Why did your last Relationship Fail?

[♥ Tess]

Why did your last relationship fail?

There are various reasons some relationships don't work out.
either it involves trust issues, pressures, insecurities, compatibility, location, internet & etc...

So why didn't yours work out?

If your someone whose still in their 1st relationship,
what potential issues do you see arising that you think may evolve into a problem?
(if your willing to think like that)

[Kyoko<3!]

I'm not even sure WHY my last relationship didn't work out. Everything was going great until suddenly I get an EMAIL that explained to me why she broke up with me. It was awhile ago so I don't have it anymore, but basically it went like this: "I don't love you as much as you love me. I don't deserve you. We also live too far away, we hardly get to see each other, and it's hard arranging meetings this way =(. Sorry. KTHXBYE."

....gay huh. Then I find out she's going out with one of my best friends (who lives in my neighborhood >.>) like a week later. And guess what? She ended up cheating on him. The dirty tramp.

[asian]

Awww poor Ecna.
Anyway.
My last relationship phailed because he didn't understand that I like a lot of space. And so even when I asked for a couple days away from him he still called me five or six times a day.
I broke up with that fool in a week and a half.
Word.

[Miss M]

hmm... I dun even know when I made a relationship with my first bf... =/
well... my classmate pressured me... *yes... I'm a naive idiot*
and then... I didn't like what he does....
>_>''

[SHiKaMaRi]

One of my close friends kept on flirting with my 'bf' and he gradually got attracted to her. Then there was a lack of trust when I became good friends with this other guy. Nothing special was going on, but my bf thought so.

[Evanesque]

My last and all relationships failed because either I got bored with them, they were lame, jerks, annoying or lame x_X...They barely lasted a two weeks.

My record time was like 5 days and I still say that guy was a mistake...I even told him that...He was such a lame person. He'd try to do things like an idiot. For eg, he found out that guys who goof around make me laugh so he tried jumping up and down from chairs and doing the most embarrassing and dumb, childish things that made me hate him even more. He wasn't himself, he tried changing himself even when I told him not to. I even told him that I didn't like him trying to be 'perfect' for me...it was annoying..he honestly didn't have a mind of his own...blegh...anyway, he's gone so good riddance!

My current bf is the first and only one who's made it a year and 3 months with me :biggrinlo

And he's so different, nothing like the previous boys I've been with...he's smart, stubborn, has his own mind, intelligent, smexy <3, dark and mysterious, unpredictable, strong, broad-minded, funny, silly, respectful, courteous, naughty, sensitive, sensible, decent, comprising, etc, I can go on and on..!

He can be a gentleman and a wild beast <3333 *cough*

[Arkturus]

Hmmm... For me, the last Relationship ended for a totally odd reason. It was all going great and one day, she called, out of the blue and was like, 'You know, I was showering today and as I was shampooing, I realized that I didn't really like you and was forcing myself to be with you.' I was totally weirded out and furious. And a bit hurt too. I told her to rinse her hair.. Maybe that'd get rid of those lame ideas. Well, it certainly did not. So I moved on at a long time later, hooked up with another girl.

And then the ex pretended to be her cousin and came online from her add in MSN and tried to get me to confess that I was with whom I was with. So I did. And she went all 'You two perverts deserve each other!' I think she thought she was insulting me, but I found it rather funny. And when I told my girl, she laughed her head off too!! We are like 'Yeah, we totally do.' And every time we saw the ex (which was a lot, as we shared the same school), either me of my girl would go, 'Oh you PERVERT!!' and The other would go 'But i SO deserve you!' And we'd laugh it up...

Ok, so I sound like an ass. BUT she DID break it off for no reason AND had the gall to actually be JEALOUS after she told me that there was absolutely NO chance what-so-ever of us ever hooking up again... :sad Lamer... :sad

[BabyLoving]

-quince.
LOL. Cool thing you did. LOL. (: So hilarious. (:

For me, I don't even know why I agreed to it. I knew the guy was a flirt, and further more, I didn't had any feelings for him. But I still agreed to him. And one week later, I couldn't take it anymore, and we broke. LOL. Weird first love. LOL. (:

[Pie <3]

Grew boring / lost intrest.

So Shin , what about you:P?

[Donut]

Yeah Pie, the novelty wore off :rolleyes

Nah I broke up with my gf because of... Yeah... another girl. Don't go calling me an ass or anything, because there really wasn't anything else to do. I just stopped liking my gf, Idk why, and started to like another girl... Harsh, but yeah.

[Kyoko<3!]

I don't understand how people get bored in a real relationship, unless it was only a half-assed relationship.
Too many people rush into a relationship without a clue, and then complain about how horrible their gf or bf was or how they 'lose interest'.

Anyway, Pie get your ass back in IRC. I need entertainment.

[Shaehl]

I don't really do dating.

With me, I'd rather start by building up strong foundation of friendship with those of the female gender. This way, if and when I decide to try moving into a deeper relationship, it will be with the knowledge that I actually enjoy being around that person.

Also I'll know that I really like her and am not just blinded by a temporary lust that will inevitably fade.

I think the main reason that almost every dating relationship fails is because people are trying to "run" with their relationships before they learn how to "walk". You see someone hot and you immediately try to go from "complete stranger" to "romantic interest" without a clue as to who that person really is or whether or not you will be able to stand eachother's company once the intial lust wears off.

The downside is that I haven't been in a romantic relationship yet, but as sex is not the prize at the end of the race for me, I don't really mind taking my time.

[*kaname*]

My last relationship failed not long ago. I still feel a bit bad about breaking up. He was a nice guy, but it was enervating in the end. He had no will of his own, so I had to decide everything. Really, he needed no girlfriend but a substitute mom. Now he rushed into a new relationship. He has a girlfriend aged about 30 o.O and I feel a bit guilty -.- . I hope he gets happy with that old lady *sighs*. Life is so complicated >.<

[Elocin]

I'll delve into my only 2 relationships I've had in my life. First one was in high school, and a friend of mine for a year and I decided to be more than friends. Well, a few months later we decided we liked being friends more and split it off. And we're still friends, too. It's weird. It's like... no strings attached dating? lol

Second relationship... 2 months. Guy was an ass. I dealt with it until he dumped me for reasons I won't disclose.

My current relationship has its perks, but despite the circumstances, we make the best of it. And despite how different we are, I'm very surprised and glad that it's been working alright so far.

Too many people rush into a relationship without a clue, and then complain about how horrible their gf or bf was or how they 'lose interest'.

Lawl, I hope you're not referring to me XD

[MishaSan]

My last relationship failed cuz he was moving away and we thought that the long distance thing wasnt going to work out. What hurt me the most that he was my best friend since we were really little and we were always together. Being without him is really lonely.

[Arkturus]

^Oh man! That's bad... My girlfriend is gonna move to New Zealand like around June or maybe November.. (Her mum is unorganized... :p) I dunno what to do. I mean long-distance HAS been done... And quite successfully too. But most of them fail anyway. :( I don't wanna lose her cos she was with me through some rough patches in my life. Indeed, our first month was the worst month in my life, riddles with parent's near-divorce, near-family deaths and other such total let-downs... For her too, it hadn't been a bed of roses, but still we pulled through.. And now, she's gonna be taken away... Where will we be? What will we do.. Dammit!!! :(

Back on topic, there was another girlfriend of mine, we kinda fell apart after I was caught hiding in her bathroom by her dad. We were in her room and her dad tried to walk in and I naturally ran like hell. Too bad she lived on the 6th floor! 0_0

And despite popular belief, NOTHING HAPPENED, ok? >_>'

[Miss M]

@MishaSan: *pat pat*
but you can still talk to him, ne?
my current relationship is also long distance... more like an e-relationship one... -.-

@Quince26: my friend had the same situation... they turned off the lights but her dad still found them... they didn't do anything... I think...>_>''

[A2k]

She was a lesbian before we got together...and she was still a lesbian after we split up.

I don't think you can simplify my last relationship any more than that. >_>

[Elocin]

/me pats A2k

my current relationship is also long distance... more like an e-relationship one... -.-

Yeah. My current one is, and so was my last one, but he lived 6 hours away, so I went to meet him. That's when I realized how much of an ass the guy was. =\

[Kyoko<3!]

Lawl, I hope you're not referring to me XD

Nah I wasn't. I wouldn't be that mean to ya! xD Now come back from soccer and talk to me on aim, I'm bored.


Heh. I think most relationships that 'fail' due to an eventual lack of interest or boredom are doomed from the start. I think people need to choose their partners more wisely instead of getting together for the sake of getting together.

[The'Galin]

hmm...well, im my relationship it was kinda weird. Everybody at skool loved this girl and wanted to get with her. I never really liked her, even tho she was in most of my classes. So one day while we had some free time in P.E. I asked her if she liked anybody since practically the whole grade liked her. And she replied simply "You"..then she kissed me....and BOY did I fall for that..We were together for 4 months after that day. It was kinda weird tho. After I got to kno her she was a major tom boy, she was obsessed with wrestling WWE and she was just plain out strange. She was also very protective. She NEVER wanted me to talk to any other girl and she broke up with me just becasue another girl had a crush on me...I never even talked to that girl. Then she asked to get back together and I said no...she kissed me and I said yes...the same thing happened...we broke up..it happened again...so yea...the cycle finaly ended when she moved to a different school...it was weird tho..

But MAN..She was a GOOD kisser :winking56

[Thelindra]

lol galin, intersting =O

my last relationship which is also my first, ended cuz my family din approve of it =/ Many reason involved, like..."You are too young", "His studies aint good" from my parents side, and "Hes an jackass", "Hes playing with you" from my brother.

Than no phonecall or notice, we had a slient but greatly approved break up ~_~; Anmd no i no logner have any feelings for him. FYI the relationship lasted for...3months or so. The pressure was big (hidden cuz my family din like it) and i couldnt have lasted anyway. Dun even have the energy to go against >_>;

Than on i nv like BGR and single till now.

[layla]

hmmm... if you count only real life relationships, i never had anyXD so none "failed" per say.

if you count e-relationships... i had a few actually o.o

first one failed cuz of long distance, plus i never believed that he truly liked me, he would tell me that he 'loved' me and then go flirt with other girls O.o

the last one was cuz he couldnt take not talking to me for a week, plus he was a player, and i wasnt that into it in the first place cuz i was in depression from being rejected by this other person in rl.

=.=;

[♥ Tess]

Grew boring / lost intrest.

So Shin , what about you:P?

He graduated.
We both kinda knew it wouldn't last when he finished school. Our relationship wasn't really a lovey-lovey one as he was more like a protective older brother then a boyfriend. Yet we somehow managed to be together 8+ months.
I do miss driving with him & having our silly random debates :3


The one before him.... was a insecure asshole.
So many ridiculous arguments about nothing. He was fine with my guy friends when we were friends, but once we became a couple... ~sigh~

[angelicdesire]

shin same with my last relationship.

I actually was engaged in my last relationship and it lasted for 1yr and 8 mths. Me and him were best friends for 7 yrs and he liked me alot so after a ton of failed relationships, i gave him a chance. long story short, as soon as we got engaged, it was I couldn't have guy friends, then I couldn't have any friends. I couldn't go out any where, he was just a major control freak. And he would make me feel dumb, and make me feel like i wasn't worth anything majority of the time. He also would take alot of stuff out on me whenever he would get mad. He did hit me once, he would spit in my face, pull my hair, push me around, yell at me etc. He even yelled at my mother too, disrespected my grandmother as well.

It was almost an abusive relationship, so two days after christmas I broke up with him. He was compeletly distroyed and even til this day trying to get back with me. But I'm not going back to him, I broke up with him for a reason, and before I would spend my life with someone I don't wanna end up being an abused wife. And what made things worse is, one of his best friends saw my ex treat me like crap, and he just said, oh I'll turn the other cheek or whatever. But his other friend actually helped me once. And his family wasn't surprised I broke up with him, hell his mom asked me what took you so long to realize how he really is.

[MishaSan]

@MishaSan: *pat pat*
but you can still talk to him, ne?
my current relationship is also long distance... more like an e-relationship one... -.-
@Quince26: my friend had the same situation... they turned off the lights but her dad still found them... they didn't do anything... I think...>_>''

No we lost touch and i havent heard from him since. I still kinda miss him you know but i guess its life.

[Sakura]

hmmm... haven't been in the lounge for a while. this is a new thread to me. i better tell my novel and come back again in two months :lol

last relationship before my current ended cuz he took too long. i was wit him for a year and half and it was always, "this is my friend..." plus i only saw him maybe once a week, he was always working for some reason even tho he complained about his job, he called at absurd hours of the night to go pick him from some bar he had gone to wit his friends/coworkers and when he said he's call me later he called a week later. basically, i ended up thinking i was just some kinda bootie call to him. amazingly, he never went out wit other girls except for his son's mama when he went to spend time wit the son and he treated me good when he was actually wit me.

then i met my fiancee and i was like, hrmm... i can only be wit one and which one would be better for me? so i told the guy sorry, it's not working out and i don't think we should see each other anymore, but we can still be friends. he musta thought a lot about it cuz he kept calling me once in a while for two years after i broke up wit him even tho he knew i was wit someone else. one of my coworkers said that he sounded like he was checking up on me to see if i was still wit my fiancee and see if he had a chance to get me back. i kept brushing it off. finally, i got tired of him calling to ask if i wanted to go out to meet him, told him i was engaged and for some reason he ended up baring his soul to me like he hadn't done before. he even asked if i would still be wit him if he hadn't had to work so much and had spent more time wit me.

basically, i was wit a guy who didn't know what he wanted at the time, he took too long to figure out what he wanted, in the mean time i found someone else who knew what he wanted and showed me that i meant a lot to him and broke up wit the clueless guy who figured out he wanted to be wit me a few months after i broke up wit him and he found out i was wit someone else. to top it off, he kept trying in his clueless way to see if i was single again so he could try for a second chance for two whole years.

the end.

[Syph]

Well my last breakup was basically because my girlfriend was a slut. We went out for like a year and then out of nowhere she slept with some guy. But I was kinda stupid and forgave her. Then she went and did it again with a guy half her age and height. So I finally came to my senses and dumped her. But here's the funny part. She came crawling back asking what she did and why I was so mad. :]

[Ushio Amamiya]

My last and all relationships failed because either I got bored with them, they were lame, jerks, annoying or lame x_X...They barely lasted a two weeks.
My record time was like 5 days and I still say that guy was a mistake...I even told him that...He was such a lame person. He'd try to do things like an idiot. For eg, he found out that guys who goof around make me laugh so he tried jumping up and down from chairs and doing the most embarrassing and dumb, childish things that made me hate him even more. He wasn't himself, he tried changing himself even when I told him not to. I even told him that I didn't like him trying to be 'perfect' for me...it was annoying..he honestly didn't have a mind of his own...blegh...anyway, he's gone so good riddance!
My current bf is the first and only one who's made it a year and 3 months with me :biggrinlo
And he's so different, nothing like the previous boys I've been with...he's smart, stubborn, has his own mind, intelligent, smexy <3, dark and mysterious, unpredictable, strong, broad-minded, funny, silly, respectful, courteous, naughty, sensitive, sensible, decent, comprising, etc, I can go on and on..!
He can be a gentleman and a wild beast <3333 *cough*

5 days...:lol guess what? it took me a day to break up with my 1st bf...hehe He was a major jerk anyway...The reason I broke-up with him at that time is bcoz he disrespected me very much...and he left me alone without finishing our argument. How rude...And months later, he claimed that he broke up at me... What an idiot... :lol I guess he didn't accept that I was the one who dumped him in the first place.

[Jimmyz]

i fell out of love with her. gutted tbh, cause she was my life. i just woke up one morning and thoguht i couldnt go on with it because ti wasnt the same.

[Askand]

I got only 3 relationships on my life.
First one the guy well kind of deflower me in the worst way. We lasted 8 months and he was from the states. I spent a year depressed.
Second one lasted 7 years but he never was ready or walking on the same pace with me. Also he was very unemotional till the time I moved when I graduated and found a job.
The third one the guy lied to me saying he was divorced, he still was married and on top of that wanted to control my life. Monitoring all my movements. Then after I decided to take sometime apart from him he came back saying he was still married but he was going to divorced soon and that he wanted to have a kid with me. I just sent him to him and decided to stop being stupid.
I got a crush now but is going no where so I'm just alone.
You need to add the option of he was married with children Shin lol. Although I think "m the only old lady here lol

[Kefka]

My last relationship failed cause even though we got along, she was just too confrontational I guess? Like, things started out well, but then we would keep arguing almost every weekend about random shit. On top of that, location was also a problem. It was an internet relationship that was going further.

Finally, I got tired of how things were with her and found another girl, who happens to be my current gf and a lot better than my last relationship. :D

[Yuffie]

OMFS OMFS Good thread XD I broke up with one of my boyfriend because..

1) He's a disgusting pervert
2) He don't know how to stop his pervertness ><
3) He shows his pervertness everywhere ><
4) He don't know how to take care of others' hearts

[rhoden23]

it was boring and i dont rilly like her.

[Lucki]

he was much older then me and i didn't feel mature enough or ready.

[*Ririn*]

He was too insecure..i guess...and was always afraid id dump him or something..got pretty overprotected and i dont like people controling my life..we did talk about it alot..but alas he would repeat his mistakes over and over again...so mehh it was over before we both knew it..and for the others before him...i woudlnt remember all the reasons but mostly cause they were all Lame and all stupid high school crushes..for me theyr just mistakes...

[Lisa.]

It just didn't work, he didn't respect me in the ways I needed it, so it failed.. I don't care anymore, but I had a hard time getting over it.

[Miyagi Rikku]

Everything was cool and you know we were enjoying hanging out, watching
anime and playing games. I just got kind of busy and I dont know he started
to be so "emo"ish. Whenever I talk to him on the phone he starts to cry
saying how he is disturbing me and etc. Day after day it kept going on and
I just couldnt take it. =\

[Yuffie]

Long Distance Relationship!! ^^-
It's kind of saddening to have a relationship with someone from Malaysia. Too far for me

[Riw]

Grew boring / Lost interest, I guess.

It lasted for almost two years. He wanted to get engaged. I - just didn't. We had been good friends before our relationship got started and I still liked him a lot, but somehow felt it was - and perhaps had always been - only friendship. In the end, he wasn't the kind of guy I would have wanted to spent my whole life with. Slowly, our relationship faded away. He didn't want it. I believe he really loved me then, and looking back now I'm actually a bit ashamed of how I handled the whole thing. When, after a long time of pondering, I finally told him how I felt he silently accepted it and disappeared from my life as completely as he could, considering we had a lot mutual friends.

About a year after that, we started seeing each other more again. I was with my current boyfriend already, and since he also had had a short affair, I felt that he had gotten at least somewhat over me and was therefore able to be comfortable in his company. Nowadays we are good friends again and I still like him a bunch. A great guy - just not, ultimately, my type.

[sorrowsjoie]

it wasn't too long just about two months.

but i lost interest.. thats all.. lol

[Tobi]

On my first ^^
I don't see any problems so far, we're both in love, both alike, she is everything I've always wanted in a girl. I don't think any problems will arise.

[sweeter]

My ex and I didn't really go through the friends stage. He was the "badass" in his group of friends, and I was the "nice girl" in my group of friends. On Day 1, he approached me with this horribly corny pickup line, but he delivered it with such cockiness that it made me laugh and give him a chance.

We had instant chemistry, but we fought a lot. He'd be incredibly sweet one minute and hot-tempered the next. He was childish and possessive and I had a problem with him dictating who I was allowed to talk to and stay away from. He, on the other hand, hated the way I kept pressuring him about straightening up or focusing on school, and the way my friends disliked him.

The clincher happened the night my parents were away and my brothers were at camp. He wanted to come over. I said it was a bad idea but he, of course, used his ability to charm girls like me into a lump of jello, so I consented. Predictably, some risque things occured, which was okay at the start, but he kept pushing me beyond my limit for such behavior. I told him that he should go before we got out of hand. He tried one more time, but he saw that I really wasn't going to give in. He got really mad and called me a ****ing tease and other things, and I told him to get the hell out, and he did, but not before slamming my bedroom door so hard, the doorknob broke. I was scared out of my wits and I even thought that he would hit me. If I had known he'd be such a jerk, I'd have stayed the hell away from him from the start.

Our relationship lasted three months. We broke up three weeks ago.

It's weird, but I feel really better after letting it out to complete strangers.

(:

[DespoticWalnut]

The realationship I'm in now is actually my first, regardless we are very close and intimate. The only problem I see is that after this school year is over she is moving to Ohio or Utah...some state with ah H in it, for college. I'm worried that the great distance from here in Texas to her college is too great for us to stay together...Im gonna miss her so much T-T.

[Project #22329]

human beings desire to learn and find more...
my carelessness
my friends
drinking

[Nesquik]

he was stupid and too immature for his age...
he didnt know there's a difference between loving and liking

[Maszrum]

He was cheating to me and when I found out he said that's nothing serious and everyone do this. So I told him to go to hell. Maybe it wasn't that bad, thanks to this I realized I didn't really love him...

[iladys]

My last relationship failed because we both lost interest after a week ^__^; Not because we're lowly creatures mind you. We went out and it was fun but after he asked me out, it sorta died down. I think we were better off as friends.

[ClayFace]

Basically my most recent relationships don't last for more than a couple months because I lose interest real quick. Plus, I'm pretty cynical these when it comes to relationships... It seems to me that love is a lot times a matter of geographical convenience. Long Distance sucks... and they rarely work out...

[Sweeney]

My last relationship failed because she was an immature little girl who gave up on seven months of her life when she found some other guy. lol, Im not bitter at all XD

[Forlorn]

We had various similar interests and it kept things interesting and peacful that way until I realized, or happen to see, that we were more alike than I had thought... such as we both liked guys. In other words I was straight and he was quite not. I was ok with it... I only went out with him because people said we looked cute together so I decided to give it a try and it didn't work out. No big deal... I'm still close friends with the guy and we still have our platonic fun and benifits.

[DatLatina!]

pushy to pervy and forceful

[Kray]

Mine just ended like, not even a week ago, and it just kinda died.

We kinda separated from each other, and got distant and etc.
Plus the little things that annoyed us kept growing, and growing.

Bah.

[Yuffie]

His father doesn't like me -desu TT^TT *Cries in a corner*

I mean, it's not like I did something bad *Sniff* Such a bad daddy

[Mikado]

Well It was a on-off-on-off relationship (realy anoying) and we liked eachother one day, and the other day we were ignoring each other. But at the last day at school we broke up (again). But I changed my school afterwards. And I never saw her again ..

[Kyoko<3!]

She a ***** =o.

[eliie]

Because he was an asshole and tryed to hit me when he was angry...

[Sunshine]

My last relationship failed because we didn't have the time for eachother. :(

[DatLatina!]

he cheated on me

[Harley Quinn]

He lived too far away and I found someone else.Cried when we broke up.Why is it when we dump someone us girls nearly almost always cry.It ticks me off, it doesn't make any sense.

[DatLatina!]

cheater.he was a cheater

[kinklebell]

im bumping so many threads ._.
i voted cheating ... zzzz i got a question... what does it exactly mean to lose interest? does it mean you dont love them anymore or you cant really get what you want out of a relationship?

[SenpaiRetsu]

distance and she was starting to prepare for grad school. she had no time for me. so she broke it off

[kinklebell]

Haix why does it [no time for each other] such crap that ends relationships..
so irritating zzz
all is just rubbish la

[Phoenix-X]

I was never in a real relationship yet.

The last one I had was with this girl who is like my best friend. She said she is not used to us dating so we broke up.

[Sub.Shinigami]

She'd always be hugging and jumping on other boys right in front of me. I just broke up with her before she did anything else to the other boys. And we didn't know anything about eachother and she's a hoe!

[-Renae-]

Lack of Commitment. There also was the issue of him wanting kids and me who didn't. We were just two really different people from each other so that in turn made everything complicated.

[the dark one]

my last frelashon ship when down hill cus she didant trust me and some of my other ones cus of the distance but one of them was cus one of my x girl frends storked me cus she did trust me when i was hanging with my frends in wulvo and she came up and folowed me around all day and i now that she was the cus i sour her and when i hug one of my frend she whant mad and she did it agen when a random girl huged her in mackdonalds cus she thort i was kool
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one of my other relashoneships i got dumped cus i was to loveing wich i didant get at all

[Xlayer]

Totally my fault, i took thin9s too far too soon, i couldnt stop makin mistakes, actually i dont think i blame her at all >.> but thx to it i was able to learn and im a diferent man than i was back then, not everythin9s white and black

[-=Yanayo=-]

he was usin me =]

[Steffy]

My last relationship failed because he was always lying. Our breakup was completely due to trust issues. We were together for over 2 yrs and he would lie about the smallest things. If it's one thing I can't stand, it's people lying to me. He knew this and yet he kept lying. : [

[hXd]

Well now I can chime in on this and say mine failed because she claimed there was "no connection" between us. Total bullcrap. That and we apparently had nothing in common, to which I also say bollocks.

Yeah as you can tell I'm a little bitter right now lol.

[RiannaSan]

He annoyed me to no end. He always had these crazy stories that he would forget he'd already told me and then tell it again and things would change. He was pretty much a compulsive liar. He was so cheap... I was willing to pay for my part of everything, but he didn't want to spend the money on his own stuff and he was making like $12/hr so it's not like he didn't have any, so we never actually went anywhere together on a date. And the main thing that made me end it.... it was too much about him trying to get some and I have a feeling he was trying to get with other girls. So after 3 weeks I dumped him.

[Graffik]

^ Same here, It seemed alright, but she broke it off in the first week, being the guy who likes chilling by himself made me unable to relate with her, so it was a couple in name only, damn though, when she left me, she took a piece of me I never knew I had

[Kay™]

i hang out with my friend(computers too) more with her and she had enough of it and end it

[CallouS]

Oh god. I ended my last relationship two years ago, when I was 15, on the night of Homecoming. It was pretty priceless.


But she was cheating on me, so. I still owned her. I made her fall down in the middle of the road and cry. But I didn't touch her. :x

[BrolyLOL]

Because I added too many pounds to my weight belt in one go. We went our separate ways in the summer. Once I hit up the gym again we might get together again.

[Slayus]

I broke it off bc she wanted some "space", when the day before one of her friends had told me she was gonna cheat on me with this other guy...

girls I tell ya.... can't be trusted :rolleye09

[_Ink]

Cause I hated the *****, I dated her cause she was cute, ended up being the biggest ***** I have ever invested time and money in.
So yeah.

Oh and I kept the watch and Ipod she gave me, looks like that is worth it afterall.

The truth is, I have never met a person more conceited than shge could be.

[-xp- Link]

ehhh my first one didnt work out...cause the girl was a whore and cheated on me...i was really only going out with her cause of family pressures so i guess it didnt really matter since i didnt like her much that way...lol....but the relationship i am in now is going great...harder cause we are both going to college and we are in different states...so sometimes i get a bit insecure and dont know what to think...but aside from that its going great

[Sekeisenbonzakura]

I was far too trusting....seems trust must be earned and cannot be given.

[Sushi]

I was bored. My bf wasn't much of a talker, and all our conversations were simple one-liners. I got bored and he got too attached. So he got the boot :)

[Miss Murder]

I was 11 years old.I didn't really love him,it was just a "silly crush".I hated his friends and they hated me(we still do hate each other).His friends were transforming him into a monster.He humiliated everyone,including me, just 'cause his friends wanted him to do it.I got tired of that crap and told his best friend(a whore whom he was secretly in love with)to tell him to go to hell and that we were over.We didn't talk for 7 month.

The other reason was that he never told me in my face that he loved me,nor held hands,nor hang out in school.I knew he loved me just because of the letter he sended me during classes.We actually became a couple through a letter.We kinda hate each other now,but luckly we're not in the same school anymore.I was going to hia same school,but after what happened there's no way I can see him again.

[windhurst]

my last relationship failed from an arguement. me and my gf never had one but this was the first i cant say what it was about because i dont remember i like to forget about that

[ChocoKitten]

1.He got ME into Trouble
2.Smart Ass
3.Rumored to have cheated on me

[Miyu]

My last relationship failed because of lies. He failed to mention he had a wife and kid in another state, I had to find out by one of his friends, we became really close and I guess he felt bad, so he told me.

[silverwolf801]

because of her end of story.

[♥ Ayalicious ♥]

He denied my existance.

Oh, right. Reee-lay-shion-sheep, not wandering love affair. Oops, wrong one.

We drifted away. No idea why, to this day. But he left me behind, in the shadows of the day, sitting by a never-ringing phone, clung to the thought that it was my fault, my fault, when logically speaking, it was his. I call this a lack of communication, baby. When one person's unwilling to contribute/mend/save/talk, it's dead. He could have at least had the decency to break it off with me. Coward.

[chidori69]

mine failed..bcos of the insecurities ...his not mine..

like..basicaly i wasnt allowed to come into contact with another male ..even his own brother...
his jelousy was horible..too controling..and i am too demanding >_>

and then it just faded...wat we were first atracted too... and it went for dam too long >_>

[ashiin]

Few months ago. Had fun while it lasted but yeah our spark just kinda died away and we just didn't like each other enough to try to save the relationship.

Those 4 months were good tho.

[DespoticWalnut]

lol i think ive posted here before, anyways the girl i was talking about turned out to be a whore and a *****. she threw me away after all i did for her. and she cheated on me...with another girl. stupid ***** should die in a fire. i think we broke up in lets say july? i dont really care.

LOL well at least i got some retrobution. she got kicked out of her college and as far as i know nobody she used to talk to really likes her anymore after seeing how she really is.

[shaberry]

Basically my last relationship failed because my bf was scared of my family. They all threatened to beat his @ss so bad if he ever did anything to hurt me. LOL. Oh well *shrug* At least my current bf can handled the the pressure well...now my family LOVES him. It's kinda sad really...they love him more than they love me. But eh...I'd rather have them love him than hate him. ^_^;;;

[Edgey]

I'm still on my first REAL relationship, but all the others that I had were usually just a loss of interest, but then again I didn't feel that they were really serious.

[MetalSpawn]

most of my relationships end because my EXgirlfriend says that I dont inject myself into the relationship , I take the relationship in third person type mode. I am good at getting girlfriends but keeping them does not go so well including my latest(we have not broken up yet but she is already starting to complain about feeling unloved)

[Vladimir]

O.o inject yourself?? well you have to let out some love..
anw, My last relationship ends because i found him childish and boring, even thought he has a nice smile i can stare at everyday. Evan though i only have two past relationship including this, i found having a relationship is boring esp with a person who have no life, who only loves to stick with you.

[Dradam]

Well i recently moved house last year round octoberish, n i been out with a couple of girls.
Although i dunno whats going on cos the first one just used me to get back at her ex, the second one, we were really close going fine for a couple of months, then i see her snogging another guy at the bus stop i was like OMFG! WHORE!!
i hate that biatch!

[Neko Bam]

>.> My last relationship....yeah, it was back at elementary school (yeah, laugh! LAUGH!)
We broke up because I moved to another part of town.

[Chi]

My last relationship failed because me and her were heading in different directions in life. I hate material things sorta speak and she was consumed the craving of material possessions. I ignored it as much as I could until she placed a demand on how much money i should make per year if we wanted to get married or something. Then she simply became insufferable and we had to part ways. It wasn't that i didn't love her or that i was incapable of making the amount of money she wanted, but rather i had no interest in conditional relationships or conditional love. I don't know i've just about lost faith in people. It seems finding someone to love without them mentioning money and stuff is just not possible in todays world.

[Reyin]

Well first off, she was crazy. Haha I know that must sound like a typical response. Anywho, location was a big problem as well as the fact that I'm younger than she was, so in terms of actually solving the distance problem I have a couple more years before I can adjust myself for someone else anyways. In retrospect however, I think trust was an issue as well and for me personally, if someone betrays my trust it's nearly impossible to gain it back.

[Rayster]

I think trust was an issue as well and for me personally, if someone betrays my trust it's nearly impossible to gain it back
" From time to time I have found that the senses deceive, and it is prudent never to trust completely those who have deceived us even once "
- Descartes (1st Med)

Just seemed appropriate to quote ;)

[Dope Hat]

Decado is a walking book~

My bf made the mistake that he thought I'd forgive him when he betrays me with13 other girls. I didn't. I broke his nose. =)

[Chi]

^ROFL

13 girls, 13 mistakes jeez some people just don't seem to have their wits about them..

What was the excuse i tripped 13 times and stumbled in out trying to get up? each time?

[Reyin]

I didn't. I broke his nose. =)

Good for you! Haha I think I've scared a few of my sister's boyfriends with that sort of thing. So far though they've all treated her well :evilgrin:

[Manchester Black]

My last relationship failed because I got bored, and she got too clingy. So I abruptly ended things. She wasn't too happy, and we no longer talk.

[Dope Hat]

^ROFL

13 girls, 13 mistakes jeez some people just don't seem to have their wits about them..

What was the excuse i tripped 13 times and stumbled in out trying to get up? each time?

Well - the other girls didn't mind. They hated each other but loved him, so they weren't too pissed. He is still going out with them [and it has been years now...]
I am not talking with any of them. Imo, they don't have any brain.
You really have to be retarded if you let yourself get used like that.


Good for you! Haha I think I've scared a few of my sister's boyfriends with that sort of thing. So far though they've all treated her well :evilgrin:

yeah xD
LOL! That's awesome! xD

[Chi]

hehe, *pat* tis okay at least you broke his nose!

[Dope Hat]

hehe, *pat* tis okay at least you broke his nose!


Oh yes.
And damn that felt good! <3

[Rolling Star]

My last relationship failed because we were just too different. We have different outlooks on life, on how to handle conflict, and just about everything else. He was also too stubborn and never recognized his mistakes. It is sad because we were not able to remain friends...

[Chi]

*pats rolling star* His lost in my opinion and from the sound of it your better off...

[Reyin]

never recognized his mistakes.

That's a pretty common trend. In fact I can't say I've never been guilty of it in the past with my own relationships... although most of the mistakes were being in the relationship in the first place. Breaking up with someone has a way of opening your eyes to all the crap you put up with during the relationship.

[Rolling Star]

You are both right. I should have never gone into that relationship. He is pretty lost, still "hurt" from his previous engagement. Also, he is older and has been with many women in the past. I don't have that much experience. But I am definately better off without him. Though, can't help but miss being with someone.

[Chi]

you can't fight against your nature to be with someone else. You cannot win against the loneliness and you will put yourself in a bad situation knowingly even just so you can be with someone who you think accepts you even if they really don't.

[Rolling Star]

That's absolutely true. At times, I found myself trying to change a bit for him. In the end, it is never worth it. I'm happy with myself right now and will heal with time. I hope that if there is a next time, it will be a lot better.

[Jeggo]

For the rose to respect you , you must respect it's thorns.

My last relationship , lacked respect. There was no trust , nor real comfort. Friends with 'benefits' , would be a better way to describe my last 'relationship'.

^^

[DatLatina!]

His friends didn't like me,he smoked weed (bad influence on me),he was in gang,and there was more but I'm trying to rememeber...It was awhile back I must say....Though I knew I got into a bunch of trouble with him

[sag47]

My last relationship failed because we were just too different. We have different outlooks on life, on how to handle conflict, and just about everything else. He was also too stubborn and never recognized his mistakes. It is sad because we were not able to remain friends...

eh... I'm pretty sure I'm that guy yer talking about rolling star, not intentionally of course. It lasted a year (she broke up w/ me around the anniversary, I of course was totally oblivious). So it was kind of a broadside. This was around April 26th. When our relationship started I was pretty much stoic (with relationships) and came up with ways to protect myself due to previous hurts (which in the end turned out to affect and hurt the relationship anyway).

But I mean its not like I'm a total wall b/c I've got good personality and a sense of humor but she wanted to be pampered more than I can give I guess. I mean I cooked for her, and occasionally brought home flowers but whatever I did wasn't enough.

I had made little mistakes here and there at the beginning of the relationship and she could never let them go. So over time instead of talking to me about them (because she expected me to read her mind and know what ailed her) she simply waved it off like it was no big deal. Well by the time a year rolled around instead of maybe worrying about 1 thing she had every mistake ever made in the relationship on her mind and killed the relationship in one fell swoop.

I know this b/c she gave me a list of things I did wrong which some date back to a year. So I tried to win her back and, (b/c I'm dumb and mad at her) I started doing stuff to piss her off b/c I didn't feel that the whole problem was my fault. After a week of being back together she broke it off again and final.

And at this point since it was only a few weeks ago I can't be friends with her b/c it hurts to think how it ended up b/c she never opened up to me about these problems she was having with me. So I just need to be totally separated from her to heal.

[Nail]

Well.... this could be a long list.

She cheated on me, at least twice.

After she admitted it, I only pretended to forgive her for the chance of sexual interactions. Which would up not happening anyways. Big mistake on my part.

She lied. A lot.

According to her, she had terrible nightmares, sleepwalking, and at times random dementia with visual hallucinations. So, she was obviously pretty mentally unstable. Taking into acount that I really don't know what she lied about and what she didn't, it could have all been bullshit. This could apply to her cheating on me, too. I pretty much just don't know, but it would have been a worse problem had she been lying.

While I was AT HER HOUSE she started going les for her friend. This is actually a really complicated story, because I wound up leaning OVER her lap to make out with her friend at one point. So that one was really everyone's fault.


Yeah, what a ****ed up relationship.

[Rozene]

Hmm...I dated this guy off and on for like 6 years. First time I broke it off cause my mother was very ill and I needed to give all my attention to her and school. Second time I have no clue. Third time he said that he thinks he needs some time to himself. Which worked cause I started to think he was cheating on me after I scanned a letter that was on his table by some women saying she misses him and loves him *yeah*. Fourth and last time he ended it saying he didnt want marriage or kids like I do along with some bull. Saw him on the street once since then (been close to a year) and he acted like he didnt know me. Heard from his old friends (that I am VERY close to now), after we looked at the timeline, he did cheat on me. Along with him doing drugs more than I thought and some underlying homosexual comments he has made.

[Hatsune Miku]

Mine failed because i was too stuberen to ride out a rough patch and left. its one of the top 10 mistakes i've made in the last 4 years

[Nnoitora]

It ended because she moved away. It lasted two years. :[