Is it a sign?

[Twinky]

what do girls ussually do to give signs


ok heres the thing this girl Alexa on my bus (my parents took my car away cuz i failed science for the year, no choice but to take my bus), lately she started to just stare at me and smile, poke me or just sneak up behind me, and start conversations on the bus even when im in a bad mood. what should i do lol cus now im just confused, :eek13:

ps - didnt have time to look for a simular thread so sry :Domo

[Munky]

Well there could be two things = either she's just FRIENDLY or she really LIKES you.

But dont get me wrong, sometimes girls do that just to be closer to you, but it doesnt entirely mean that she's in love with you. But look at it this way - she's interested in you!! I mean, if she didnt, she wouldnt be doing those things right?

[Lucki]

yeah it does sound as though she is interested :D either wanting to be friends, or possibly more ;) you never know!! or she is lonely :(

do you like her?

[Twinky]

shes cute and all, and i guess i do, beeing friendly is perfectly fine with me, lol and no shes not lonely, i really never liked anyone. but theres something differents about her lol, yea

[Lucki]

aww sounds like you might like LIKE her :D maybe you should ask her out to a movie or something^^

[Munky]

ahHh... so you like each other, try to strengthen that relationship by asking her on a date or something similar

[Harley Quinn]

Sure fire way to know if a girl likes you more than "just friends" is if she constantly laughs at things you say even if it was a particularly lame joke or not even realy a joke at all.

[Twinky]

to be honest she gets lame sometimes but hey lol no ones perfect, i'll give it try thx LOL.

btw - dont make this "the Twinky" thread the question is what does girls do to give signs, anything perticular?

[Lucki]

well as sophire said, laugh at lame jokes. sometimes touch you (not sexually >.>)just like tap, pat, POKE, when they laugh touch your knee. smiles alot at you, ask you loads of stuff, try to know what you are into. there are loads more, when i can remember i will say.

[Twinky]

well as sophire said, laugh at lame jokes. sometimes touch you (not sexually >.>)just like tap, pat, POKE, when they laugh touch your knee. smiles alot at you, ask you loads of stuff, try to know what you are into. there are loads more, when i can remember i will say.

lol yea touching me sexually will be cool but wierd :Domo :Domo :Domo :Haha . and i stare at her too lol so yea

[Kyoko<3!]

A sign is when they keep coming back after you're not especially attentive or spurn their 'advances'.

Oh yeah how could I forget. Another sign is when they get all hot around you and say, "PLEASE TWINKY (or insert another name), I LOVE YOU! TAKE ME PLOX."

:Domo

[Donut]

Ecna knows his stuff, fho sho.

Also, ask her out before she loses interest. Don't prolong it, just do it. Tomorrow. If she rejects you just act like nothing happened. Prepare, now.

[Kyoko<3!]

Ecna knows his stuff, fho sho.

Damn straight.

Ask her out if that's what you're lookin for. Don't settle for less just cuz you're lonely (not saying you are, just advice). That's just gonna end in failure.

And of course, when they throw themselves on you, you're not settling ;)
Unless the only thing you can feel when they do so is a big pillow and squishyness smothering you.

I'm good :redbiggri

[shaberry]

Well there could be two things = either she's just FRIENDLY or she really LIKES you.

But dont get me wrong, sometimes girls do that just to be closer to you, but it doesnt entirely mean that she's in love with you. But look at it this way - she's interested in you!! I mean, if she didnt, she wouldnt be doing those things right?

*nods* Totally agree

[Anubisrage]

I guess she is showing interest at the least

[Mikado]

I hop eshe doesn't only want to be friends :P

[Hannah]

for me she finds you fun or maybe that's the way of her telling you she likes you

[Hatsune Miku]

Originally Posted by Lucki
well as sophire said, laugh at lame jokes. sometimes touch you (not sexually >.>)just like tap, pat, POKE, when they laugh touch your knee. smiles alot at you, ask you loads of stuff, try to know what you are into. there are loads more, when i can remember i will say.

Ok.. So I'm not a girl feel free to ignore my advice but Lucki is right ofcourse.. Almost all my friends have been girls since i was old enough to remeber so yea... any kind of contact is a good sigh she is at the least Really Friendly, and yes the laugh thing too...

a good sign that shes looking for a friend thou is that she tells you stuff, that may be vauge but its not only certain things... If someone tells you things about themselves, who they like... they get a hold of you just to tell you how there day is... those are signs that you've made a friend that trusts you... Don't ask me how to turn that romantic thou (I'm still trying to figgure that one out)

[Jimmyz]

erm, usually them trying to be close is a good dign, lots of touching your arms and hands (if its a pord or a grasp) and definately them laughing at your jokes, or if tis not funny them giggling and saying smething along the lines of "oh you" lol.

the way i usually find out if a girl likes me after htinking she does (with the things i mentioned above) is to ask her out (dont mention anything about a date) then when out, maybe put my arm around her and give her like... a one armed hug while walking and smile at her without saying anything, hold it for like 2-3 seconds, if she hugs you back with like a strong grasp, it means shes comfortable. then at the end of the day out i just lean in and give her a little kiss, depending on her reaction then, its very easy to tell which way she is thinking (friends, or something more)

/rant over

[FreedoM]

She probably does like you or trying to be friends with you. Who knows she might have been smiling at someone behind you o_O. Either way just talk to her and see if you would want to go out with her.

[Sono i Lupi]

now i aint sayin shes a gold digga
but she aint messin with no broke nggaz

hahah
jk
yea dude it definetly sounds like shes got the hots for u
so just do what u been doin and u should be fine

[.Rik-uh-shey]

what do girls ussually do to give signs
ok heres the thing this girl Alexa on my bus (my parents took my car away cuz i failed science for the year, no choice but to take my bus), lately she started to just stare at me and smile, poke me or just sneak up behind me, and start conversations on the bus even when im in a bad mood. what should i do lol cus now im just confused, :eek13:
ps - didnt have time to look for a simular thread so sry :Domo

she is actually a he... and Alexa is actually Alex... im jk w/ yah. yah she probably likes you

[Twinky]

lol i can tell the differents. now for you is another story, lol oh well i dont have that much interest in her, we'll see

[.Rik-uh-shey]

im sure theres plenty of other Alex's for you out there Twinky...
*cough* i meant Alexa's

[Twinky]

nah you can have the alex, but i get alexa.

[.Rik-uh-shey]

notice how i never asked for alex... well its all been good Twinky.. *pats on back* time to go make some siggys =P

[Unrefined-Nemesis]

She wants you in her bed for the smex *Mwahahaha*

Its pretty obvious she likes you.

Over here poking means getting laid and wants to hook up with you, over there I have no idea

[Artemis]

Ahh, the good ol' art of Dem-Flirting.

what is this, children? You don't know what dem-flirting is?

Lemme explain:
Dem = demi = half
flirt = you should know...

Tis a term thats used off and on among my friends.
Usually the 1st stage of 'if someone likes you, but isn't hardcore'.

Trying to sound scientific,
Scorch.

[dairymilk]

shes cute and all, and i guess i do, beeing friendly is perfectly fine with me, lol and no shes not lonely, i really never liked anyone. but theres something differents about her lol, yea

so there is something about her that keeps you a bit interested although at the same time you think she's lame?

try to come up with an interesting convo that she might actually like, from what i've read so far, i've gotten the impression that she's making small talk and some ppl are really bad at that esp with ppl they don't really know well. so try to initiate a topic that she might like.

[Hathore]

i cant see any signs with girls and they always tell me that they do give me signs

im slow

[dairymilk]

Maybe you don't know if they are giving you signs

[SoulReaper109]

When I was in middle shcool there were signs in the halls, cafe, study halls, class rooms, libraries, gyms and on the track, our shcool was jam packed with signs!!!!
I only got signs from the weird, crack head kind though. Only a few hot girl noticed me in a sexully attractive way. My cousinm:Haha :Haha laughed when I told him and he said'' YOU GETTING A GIRL IS IMPOSSIBLE!!!'' then I said to him''THEN WHY DIDN'T YOU GET A GIRLFRIEND IN MIDDLE AND HIGH SCHOOL??!!!'' then all of a sudden to room became very quite...

[+KuSaKaBe+]

erm, usually them trying to be close is a good dign, lots of touching your arms and hands (if its a pord or a grasp) and definately them laughing at your jokes, or if tis not funny them giggling and saying smething along the lines of "oh you" lol.

the way i usually find out if a girl likes me after htinking she does (with the things i mentioned above) is to ask her out (dont mention anything about a date) then when out, maybe put my arm around her and give her like... a one armed hug while walking and smile at her without saying anything, hold it for like 2-3 seconds, if she hugs you back with like a strong grasp, it means shes comfortable. then at the end of the day out i just lean in and give her a little kiss, depending on her reaction then, its very easy to tell which way she is thinking (friends, or something more)

/rant over

Yeah, those ones are true. There was this girl in one of my classes in freshman year, whose been giving me a few signs since middle school. The first time she started giving me those signs (poking me, laughing at some of my jokes, smiling at me), I knew she liked me. But it took me a while to figure out she wanted to be friends. It didn't take too long for us to get to know each other. One time during passing time in freshman year, we checked our schedules and she was like: "Oh, look! We're in the same seminar!! She'd talk to me when nobody else was, usually when I least expected it. She's cute and all, about 4 or so inches shorter than me (Her: 5'1, Me: 5'5), and really social. Some advice Twinky: Be yourself, and be nice to her so you can see how much she likes you.

[young_saiyan]

Damn straight.
Ask her out if that's what you're lookin for. Don't settle for less just cuz you're lonely (not saying you are, just advice). That's just gonna end in failure.
And of course, when they throw themselves on you, you're not settling ;)
Unless the only thing you can feel when they do so is a big pillow and squishyness smothering you.
I'm good :redbiggri

Really, my god now I understand whats going on in my neighborhood.... And I just thought everybody was high.... But I usually feel something poking me and no squishyness when it happens...

Back on topic: I'm not really experienced in this (excluding what has been mentioned above), but to me it seems pretty obvious: If you like her, and she likes you then the only thing you can do is overcrowd the earth some more with bickering babies when there are a couple hundreds dying out there with flies up there nose.

But that's just me, so.... Listen to someone experienced.

[kaede822]

question.. is it a sign when you get your girlfriend pregnant?!?!?! lolz