development of cognitive processes.
Naglieri (1999) and Sternberg (1990) stress the importance of having a theoretical approach define and measure intelligence, especially when group differences are examined. Naglieri and Das (1997a) argues that a theory of cognitive abilities and a well-developed test to measure these processes is needed. Combining a theory and a test with the study of sex differences could yield insights into the differences in performance noted by Halpern (1997) and others. This has been accomplished by Das, Naglieri, and Kirby (1994) with their proposal of the Planning, Attention, Simultaneous, Successive (PASS) theory of cognitive processing and the development of the Cognitive Assessment System (CAS; Naglieri & Das, 1997b).
The PASS theory of cognitive processing provides a view of intelligence reconceptualized as cognitive processes following from the neuropsychological work of A. R. Luria (e.g., 1973, 1980). This theory proposes that basic psychological processes include Planning, Attention, Simultaneous, and Successive processing that use and influence a child’s base of knowledge and skills. In this theory, planning processes provide cognitive control, utilization of processes and knowledge, intentionality, and self-regulation to achieve a desired goal; attention processes provide focused, selective cognitive activity over time and resistance to distraction; simultaneous processing allows the person to deal with many pieces of information at one time; and successive process allow a person to work with information in a specific order or series. These basic processes are measured by the CAS, which is an individually administered test with 12 subtests organized into four PASS scales. The test was standardized on a large (n = 2,200) representative sample of children aged 5-17 years. Each of the PASS Scales yields a standard score with a mean of 100 and SD of 15. This test was used to compare the performance of girls and boys on the four PASS cognitive processes.
Read more here... http://mypsychologist.com/hottopics/boys_girls.htm
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:11 PM
Okie Sy, you seriously didn't have to do that
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:16 PM
No you're not.
You're smart in your own way :rolleye09
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:16 PM
Duh read it and weep
Silhouette
02-13-2007, 12:18 PM
Ok, that's interesting and all, but it doesn't matter.
1. According to that "essay", boys are better than girls at a few things as well.
2. That's all academic. That's book knowledge, not intelligence. Those two are entirely different.
3. To say that, in general, one sex is smarter than the other is ignorant. And obviously, each sex would say that theirs is superior....except for the few guys that'll say w/e to get into girl's pants.
So psh.
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:23 PM
I say both are intelligent in their own way...but some are dumb in both species so you psh!
Silhouette
02-13-2007, 12:24 PM
Yes, I know that. So PSH right back at ya! >.>;
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:26 PM
1. I know.. That's why I said "read it".. :)
2. Book knowledge or not, it still stands..
3. Each individual is different, I know that as well as you.. That was just in general.. But there's always some truth behind researches..
I was just bored and had to do that.. I believe that B/S as much as you.. :D
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:26 PM
Either way, you know that study stated something X3
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:30 PM
Boys just wanna get into girl's pants.. yup yup.. x3
but that would look weird, a boy in girls pants...no?
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:32 PM
I've seen a couple.. it does.. :O
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:33 PM
You guys are too cute X3
*glompsh*
Silhouette
02-13-2007, 12:34 PM
Wow. So not what I meant. But yeah, guys wearing girl pants...is rather...gross.
-_-"
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:35 PM
I say .. rather tight.. itchy crotch ftl..
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:35 PM
Well actually Sy meant something else but when Di said his line, Sy hopped on board the funny cute wagon and said what he said and you just changed your mind about what you thought and hopped too X3
yeh well, i've never seen em.... but i can imagine it to be kinda yeh...... not suitable so to say?!
edit: if it itches CUT IT DOWN!
edit2: cute wagon rawr =)
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:37 PM
yeh well, i've never seen em.... but i can imagine it to be kinda yeh...... not suitable so to say?!
edit: if it itches CUT IT DOWN!
edit2: cute wagon rawr =)
err.. it will still itch.. cuz they r tight.. doooh
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:38 PM
Ooh...there are so many philippino men with boob implants and make up + wigs...they all work at the barbers...
My bf's scared to go get a haircut because of that...they keep, ahem, 'touching' him..O_O
Btw, this was to be related to the tight pants thingy X3
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:39 PM
And I was like.. "what is this person on about".. but yea I would be veeeery scared too..
uhm.... well.... i prefer tight clothes to wide and it doesn't itch.....well
guess it's cuz its men clothes...strange
edit: if they'd touch me i'd break their fingers, or just tell them to stop ;)
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:42 PM
depends on how tight... I'm talking sausage skin here..
edit: oh well.. it was just something I said..
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:44 PM
Sausage skin X3
So tight that everything peeks out
=0
:redbiggri
eeek no not that tight of course..... just normal (haha whats normal)
what the hell should peek out there? not like i'm wearing leggings....yuck
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 12:48 PM
Weeeeeee...:redbiggri
No di, it's not like you are =X
That would be verrry odd...o_O
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:50 PM
deto: like that?
http://pirates.istheshit.net/
*dies* X.X
Edit: fixed..
thank god the link isn't working i guess..... yeh ev don't worry i'm not xD
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 12:53 PM
awww.. I guess you're better without seeing it..
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 01:28 PM
I wonder what that was though...does it have any relation to what we were discussing today?
:redbiggri
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 01:30 PM
try clicking the link again... and yeah kinda
boys in girls pants? no that was rather off topic i guess
I TAKE ALL THE BLAME!
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 01:32 PM
OMFG...@_@ my eyes are bleeding T_T
I wish I never saw that big big nasty monster...X3
I wish I never saw that big big nasty monster...X3
hey what i didn't unzip yet :Haha
oh what a terrible joke.... and i still think i'm better off not seeing it!
thank you tho ev's reaction kinda is enough
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 01:40 PM
No di, it was a snexy woman :face82:
you cannot fool me EVIL AUNT!
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 01:53 PM
I think you've seen something your mommy didn't want you to see...=0
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 01:55 PM
Clickie the link already..pweease?
no way! i won't! ever! i'm curious but not that curious :P hehe
you could also tell a mountain to move, 3 words dear NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!
.......durrrrr 4 words...
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 01:59 PM
Too cute...CLICK ALREADY!!!
*whacks*
told you i'm getting used to being whacked.....
STOP HAMMERTIME! can't touch this..... :redbiggri
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 02:03 PM
Damn...>.> But you need to see that. It's priceless...
I need someone to back me on this...no wait...you know what I think? I think you already clicked the link but had your eyes shut like this: >.<
X3
no i actually didn't klick and i'm not going to click and nothing and
no one is going to convince me to click... :P
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 02:06 PM
CLICK!!!!
i dooooon't klick your bloody spoiler :redbiggri
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 02:10 PM
Surre di...
I hate you, you stupid stupid nephew of mine....click and I will shower you with love...not then I won't whack you ever again...(and I know how much you like it when I whack you)
i love it when you whack me =O hahaha..... nah i don't feel like clicking
sorry aunt :P
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 02:15 PM
Fine, I give up...but I know you will take a peek when I'm not looking!
Where's your male curiousityness?
>.>
you must mistake that for female-curiousityness .... yes yes
and i'm still not gonna look
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 03:34 PM
bbaaak baaap *chicken wings*.. xD
Big nasty monster indeed..
taunting is so useless.... :redbiggri
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 04:18 PM
yea it usually ends up having the reversed effect..
if you call "get punched in the face" reverse effect, yeh i guess you're right :redbiggri
Ask a guy?
Why are most of us so stubborn!
Prime example right here! :p
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 04:23 PM
if you call "get punched in the face" reverse effect, yeh i guess you're right :redbiggri
well at least not "desired" effect..
kriz: no idea..
Neither do I. Very stubborn, and hate admitting that I'm wrong - but only when it comes to certain things.
I'll never be able to figure out why guys are like this. :o
SoundWave
02-13-2007, 04:35 PM
Meh I'm very stubborn about a lot of things.. But if I need to I'll ask for help etc.. Though I like to give it a go first b4 asking.
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 04:35 PM
But women are as stubborn as men too you know...
KRAYYYY!!! *glompsh*
I'm never gonna get over glomping this guy, he's too adorable!! :redbiggri
i'm not stubborn absolutely not, i'll deny it to death if anyone says i am ok?
:redbiggri
Evanesque
02-13-2007, 04:40 PM
XD
*slaps di*
I hate you, you're too cute...
I HATE YOU, you hear?
*sobs* that that.....
.....hahahaha sounds so cute..... sorry :P
Wewt. I'm adorable. Nyahhh-nyah!
Pft. Yeah, I always need to try it first before asking for any information about anything. I'm vuury independent.
Kuroi Getsuga Tenshou
02-13-2007, 09:29 PM
As stubborn as they come, and lazy (*me*)
Night Prowler
02-14-2007, 12:28 AM
Are. You. Kidding-me Kritz, my last girlfriend was so stubborn it would tower over your stubborness.
Any questions?
I never said girls weren't stubborn. Thanks.
:p
Nicole
02-14-2007, 06:58 AM
Okay... Here's a question:
How do you get a guy to be more romantic, yet not be overbearing at the same time?
here it would be interesting what would you consider "overbearing"
i mean is it enough if he just takes you to a remote spot down to the
beach or hillside to watch the sun go down or candle light dinner under
starlit sky?
i think in everyone is a romantic hidden somewhere, now you ask how
to wake up the beast but not wake it too fast. well i think it depends alot
on your reaction. most guys are most likely totally lost and unsure if the
girl would like it. they might have ideas but they stumble in actually go for
it. it simply needs time i'd say, don't expect too much in short time. of course
there are some that are more romantic, prolly those that made good experiences
with being that way....
yadda yadda, just don't tell him to be romantic that usually ends up in a
total desaster :redbiggri
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 07:58 AM
Why is it only me who doesn't want a romantic guy? >.>
My bf is sooo romantic, I tell him to stop it X3
It's too much love, not that I don't like it, it's just more than I'd want. I don't want to drown in it X3
and i bet it would be the thing you'd miss most if he
would stop with it ;)
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 09:13 AM
I'm sure I will. That's why I hate him for being like that..
It's like the things you hate the most about the guy turns out to be something you miss the most later...I love my bf, for everything he does. He can be really dumb sometimes, making a big deal about nothing...but then I do that too. He can be horribly stubborn and not accept what I say...so do I...well sometimes it seems that we're so alike but at the same time we're very very different..
Things like these are so inexplicible but I love the way we are...<3
awwww sweet *g* *pats*
btw guys.... if a girl says "i need more space" do not reply with
"go work for the NASA then" it turns out to be just the wrong
thing to say in this very situation.... yes....... thought i'd let you
know.
>:0 who the heck will say that? sweet jesus, i'll slap the guy so hard, he'll never ever recover from the shock.
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 09:22 AM
Di:: I can see you had nothing more to say so you said that for the heck of saying something, didn't you?
Or are you actually saying that to the dumbest of your kind?
damn you recognize everything! :redbiggri
yeh i figured maybe some day a poor soul
will be eternaly thankful for this little heads up
and my post would have looked rather.... small...yeh
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 09:26 AM
ZOMG, I can understand you? I must be falling sick!!
*checks temperature*
no i've been pretty obvious there
*imitaes the strange voice*
thou shalt never understand my
(damn....thats pretty bad i'm in
the middle of this and now i can't
find the appropriate words)
me! never understand me!
*gasps*
thou who does understand me,
thee must be quite intelligent.
something along those lines right?
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 09:33 AM
>poof<
*forgets all that di said*
*rewinds*
Huh? I have no idea what you meant by that post..>.>
Guys, I'll never understand them...*nodsh*
SoundWave
02-14-2007, 09:37 AM
Boo yaw.. Skeet skeet, bang bang homie, Ima park ma slab right here and post my black ass up for the night.. :D
oh me too, me too
0.o..
okies..a question: what will guys will to a girl like me? "high-pitched, lolita-shota type, short, flat-chested girl"
yeah? it's a dare from my friends to see what i will ever (ever) get.
lol sy
uhm pe, could you rephrase the question? i'm kinda lost there :x
okies..*takes deeeepp breath*
what will guys give to a girl on valentines day, if, she was very short, high-pitched, flat-chested, and can be amused by the smallest things, like a screaming when seeing a dog or some other animal?
what would you wish to be given?
well appearance doesn't really decide what you give, at least i'd state it
this way.
SoundWave
02-14-2007, 10:03 AM
a kiss?..
Well I agree with deto anyways
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 10:04 AM
Kia I think you're asking if anyone would even give you gifties with that description, right? @_@
yeah. my friends dared to make a list of things that one guy would ever give me. X_X. for one example my friend suggested that he'll go to jap and buy me a lolita-shota type dress. X_x. and get a voodoo doll.
silverwolf801
02-14-2007, 10:37 AM
A guy would get you that,if he would then you must be bangin because I don't think I could buy a voodoo doll.
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 10:38 AM
Omfg...all the guys at work gave us women a red rose each...@_@
That was sweet...and very unexpected!! O_O
silverwolf801
02-14-2007, 10:41 AM
wack that was like a plan that they made up so was it really from the heart. You have to think about that one. Did someone buy you something unexpected like a diamond ring from Kays.
Icestorm
02-14-2007, 10:43 AM
In answer to your question Kia.. hmm perhaps some.. hello kitty stuff? Cute things?
It would also depend on your personality because looks dont determine what a good gift is.
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 10:47 AM
Lol, it was just a thing I said. Of course it wasn't from the heart as in personally...it was wishing all of us happy v'day and to have a nice day...I never knew people here even did such things...That's what surprised me.
I hope you didn't think I was all squeally XD It was just surprising...you knw what? I'm in the wrong thread...X3
In answer to your question Kia.. hmm perhaps some.. hello kitty stuff? Cute things?
It would also depend on your personality because looks dont determine what a good gift is.
LOL! hello kitty! i destroyed my friends rubber with hello kitty's face on it. >:3 i gave it lines from it's eyes and renamed it hell (the 'o' is crossed out) kitty.
:3 lol, the things i do to cute things.
Nicole
02-14-2007, 03:39 PM
LOL! hello kitty! i destroyed my friends rubber with hello kitty's face on it. >:3 i gave it lines from it's eyes and renamed it hell (the 'o' is crossed out) kitty.
A... rubber...?
/me can't read that without keeping a straight face
Sorry. XD
Evanesque
02-14-2007, 03:47 PM
How cute and adorable...
*tries to keep a straight face*
*hides giggles*
X3
Mighty Aramir
02-14-2007, 03:57 PM
*smiles* hell kitty!! mwahahahahaha
Ston3
02-14-2007, 04:23 PM
A... rubber...?
/me can't read that without keeping a straight face
Sorry. XD
Knew I could have been the only one
:redbiggri
Kuroi Getsuga Tenshou
02-15-2007, 10:15 AM
What the hell's happening?
silverwolf801
02-15-2007, 11:00 AM
hello kitty rubbers are happening duh.
XD!
Can you imagine?
"Honey, do you have protection?"
"Only the best! * Pulls out Hello Kitty Rubber *"
"What is that..?"
"You'll see! It even meows when I open it! ^_______________________^"
Jesus. X3
darkthief
02-15-2007, 12:35 PM
Too much information there KrayZeKriZ. She's referring to a daily-use school object.
~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™
02-15-2007, 12:40 PM
She's referring to a daily-use school object.
lol it would have sounded wrong if there wasnt the word 'school' in it...:redbiggri
darkthief
02-15-2007, 12:43 PM
Once again, Too much information there ~*Stony-Chan*~.
How is that TMI? >_>;
TMI would be like.....
No, I wont do it X3.
Anyways. Moving on..
lol it would have sounded wrong if there wasnt the word 'school' in it...:redbiggri
D:< i don't know if it's me or not, but ever since u go the captain's seat, ur gone gone all pervy.
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 09:42 AM
Power corrupts men...
meh, *adds note on paper*
another reason NOT to go out at all.
~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™
02-16-2007, 09:47 AM
D:< i don't know if it's me or not, but ever since u go the captain's seat, ur gone gone all pervy.
lol no, i was all pervvy more than 2 years b4 i joined cb, i just kept mute bout it... until some cb members came and awakened my pervvy side once again :redbiggri
*decides to wear long long pants and shirt if ever around stony*
*goes and changes now*
>.> *hugs arms around self*
u perv. ur probably even worse then those crazy kids who ran to the library to read those porno mags.
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 09:49 AM
Bah Kia!!! I need to see you at SN!!! We arnt all Stony's.
*squeals*
i know! kia has to dress up in a maid costume! and kia needs to get permission from her parents! X_X. and kia needs to ask her friends grannie to make it for me.
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 09:55 AM
o_O maid...at least you will be easy to find XD
Yeah, some girl from gravion or he is my master or something. X_X. things that you do for friends.
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 09:58 AM
Pity the maid look hasnt quite taken off here...or anywhere but Japan XD
Still you should look kawaii and odd. A good combo.
lol. X_X. bad thing cause the uniforms are really really low. X_X. *ish miss a-cup*
X_x.
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 10:05 AM
Haha. Well for your age one wouldent expect anything but an a-cup. Thats what will make you kawaii. A very young maid.
*ish surrounded by friends c-cup and b-cup. X_x. thank god i don't have a friend whose a d-cup. i'm so innocent, whoever corrupts me is going to have a good time.
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 10:09 AM
Dont underestimate the a-cup. Breasts dont make the woman.
lol! i agree! *thumbs up*
>:3
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 10:21 AM
^^ We will get along just fine then >=]
man, i'm e-married to a perv. X_X.
sweet lord. i'm going to need a bazooka. anyway.
you go the supanova last year? i soo wanted to meet vic M! but nooooo... my dad complains that he wants to go the stupid car show!
Planeswalker
02-16-2007, 10:28 AM
Poor Kia D=
Yeah I went to Sydnova last year. Met Vic. He was a cool guy. Crispin Freeman as well. Voice actors are always suprisingly nice people. In contrast to some of the other more famous guests...e.g. Summer Glau. When I met her she said one word to me. "hi". Crispin and Vic had mini convos though. Ah anime people are good.
X3 *squeals*
eeekk! ma sis and i love vic! i wonder if he's going to syd again! :3
~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™
02-16-2007, 10:34 AM
man, i'm e-married to a perv. X_X.
hey! mii no as bad as yukiro!! :whatevah:
hahaa...then again... nah 4get it :redbiggri
no, iro has a serious side you? *ahem*
jesus.
~*StÓÑy RèL0ÂÐeD™
02-16-2007, 11:05 AM
*shakes head*
every guy has a perv side..
but dont worry, i NEVER put my thougts out in actions anyway, i always keep them shut in my head.... so technically im just a normal person.... u'll never see me saying stuff lke tis or anything at all...
*wonders if girls have a really guyish pervish side*
my friend tried to take off my strawberry shirt to see my assessts 0.0
Nicole
02-16-2007, 02:51 PM
*wonders if girls have a really guyish pervish side*
<-----
:)
I tried to make this as not-spammy as possible.
*coughImafemalepervcoughcoughhackcoughdie*
Icestorm
02-17-2007, 08:09 AM
Rofl.. Elo... I would expect that.. not suprised actually :D
/me runs for the hills
/me looks over one of the hills
Is there any more questions?
Nicole
02-17-2007, 09:02 AM
Rawr.
What else can you expect from an 18+ mod :P
So... I've always been told that for guys it's sex first then love, and for girls it's the opposite. I know not all guys here are all "OMG SEX NOW PLZ", but I was wondering if a guy could give me a more detailed view on this.
Anubisrage
02-17-2007, 09:18 AM
Rawr.
What else can you expect from an 18+ mod :P
So... I've always been told that for guys it's sex first then love, and for girls it's the opposite. I know not all guys here are all "OMG SEX NOW PLZ", but I was wondering if a guy could give me a more detailed view on this.
well like you said not everyone is like that but guys tend to be craving sex more that females because of testosteron... 'wrong spelling' that is why there are so many female prostitutes... anyway, there are a lot of guys that have sex only with a girl they love or even wait till marriage, but not everyone can say NO if a girl is willing to give it to him... If he knows that he can get laid, then the guy will most propably go for it... that is not everyone though.
Icestorm
02-17-2007, 11:08 AM
To me.. I would only have sex with someone that I love.. and im not ashamed to say that I stayed a virgin for a while because of that.. Love means way more, because in the end what do you get from sex.. a good feeling that will be gone the next day. What do you get from love... support, amazing feelings that are better than sex any day, perhaps a life long friend, someone that is always there for you.. you get everything from love and one thing from sex. Having sex just because it feels good to me is stupid, I think it should be a beautiful thing... But thats just my opinion.
Yes, girls can have a reallly reallly pervy side, like my friend for example, at the swimming carnival.
Pulled down my jeans so she can take a look at my panties *deep blush*
then tried to pull up my shirt to see my..*ahem*
Evanesque
02-17-2007, 01:13 PM
Ookie...and what was she looking for? o_O
If I were you I'd have kicked her ass
Icestorm
02-17-2007, 01:16 PM
Yeah.. I have to ask.. is she slightly homosexual or just playing around?
darkthief
02-18-2007, 01:42 AM
I sense a lesbian. I see that action quite a few times except it's guys instead of girls.
Silhouette
02-18-2007, 01:46 AM
@Kia: lmao? How hard did you punch her afterwards? O_o;
@ice: ...
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