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zen
07-16-2007, 02:59 AM
OK I didn't see a place to post this so I made my own thread. I wanna know what I should do, I have a good friend of mine and I think she likes me I like her and all, but some times I get mixed messages. I wanna tell her my feelings but I'm afraid she will laugh and I'll ruin our friendship. The other problem is the age thing I'm a sophomore and she is a senior. I want to know what to do in the situation.

relph
07-16-2007, 04:46 AM
well first dont b afraid to speak ur feelings and just tell her
it wont ruin ur friend ship bit it might b weird for a little while if she doesnt like u back and she bacs off just give her a week or so and then restart wat u did b4 this whole thing remember just tell the truth and try not to sound stupid (as in dont b totally nerves like in the movies )

ooo and age doesnt matter wen the heart is envolved ( exceot wen ur like 7 yrs younger and ur still in elementary skool

zen
07-16-2007, 05:35 AM
Ok I get that, But the relationship is another problem all over again. When she graduates it wouldn't be fair to be like a ball and chain holding her back.

relph
07-16-2007, 05:58 AM
if she really is serious bout u , u wont b that for her if she feels that ur not worth the
relationship she'll end it but just dont worry bout that its not for u to think bout
unless u feel ur holding her bac from her full patential then let her know so she can tell u wether ur rite or not

cyberfields
09-07-2007, 04:43 AM
had a similar problem... my ended bad... but yea if the heart is there then there should be no problem

Yellow
09-23-2007, 06:26 AM
Wow thats tough.... If you really think so ask her before its to late...If you miss your chance you wont see her for a long time.... If she says yes hope she goes to college somewhere around your area.

Jelouch
09-23-2007, 07:37 PM
This is important dude.. You can either talk to her or not. I would suggest you find another girl , who you like and concetrate on her. Friends that --> Couple, seldom end nicely..

aloy
09-27-2007, 03:18 AM
..just tell her the truth and prepare for the worse...you'll never know!

itto
10-04-2007, 05:07 AM
Dude i have the same problem as you do!Except an additional one...but just tell her!And like aloy said prepare for the worst!!But just tell her or youll crack!!