Relationship Thread

[Darren337]

girls with scars = awesome.

[Sunfire249]

Yup ^_^ MARTIAL ARTS SCARS!!! Now I have lots of those... Not on my face though. I'd like to keep my face intact thank you.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Sunfire: Im trying to find a good picture of myself so you guys know who I am but it makes me wonder about the rest of you out there =] Cool...scars? =S

Darren: Really what kind?

[Sunfire249]

Don't worry, I'm not some crackpot pedofile geezer, as my friend jessie would say, so you don't have to worry ^_^

You'll have to watch for some people though... Somehow all these guys got my email, but they weren't from the bleach portal forums and they were really... creepy *shudder*

[Kuri_Shinigami]

I know that's why I don't add people I don't know. I usually ask for peoples or they ask for mines. If im cool with them then I add them =]

[Sunfire249]

Mmm, yeah. I remember there was this one guy who was talking to who said he had no idea where he lived or anything because he was homeschooled and never took even one step outside. O.o That wasn't the smartest thing to say. Especially after he said he lived in Canada and in my province too.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

That is one werid guy XD...and I just got confused :LOL:

[ningo]

but it makes me wonder about the rest of you out there =]Wonder about what?

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Wonder about what?


About what kind of people you really are, what you look like, how you act and stuff like that =] I like being different although like Ichigo it causes some problems :eek13:

[Sunfire249]

Kuri_Shinigami: Confused? Oh, you mean how he lied through his teeth and lied so bad that even a two year old could get it? Yeah, that was how stupid he was.

ningo: She means if other people in the forum are crackpot pedofile geezers (By- Jessie, not me)

[ningo]

Well there is a picture thread;of course you don't actually know if the people are posting genuine pics i guess. Of course most forum users would have no need of someone's e-mail account; you can always pm someone if you want to say something to one person in particular.

[Sunfire249]

Mmm... I still don't get why people would put fake pictures on... People would know that's not you, so why bother at all???

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Sun: Yup XD

Ningo: I know but I always post my real pic incase they want to visit me or something...I hate to lie >>; ;

[Sunfire249]

Man, lieing makes me feel guilty in the end. Except for truth bending. TECHNICALLY you ARE telling the truth... Just leaving some bits out. ^_^

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Lol I hate lying very much. I always tell the truth...unless you bug the hell out of me...I tell the truth 97% of the time...god im such a goody two shoes XD lol acutally I don't snitch even though I know something is up =p

[Sunfire249]

Lol, yyyeeeeeeaaaaaahh...

... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...Wow, right now I feel alienated in this thread because this is supposed to be about bad relationships, but my life is good and independent so... I have swore to myself that I will date the first guy (Who isn't extremely grotesque and unhygenic) who can prove to me that not all guys are jerks, morons or idiots. That's considering the guys who aren't in these forums because most of who I met are really nice. ^_^

[ningo]

the first guy (Who isn't extremely grotesque and unhygenic) Laughing my ass off :LOL:

[Sunfire249]

^_^ Glad you liked it. But it's very true... *shudder*

[_dreamer_]

Lol I hate lying very much. I always tell the truth...unless you bug the hell out of me...I tell the truth 97% of the time...god im such a goody two shoes XD lol acutally I don't snitch even though I know something is up =p

there's nothing wrong with telling the truth most of the time. XP Hahaha...

[Darren337]

if it puts you all at ease, there is a real pic of me around the 830's in the picture thread. hopefully i can have another one put up for you guys... a friend of mine took a pretty good pic while we were at six flags. also, i dont lie to people about me. i will refrain from telling them stuff about me, but i dont make up lies to fill in the blanks.

[Ryudell]

I dunno about lying... I generally don't lie unless it threatens me. And of course I lie to surveyors... I hate those surveyors who attack you in the middle of the road and want to know your toothbrush habits *shudder*

[asian]

i lie sometimes...because i would get in trouble if i didn't and my parents never find out, but i odn't lie a lot.
my picture is somewhere in that thread....i don't kno wwhere though >_>

[netorcs]

Lying...mmmm... I have been known to lie if someone asks me a really embarrasing question and I want to save face...

edited to add: and my pic on pg 115 is me :redbiggri

[Ryudell]

yes under that circumstances we'd have to lie, wouldn't we? I wonder if there are people who answer the truth in ANY situation

[greenrider85]

i don't like lying either..i suck at it.. i know that this was a while back.. but when i was talking about scars i meant pimple scars..i have some bad acne.. i didn't think anyone would be interested in what kind of scars they were, but whatever...

[Darren337]

note to all: dont put picture references based on page number as that changes if you have a different "posts per page" than someone else, state the post number.

[Sunfire249]

Lol, oh yes, lies are forever... But the point is, is that I have no clue about what I was actually gonna say. So, all I'm gonna say is that I don't really lie, I "white lie"... Which I hope everybody knows what that is...

Darren: Awesome... I'm gonna go check the picture thread now ^_^

[asian]

darren...what? you know me...i get comfused too much, wanna rephrase that? *laughs at own stupidity*

but yeah...i'm pretty good at lying, but sometimes i feel bad about it so....i keep it to a minamum.

[greenrider85]

i think people can tell when i am lying it seems.

[ningo]

I'm reasonably lucky in that respect; not that i lie often, but apparently i always look guilty regardless; so it's difficult to tell when i am actually lying.

[greenrider85]

oh, that sucks... can you look people in the eye when you lie? i couldn't do it. i don't lie much, maybe if it's a helpful lie or something.

[ningo]

Can be a useful skill-"Does my bum look big in this?"

[greenrider85]

yep.. you can tell a white lie...

[Darren337]

white lies... i have this urge to make a a really bad racial joke, but dah well!

[ningo]

Mmmmm..throws this one out to the floor...favourite loaded question of all time?
i.e. Gal point to pic in magazine, and says "Do you think she is attractive?"

[Darren337]

i love those questions... you cant tell your girl a correct answer EVER.

[asian]

lol i would do that just to see what would happen, then laugh, and tell them they're lying. i really wouldn't care if they thought she was attractive or not.

[Sunfire249]

Hahaha!! Poor people who can't look people in the eye when they lie... I can do that no problimo! The only problem is, is that when I'm lieing they think I'm telling the truth (Which is actually a good thing but whatever) and when I'm telling the truth they think I'm lieing :S How does this work???

[asian]

lol sometimes it happens *shrug* i can look people in the eye when i lie...haha that rhymes! i should rap!

[Sunfire249]

Lol, oh dude, if you ever made it to tv to rap... I'd laugh. I'd just laugh ^_^ Not AT you, but with you. That'd be really funny though

[asian]

i would be laughing at myself to much to rap. i would probabaly rap about like...mooses and monkeys

[Sunfire249]

Oh dude! Then I would buy a tee shirt that has like your face plastered on it and rap about monkies and mooses too ^_^ Dude, then I would laugh so much that I'd fall over and then implode. YES, I said IMPLODE.

[asian]

lol ohhh you said implode! yes! then...er...i donno...i'd...rap about you imploding.
haha we are soo off topic

[Sunfire249]

Lol, well that's ok. Then I'll just have to force myself to make something up: ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...I'm gonna dump my imaginary boyfriend, buy one of those speaker phone thingies, strip and then run around with Bleach all over me saying I dumped my imaginary boyfriend and then implode. I hope your happy ^_^

[asian]

lol woah o.O that's weird...*backs away slowly*

[Sunfire249]

Ahahahaha, yeeeeaaaaaaahhh, that's the impression I get when most people see my drank-too-much-coffee-ate-too-much-candy kinda faze... even though I had neither today :P

[asian]

lol, i remember i used to get hyper everyday in grade school from nothing at all...

[Sunfire249]

Lol, I remember grade school... *shudder* bad memories there. But now that I'm in high school it's aaaaallll good. ^_^

[Darren337]

(so far off topic i dont even know what to say)

[asian]

yeah, we're soo off topic it's heart breaking...well not really...

[PyroWolf174]

wow.. i leave the forum for two measly days, and this is what happens? im ashamed of you all.. ::shakes head in disgust::

but thats besides the point.. implodings good and all, but everyone knows that spontaneous combustion is better (family guy, anyone?)

[netorcs]

doesn't anyone have a relationship???

[PyroWolf174]

what kind of relationship?...

[netorcs]

WEll, I am figuring this is a love relationship thread... I could ramble but no one wants to here about my life... hehe

[Flame2Flames]

i dont know what it feel like to be loved >.> i'll feel it one day

[greenrider85]

i haven't been in a boyfriend relationship no, not yet... want to...

[asian]

i want to hear it because i'm bored! and so heres something to discuss!
have you ever liked someone but couldn't tell them how you felt because of messing something up, or fear of worrying them?
there, the balls in the air, now someone grab it.

[dosu of sound]

no not really i havn't been in that big of an relationship...

[ningo]

Everyone(almost) is loved on this forum. Feel the love :biggrinlo .

[asian]

ahh! trying to throw a topic in the air guys! it's still there!!! *waves arms where topic is floating*

[dosu of sound]

you have a topic floating above you.

[netorcs]

Yes, I have been there.. its such a precarious place.. if you tell them.. will it ruin things? I tend to sit back and watch to a point.. see how things go....

[sinkinswimmer]

i want to hear it because i'm bored! and so heres something to discuss!
have you ever liked someone but couldn't tell them how you felt because of messing something up, or fear of worrying them?
there, the balls in the air, now someone grab it.

*catches the ball*
many many times. if the attraction is one sided (i.e. only physical, or personality) i'll hold myself back. for instance, if i really like someone based off appearance, i'll hold off a little until i get to know them better... but then it's usually friends zone.. =\ or if i'm not initially attracted to someone, but we flirt alot, i'll hold back then too... mainly just cause i'm shallow... yeah, i am.. but at least i'm honest about it.

[PyroWolf174]

i dont really get into that kind of situation.. if theres something that needs to be said, i tend to just say it...

[greenrider85]

i was once. there was a guy i liked and i found out that he was going out with a friend of mine.. i kept thinking bad things about it...like do they deserve each other and crap? and i talked to some other friends and i told them, i shouldn't feel that way they are both my friends and i should be happy for them, not jealous..

[Hinatetsu]

Yes, with my first boyfriend. And even our frienship is ruiened now too. ><

[Kuri_Shinigami]

*sighs* I guess I'll tell you guys since no one I know is ever going to find out. My first two crushes are both my guyfriends. Unfortuately the both of them have found girlfriends so there nothing really much I can do. Falling out of love with someone is real hard to do , It's really hard to spot thinking about that person but sometimes I can't explain...really really confusing. I don't want to fall in love again...but then again who really has control over who they fall in love with?

[netorcs]

...but then again who really has control over who they fall in love with?

Damn, isn't that the truth...downright annoying if you ask me. :sad:

[sinkinswimmer]

^ yeah....

i have days were i'm still hung up pretty bad on my ex

[Ryudell]

When a couple breaks up for reasons other than each other, who gets the worse end of it; the guy or the girl?

[netorcs]

I would think it would be the one that was left... whether it was the guy or the girl.

[greenrider85]

I would think it would be the one that was left... whether it was the guy or the girl.
i think i have to agree with neo.

[sinkinswimmer]

^ well, i think it depends on if you want them to leave or not... if they leave and you're still head over heals, it hurts like h*ll... but if you guys fight a lot and they leave... it's not near as bad.

[greenrider85]

^ well, i think it depends on if you want them to leave or not... if they leave and you're still head over heals, it hurts like h*ll... but if you guys fight a lot and they leave... it's not near as bad.
that is true too.. i am sure that the person who breaks up might be heartbroken too... thinking that it would have been good to work it out.

[netorcs]

Why can't ex-bfs just crawl under a rock and die when its over?? Why is it whenever they leave they think they can come back? What the hell is wrong with them? Why do they want to see me when they want to come to town? Why do I consider going? Oh crap, I have a damn headache.

[Darren337]

Why can't ex-bfs just crawl under a rock and die when its over?? Why is it whenever they leave they think they can come back? What the hell is wrong with them? Why do they want to see me when they want to come to town? Why do I consider going? Oh crap, I have a damn headache.


its for this reason that i DONT chase my ex girlfriends around :eek13:

[asian]

my ex ex boyfriend is cool though, so i still talk to him and wer're cool, but toher than that...my other ex is bothering me...or did.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

My ex isn't annoying..we don't talk much...then again he is half way across the world[ Online relationship]. Other than that really guys are annoying...like those that won't get a clue...really if someone told you "Im not in the mood for a relationship right now" they really should take a hint. *sighs and shrugs*

[Pipp-ORK]

My ex is annoying. >_< He enjoys peeking through my windows, and bribing HackeD into telling him where I am. Haaaaate..I guess I can always trap him in a sewage pipe, or something..A manhole, maybe?

[Kuri_Shinigami]

HackeD? The user? you guys like friends or something? Man you should like have those..what you call it..Blinds? Or you can always send him out somewhere really really far away...let's say the other side of the continent?

[asian]

hacked and pipp are siblings ^_^D
anyways, i think beating him with an alumminum bat would suffice pipp.

[Flame2Flames]

Why can't ex-bfs just crawl under a rock and die when its over?? Why is it whenever they leave they think they can come back? What the hell is wrong with them? Why do they want to see me when they want to come to town? Why do I consider going? Oh crap, I have a damn headache.



well i donno if what i say will qualify as an answer cause i've never been in a true relationship....but i think that we still want to see our ex's cause we still want to be a part of their life even if the door's already shut on getting back together with them. we don't care as long as we can talk with our ex's or atleast be considered a friend to them

[netorcs]

Flames.. you obviously haven't been in a head over heels, rip your heart out relationship... the lines get blurred and the rules change... sometimes you can stay friends and sometimes its just not possible. I am sure that others here will agree with me.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Ok...so are they twins? Sorry im currently not very awake. Yeah Netorcs I can see where you are going with this.

[Flame2Flames]

= / sorry netorc u right i haven't. im just saying what i think based off some knowledge that i knew with out even being in a relationship so just ignore me if i say something like that cause most likely i dont know wth im talking about =/

[Sunfire249]

Wow, has this turned into a like "Get to Know Your Fellow Bleachers" forum now? Because if so, I am totally in!!!

[netorcs]

Flames.. that wasn't an attack at all..

I was just saying that sometimes things don't end all peaches and cream... and that what might seem completely logical just doesn't fit in with the emotional level of the situation. I hope you never have to experience it...

[Flame2Flames]

i know it wasn't an attack i was just saying sorry cause u were right and i was pointing out something i couldn't explain. One day i'll be able to explain what i say lol

[sinkinswimmer]

well, i heard from my ex today, and we haven't really talked in a while... makes me sick to my stomach everytime i hear from her... makes me even sicker to know she's still with the same guy... i don't hate anyone... except that guy.

[Darren337]

its amazing how flip of a coin the outcome after a serious relationship can be. my last girlfriend and i barely talk. from what i hear she told a friend of mine that she feels like talking to me really doesnt help the situation... (the vibe she gets from me). in all honesty, it doesnt help the situation because she hurt me deeply, even if it wasnt on purpose.

before her i had another serious relationship that ended miserably, and a year later, we were friends...

its one of the mysteries of life i tell you.

[asian]

sometimes, i guess its hard to click again in friendly twrms with someone after a breakup...*shrugs*

[sinkinswimmer]

yeah, we've been friends off and on cause of things i've said...

at first i was just a jerk, but then i got over things enough to be friends... and then i let her have it because she was totally blowing of church / etc for her new boyfriend... that was a couple months back... and i'll admit i didn't exactly addresss the issue properly, but i was shocked when i left her a note, and received a pleasant response... so i decided to email her my pics from my seattle trip... and she responded! ... but she sent pics of her trip to hawaii with what's his face... kills me everytime.

[Darren337]

yeah sometimes the pain of knowing her and her new guy are happy can hurt even after youve moved on. in my opinion, once you love someone, part of you NEVER stops loving that person. whether you respond and act on that part of you is what changes, but the love is always there.

[sinkinswimmer]

yeah... sometimes i feel like i'm ready for a new relationship... and then other days i'd give anything to have her back. i still don't fully understand why she left me for him... and that only makes matters worse.

[Darren337]

sounds like you and i think alike...

one day she called it off... i found out later that she had started going out with another guy the next day... cold.

[sinkinswimmer]

^^ yes and no there lollipop. sometimes a woman just changes her mind, and all a guy can do is sit and wonder why. i think in my case (and possibly for darren's as well) this other guy came out of nowhere and flattered her right off her feet.

as far as my situation goes, i don't know what to make of things.... she and her new toy have been having some big fights lately, but the last time i hear about one, is also the last time i put my foot in my mouth... so instead of capitalizing, i buried myself instead... smooth. :sad:

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Your right Darren. Sometimes the love is still there. But for me I guess...It doesn't really matter if the guy doesn't notice me as long as he is happy then I am as well.

[Death God /Link]

bit of a deppresed thred lol

[Uzichida Cantameru]

i agree with death god / Link
I thought this was like helping another person not to bring down readers though it may help some, truly touching thread T_T*sniff sniff*

[netorcs]

OK... so someone talk aobut how wonderful the relationship they are in is.... :D

[Darren337]

Well that must suck. You guys must have done something to make your girlfriends break up with you, though.

if i would have done something stupid i would have known EXACTLY why she broke up with me...

and as sinkinswimmer said, some other guy probably flattered her off her feet... this was back in november when she broke up with me. and it gets better, now she's going out with ANOTHER guy... as was noted about her once, she's a social butterfly.

[netorcs]

Thats an interesting asumption that it was the fault of the guy that the girls left...

[Kuri_Shinigami]

I guess it's all based on denial. Depends the kind of person you are I guess...

[sinkinswimmer]

wow, is that an assumption that not only are us guys at fault, but we're in denial about it too? ....

[Kuri_Shinigami]

That's not what I meant. Depending on what kind of person you are guy or girl you may think you at fault. *sighs*

[sinkinswimmer]

That's not what I meant. Depending on what kind of person you are guy or girl you may think you at fault. *sighs*
ah ha, gotcha. i was just playing around with the angry face too. i don't get upset that easily.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Aiya...I fell for it =[

[Darren337]

in all honesty, since i know not what or which one of us made the critical move that eventually split us, i hold neither of us at fault. i only make speculations as to why it happened and what caused it.

[sinkinswimmer]

that's about all i can do either

[asian]

usually if your ex dates someone right after that means they broke up with your for them...which would suck...or somethimes they break up because they just fell out of love or something like that...

[sinkinswimmer]

usually if your ex dates someone right after that means they broke up with your for them...which would suck...or somethimes they break up because they just fell out of love or something like that...

actually yeah... i found out she was dating him while we were still dating... she swore they were "just friends" but she started blowing me off, and i wanted to believe her... but i eventually had to drag it out of her... sucked (still does)

[asian]

aww i'm sorry sink, i hate people like that. i could never forgive someone who did that, because you're palying with someone's emotions who likes you, and that's just...not right...

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Agreed Asian it's the most hurtful thing to do someone. I wouldn't think about doing that even in a million years =\

[Darren337]

yeah being played with like that is not a fun thing. but you know whats worse? when that person calls you and you start feeling for them again just because you heard their voice...

[asian]

know what else hurts? when you like someone to death and they bearly know you're alive.

[Darren337]

yeah i love that one *sigh*

[Flame2Flames]

i know about that one im just going to wait till college to get a girlfriend.....

[asian]

oh! i know another one! when you tell someone how much you lkike them and they brush you off!
or!
you tell a friend that you thought was your friend that you liked someone, then they told them after telling you that they wouldn't tell then the person you like knows and they laugh in your face and say that you're not good enough for them.
heh, the world is soo cruel

[netorcs]

damn, why do we do this to ourselves? Oh yeah..somewhere there is a diamond in the heap somewhere? Right?

I keep trying to tell myself that..... No wonder I love my dog.

[sinkinswimmer]

hehe... i think i can outdo just about everyone here with tales from my high school days... but i can't pull it off without sounding like a bleeding heart, so i won't.

[Darren337]

have you ever found out years later that the one you really liked had a huge crush on you at the same time and you basically hid from eachother? *hehehe...*

[sinkinswimmer]

eh... not really... most of them i knew about, or figured they had...

one girl though, i called her out on it. she was so obvious. she was right in front of me with her friend, and i said to her friend, "she likes me". her friends like, "no, she said she hates you." i said, "sure she does"... by the end of that her friend came up to me, "she thinks your hot... how'd you know?" lol. true story

[Uzichida Cantameru]

have you ever found out years later that the one you really liked had a huge crush on you at the same time and you basically hid from eachother? *hehehe...*:daren

sinkis(my nickname 4 u):"hehe... i think i can outdo just about everyone here with tales from my high school days... but i can't pull it off without sounding like a bleeding heart, so i won't."

You my dear sir are a disgrace!(jk)

To all how does it feel to have both genders in a class, my high skool doesnt do that T_T very hard for me to meet people sides guys, which im not intrested in at all. <-i think there trying to make us date each other lol.

Anyways its cause the skool is mad hard but if you pass its very good for college cause its such a hard skool.
That brings an off topic question really. Do they do that so you dont get distracted?

(semi ontopic) How is public school?

(full on-topic) Sinkins do tell more!
(another full ontopic)What do u do in what darren said if both r shy?*quoted somewere in this massive post.

(to lighten mood)http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y52/fiendsrfun/015.jpg

LOL i almost took up a whole pg!

[asian]

OHH I LIKE THOSE PANCAKES! iit's a japaense snack thing..and it has sweet bean paste inside...i warm them up for like..thirty seconds and *drools*
anyways...someone lead up back on topic.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

um i did, let me restate what i said, it might have been to long and distracting ^_^;
(semi ontopic) How is public school?

(full on-topic) Sinkins do tell more!
(another full ontopic)What do u do (in what darren said) if both r shy?

[sinkinswimmer]

^^ quite distracting if there are attractive females in the class...

and wow... someone actually wants me to share more stories... perhaps later.

[Sahiden]

I can say, attrative people do can get your attention down and your total scores along. But I must say, it sure beats watching what's happening outside.

On the other hand. It's all a form of discipline, basically you have to able to contain your "emotions" and not get distracted.

[asian]

eh, i can kinda keep them down ^_^D.
anways, if two people are shy uzi, you should have your friend do something about it...even though they might without you asking them becase you wont shutup abou tthe person >_>...

[sinkinswimmer]

i'm shy.... well... i've a feeling i'll be sharing another story soon.

[asian]

haha i'm soo unbelievely shy if i don't know the person...

[Sunfire249]

Lol, but your such a kool person! You'd be like a magnet, and as you walk down the street people would fly through the air and stick to you!

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Some people act differently online then they do in real life ^^:

[Sunfire249]

Lol, I geuss so. But people can be rest assured that this is what I act like in real life! Wait, I don't think that's a good thing ^_^;;;

[asian]

this is pretty much how i act in real life...like with a group of people, if i'm with one person i'm a little more shy...

[Sunfire249]

IIiiiiiiii see... Like the whole thing with awkward silences ne? Awkward silences usually happen only if I say incredibly stupid things...

Yuki: Yeah, I made this skirt.
Me: I geuss it wasn't hard, ne?
Yuki: No... Not really.
Me: Yeah, the only time it would be hard is if you were making pants.
*Awkward Silence*
Yuki: Umm...

[sinkinswimmer]

heh, well... in real life i'm slightly different. if i know you, i'm pretty cool. however, if i have no interest in getting to know you... it'd be like pulling teeth to have a converstaion.

[Darren337]

i pretty much act the same. if youre someone new, i will sort of avoid conversation until it comes naturally. when it does, i generally open up to my normal self.

[asian]

yup! but i listen more than i talk...so yes, unless i'm unbelievely hyper, or have a lot to say...i don't talk a lot.

[greenrider85]

sometimes i talk uncontrollaby, and i go from subject to subject my friends are like can't you be less confusing?

[asian]

lol, i change the subject a lot online, but not in person...well sometimes >_>/

[Sahiden]

I usually don't say a lot...
Mostly because of my psychological defect which disables my ability to guess other people's feelings...

[netorcs]

I am... mabye a little more pushy online. But generally I talk and act the same. Though, I am not all that shy anymore...think I feel better in my own skin.. so I tend to say hey first. *shrug*

[asian]

haha yayy for netorcs! hehe.
haha we got off subject again...well....not that far off...kinda...

anyways.
what would you do if someone liked you and they wouldn't stop bothering you when you said you didn't like them back?
balls in the air once more...someone catch it.

[sinkinswimmer]

hahaha, i've had to deal with that a few times before...

well, all i really do anymore is just play dumb.... doesn't usually take much effort on my part either. =p

[ningo]

what would you do if someone liked you and they wouldn't stop bothering you when you said you didn't like them back?Court order.

[netorcs]

NIngo.. that works..hehe

though can be severe.. unless they are a stalker. If its not that bad, just become severely unavailable... phone screen, avoidance..etc...

[ningo]

that was actually a joke...

[netorcs]

I knew that that Ningo... sorry... dry humor....HAHAHA

[ningo]

no need to laugh a second time...and i did think you'd got it the first time, but then it wouldn't be the first time that my so-called "dry humour" had been misinterpreted...started a BIG argument that way over messenger.

[netorcs]

Man..ningo..have we hijacked this thread or what....

back to Asian's querstion
what would you do if someone liked you and they wouldn't stop bothering you when you said you didn't like them back?

[Darren337]

ive had a stalker... it taught me to be ninja.

[asian]

yes, i think we've heard the stalker thing several times darr ^_^D

[netorcs]

i had a stalker too ..and he was an ex cop so he knew what he could get away with...damn scary.

[sinkinswimmer]

wow, that's freaky... i'm sorry...?

[asian]

that's queer, stalkers are queer. if anyone stalks me...well...let's say...they'll lhave to stalk in a wheelchair.

[Sunfire249]

Lol, oh man... that reminds me that I have a stalker right now who's EXCRUCIATINGLY ugly, and in January... For a WHOLE MONTH every DAY he would ask me to go out with him at least 12 times a day! I mean, you'd think he'd get it by now but you know, nope, I geuss not.

T_T I wish the only stalkers out there were hot stalkers that were really nice and you couldn't turn them down...

[sinkinswimmer]

^^ lol to both of yours

must be nice being a girl... you can beat the snot out of a stalker and not go to jail for it... but if a guy does that.. ugh.

asian seems confident in her fighting skills... anyone else scared? =p

[asian]

haha, i don't think i guy would want to beat up a girl...unless you dont care...^_^D

[ZeroWind]

See most people don't fear stlakers unless they have like a weapon or something. But real stalkers them things is tricksie. You gotta watch out for them or else....... like that movie fear i believe the name was.

[asian]

psh, nah, i think it's creepy when someone watches you when you're doing something...it really pisses me off! :eek13: it just makes me want to bash their skull in.... :redbiggri

[sasuke]

hi ya asian might be like ichigo girl version lol

[sinkinswimmer]

hahaha... do you see dead people asian?

[asian]

yes, all the time...in fact...i'm speaking to one right next to me...

[sasuke]

so whats this thread about i forgot

[Sunfire249]

Umm... It's about relationships but... Who cares?? Yeah ASIAN!!! Kick ass girls forever! Dude, one day, we should totally go on a beating up/killing spree and beat up all guys that are stalkers. ^_^ It'll be ppppeeeeerrrffffeeeeccct.

[sasuke]

im not a stalker but i think their weird so can i come lol

[Sunfire249]

YES. If you are a girl and kick ass then you are more than welcome. If you're a guy... Umm... You can still come! ... ... ...I think.

[sasuke]

im a dude and im not a stalker well some girls stalk me does that count as me bein 1 ??

[Sahiden]

You shouldn't name someone stalker too fast...
You should mind that stalking means being bothered by that person (mostly unknown person) at any time of the day, and very frequent too.
This mans that too qualify someone as a stalker this person must:
-Be unknown or hated by you.
-Call, talk, email, MSN, SMS you more than 5 times a day.
-He must follow you at any time. Or try to make contact at any time possible.
-The victim should no longer be able to live normally because of the previous actions.
Now I can tell you I have been wrongfully accused up to 3 times for stalking. All because some girls from my previous class mistake stalking for desperatly trying to talk to the girl you love. In any case I didn't match any of the prerequisites to be an official stalker. Therefor they simply sought a way to ban me from her life by trying to make my lower than the lowest.

Misunderstandings like that really hurt. so you should really be carefull before calling someone a stalker. Unless this person does matches the prerequisites.

[ningo]

mmm...Sahiden, i think you are taking this a little too seriously. Firstly, if the people in question had seriously considered you as a stalker, the police would have been consulted. Secondly, those prerequisits don't all need to have been fulfilled to be classed as a stalker-the term is a subjective one-a stalker may make contact less than 5 times a day...anybody seen 1 hour photo? Robin William's character would probably be considered a stalker. Finally, the term stalker, like most things, is used in a weaker sense in everyday language; how many people use the word moron, and how many times are you in fact certain that the person has a sub-60 IQ?

[Darren337]

You shouldn't name someone stalker too fast...
You should mind that stalking means being bothered by that person (mostly unknown person) at any time of the day, and very frequent too.
Yeah I have all of that covered.


This mans that too qualify someone as a stalker this person must:
-Be unknown or hated by you.
I didnt know her, I met her, and then she began to follow like a rabid puppy.

-Call, talk, email, MSN, SMS you more than 5 times a day.
She would call AT LEAST daily.

-He must follow you at any time. Or try to make contact at any time possible.
SHE, but yeah... and at lunch she would walk by where i would hang out with a friend of hers.... repeatedly.... looking in my direction and chattering to her friends.

-The victim should no longer be able to live normally because of the previous actions.
1. I stayed out of my house until it was way late...
2. I told my mom to only say I was home to ANYONE asking on the phone twice a week.
3. When the phone rang, my heart would race and I would immediately look for an excuse.
4. I joined the school academic team so that she couldn't walk by my hang out spot for at least 4 days a week.
5. I became angry and reclusive all at once.



...I'm pretty sure around the time she found my house WITHOUT my address that I knew she was definitely a stalker...

[greenrider85]

mmm...Sahiden, i think you are taking this a little too seriously. Firstly, if the people in question had seriously considered you as a stalker, the police would have been consulted. Secondly, those prerequisits don't all need to have been fulfilled to be classed as a stalker-the term is a subjective one-a stalker may make contact less than 5 times a day...anybody seen 1 hour photo? Robin William's character would probably be considered a stalker. Finally, the term stalker, like most things, is used in a weaker sense in everyday language; how many people use the word moron, and how many times are you in fact certain that the person has a sub-60 IQ?
yep i have seen one hr photo. i do agree with sahiden a bit. a stalker is like where you feel trapped because they are everywhere you go, leave you creepy pictures of themselves, call you and hang up...

[asian]

eh, my exboyfriend was my stakler, but he never came to my house...(at least i don't think...T_T) but he used to watch me when i takled to my friends, and when we were in teh workout room he would watch me. see, it doesn't sound bad, but knowing someone is watching everything you do...*shudders*

[Sunfire249]

Ugh, I'm glad my stalk doesn't come to my house... He doesn't believe in msn or the internet for that fact either even though he's a total nerd. He does believe in calling me EVERDAY. Thank buddha he's left on a camping trip... And how do I know? One downfall. He has a cellphone, and I have an answering machine.

sasuke: Well, since you have a stalker, you can for sure come ^_^

sahiden: even though I think that's taking it waaaaayyy too seriously, my stalker DOES apply for almost all of them except the whole thing with the Msn because he apparently doesn't believe in the internet even though he's a nerd. O.o What an idiot. EVEYTHING'S related to the net now!

[asian]

lol ahh, sorry, i'm like...the only person here that says thank buddha, it's refreshing to see someone else use it.

anwywas, give him a swift kick in the crotch, but make sure you're wearing steel toe. get's 'em evvverrrryyy time *thumbs up*

[greenrider85]

lol ahh, sorry, i'm like...the only person here that says thank buddha, it's refreshing to see someone else use it.

anwywas, give him a swift kick in the crotch, but make sure you're wearing steel toe. get's 'em evvverrrryyy time *thumbs up*
i agree that is creepy sun...wierd guy..

[Darren337]

yeah asian i thought you didnt need the steel toe.... *shakes head* oh well.

[greenrider85]

could always just use pepper spray, i hear that it's painful.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Ouch major burn in the eyes...like toothpaste. Don't ask

[asian]

lol <b>I</b> don't need a steel toe personally, i can slaughter them fine, it's just...you know...for people that can't...*shrug* just an extra percaution ^_^

[Sahiden]

After the things I've been through one does get to take these things seriously...
Being wrongly accused of such an act is not really funny you know.

[Saori]

Sometimes, maybe it's best to have a mask on you all the time. To tell you the truth, I'm not whom I appear to be... my friends think I'm like 'so and so' and 'such and such', but it's just a mask...

Being wrongly accused just shows inmaturity on the other party, if he/she did it on purpose. I just laugh and shrug it off....

[asian]

sounds like a good idea saori, why let nonsense affect you? ahh, can't remember the last time someone tried claiming something on me though...after they saw what i can do...*laughs* ahh good times...

[slowjoe69]

I'm one of those people that have a mask on 24/7. No one knows what i'm thinking or feeling.

[asian]

i have like...half a mask...sometime's no one acn see me, otehr times they can...*shrugs*

[Darren337]

im feeling the half mask thing. you may see a good deal of my personality but there are things about me i guard more dearly than my life.

[Saori]

I'm guessing that everyone has some sort of a mask... is there anyone in the world that doesn't have, not even one inch of a mask on?

[Uzichida Cantameru]

i have a 3cm mask cause i dont care bout anything cept people, i just go by as long as im happy and dont do harm.
Thats a way to live.

[Saori]

And I think that should be most people's attitude... oh well, as long as you live and survive, then you're doing something right....

[asian]

i don't like people getting soo unberably close to me. i hate that. i want part of me hidden, a part that they can never see. if they get too close to me...i break their nose ^^.

[Ryudell]

*sweatdrop* I won't resort to physical violence, but I do value private space and anybody who trespasses it will get an earful from me.

[asian]

a lot of my friends are scared of me, cause...well...they say i have a scary look when i'm mad...soo...yeah...they know when to back off.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

ha my friends dont know what i like when im mad cause if they get me angry i just blow them off and ignore them...with a smile ^_^also like i mentioned long ago i have bad blood pressure so when im angry it shoots up to 200(stroke high)so my face turns bad red and if i punch u ur knocked out mmmm(i broke a library console full of cd's with one punch)...anyway so how bad do you look asian?

[asian]

i donno, i've never looked in the mirror when i'm mad. but once i got soo mad and i just glared at everyone, and they all looked at me like o.o... friends: oh my jebus...run!

[Uzichida Cantameru]

and at what point did this go from relations to angry? just asking out of curiosity. It ould be kool if ur eyes turned red when angry wouldnt it?

[asian]

lol yeah, well...we get off topic a lot so it's understandable.
and no, my eyes don't turn red >_>.

[Saori]

Lol... every conversation will get off topic at least once, it's very normal...

For some strange reason, the more mad I am, the more I smile....

[asian]

it's to hide your true feelings, i do it a lot. heh, it reminds me of that kid from kenshi ntaht always smiles.

[Saori]

Um... what's his name... Soujirou? Is it? Lol... sorry, don't remember much from Kenshin....

[Darren337]

yeah that sounds right... that kid was kinda creepy. oh well back to relationships and the like.

[Sunfire249]

Lol, well, on relationships... I'm not gonna date a guy until... I can see plainly he's not a jerk. Or an abuser.

[Darren337]

Lol, well, on relationships... I'm not gonna date a guy until... I can see plainly he's not a jerk. Or an abuser.

2 of every 3 women surveyed said that ther guy was abusive to them in one manner or another... sad.. im that third guy, the ok guy... and yet im the single one. *shakes head and smiles* c'est la vie!

[Uzichida Cantameru]

"im that third guy, the ok guy... and yet im the single one. *shakes head and smiles*"
hey im with you there darren but forget some girls like to take a swing at the dangerous side, the 3rd guys just have to remember to be patient and also make sure you dont get an abussive woman.

[asian]

haha don't worry you guys will gety your moment.
anways, remember the guy i talked about a while ago? the one that i really really liked? i told him ho wi felt, and i stopped liking him. haha i guess...i donno...but it's weird...everytime i like someone and i tell them, or go out with them, i stop liking them...maybe it means i can't ever stay with one person.

[sinkinswimmer]

ha, told you you'd feel better getting it off your chest!

as for being the guy who doesn't abuse women... yeah... but a friend of mine said i might be too nice to girls... and that could be why they walk all over me...

[asian]

aww it's okay sink, theres only one doormat aorund here and that's me! so...your unwalk over a fied. and yes, you were right. *does kakashi tumbs up thing*

[Uzichida Cantameru]

right asian >< but yea knowing from my experience(none) i can see what sink talks about being to nice, couple girls i were going to date had walked over me in friend stage so i wass like f that s*** and move on.

So hard for someone to be a match for me all cause im to nice.

[Flame2Flames]

then theres the girls that do nothing but talk about other people every day -_- i hate those type they make me mad enough and i admit i have a few anger issues and i hold grudges sometimes

i had to deal with this one girl that was like that almost every other day so i would sleep through that class

[asian]

that sucks...heh, you know...i don't know how i ended up in relationships caseu...well...i'm violent (but not as much as i used to be), bloodyy quiet when i'm not in a group, i stop liking people after i go out with them...and...i'm a loner...so...yeah...poele find look for strange qualities....or those three guys were stoned...one or the other ^_^.

[Saori]

Lol... well, at least you're honest and would admit that you're violent to some degree....

[greenrider85]

i have the same problem as uzi and sink i am a very nice person..some say too nice...so i get walked over too, and i don't know if it matters, but i am girl.. i can be violent too if someone pisses me off.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

he i think their should be an organization known as "excessivly nice people" cause that would be hilarious but than pep could hook up ^_^

[greenrider85]

good idea uzi!! as long as both of them are too nice they might have problems making decisions about what to do on dates...

[Uzichida Cantameru]

lol i wouldnt think that would be the problem, it would be who holds the door ><

[asian]

lol nice uzi.
i don't think i can join that club thing...i'm too violent for you guys ^_^. oh well. *shrugs*

[Darren337]

he i think their should be an organization known as "excessivly nice people" cause that would be hilarious but than pep could hook up ^_^


sounds like hanatarou's happy place... the 4th division... :winking56

[slowjoe69]

I'm to nice too but i really have a bad violent temper but it takes alot of pushing my buttons in order for me to be violent.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

I don't know I deal with annoying people all the time, so I've devloped a tolerance to keep my temper in check but there have been the occasional flare or ...forest fire :eek13: Before if you got me mad I would hit your boy or girl really really hard...once this guy in grade 6 got punched in the back...too bad he turned away early I would have hit him in the face. At least he stopped annoying me same with all the other kids when we hit high school. In a sense High School made me grow up and others I think...still some people have just the most awsome ways of thinking..yup...i'll stop now.

[Sunfire249]

Ahahaha, oh man, I can't stand annoying people. Or stupid people. I had a class with REALLY stupid people that didn't alternate with another class and it was the most nerve-racking thing I have EVER had to deal with.

Teacher: So when Phillip from Macedonia conquered-
Stupid Girl: *Puts up hand*
Teacher: Yes?
SG: Umm, like, how do you like, conquer something???
Teacher: umm.... You kinda go and invade another country...
SG: What does invade mean? Is that like, a foreign word or something???

GGGAAAAAH! SUCH STUPID PEOPLE!

[asian]

haha, wow...at the beginning of the year...i got mad in a heartbeat. well...not mad...but pissed. and i would get in fights a lot. so aorund second semester people started leaving me alone. i'm still short tempered, but not as bad as before.

[Kuri_Shinigami]

I guess that's good Asian, I haven't hit anyone in awhile...according to my friends I punch hard. As for that situation Sunfire I know there this girl that is really really dense. For heavens sake she thinks anime and game characters exist in the world!

[greenrider85]

I guess that's good Asian, I haven't hit anyone in awhile...according to my friends I punch hard. As for that situation Sunfire I know there this girl that is really really dense. For heavens sake she thinks anime and game characters exist in the world!
that girl is sad..i think me and sunfire have something in common, we both hate stupid people!!! argh they tick me off. i remember i would tell people that my grandpa fought in world war 2 in africa, they would ask why africa? i was like well britain had colonies there and hitler wanted to conquer the world eventually...

[Kuri_Shinigami]

Sad though her "world" will be shattered by reality sooner or later. I just hope soon since she's going to graduate in 2006, I don't mind it when class clowns do it but when other "stupid" people do it. Yeah I get mad but I just don't perfer to show it im normally quiet and a "loner" in my classes but I change of course when I see my friends they make school much more interesting. ^_______^

[greenrider85]

yeah, i am sort of like that too. i have different sides that people see, if they know me, they see things people who don't know me well see..

[Darren337]

as long as i am in good company (those who realize that "i see dumb people..." o_O ) i can generally maintain a good tolerance of them. just dont get me alone with them, claws are drawn...

[greenrider85]

yeah, if there are a few people to hold me back or something, it won't be that bad...

[ZeroWind]

Yea i am more of the comic relief of a group of people. I like to not take everything seriously.

[asian]

i'm comic relief...kinda...more...the loud one, or the quiet one...whatever depends on my mood.
but yes...ignorant people like that...*twitch*

[Uzichida Cantameru]

Well this is a relationship thread slowly turning into a personality thread anyway...
At the harry potter festivity thing some like hot girl kept looking at me and"checking me out" said my friends but i felt like an idiot cause i get all figiti and nervous and stuff, than the girl dropped a pack of cards and fell everwhere and course i helped here and felt weird. I like didnt even talk to her and that made me feal even dumber cause she was my age and she was attractive but GD MY NERVES!
I shouldve at least talk to her cause she was starting to start a convo but i was a jacka$$ and didnt do anything cept me a big shy idiot. ny advice for me in the future? cause i do need a g/f i had enough of hanging with the guys.

[Darren337]

say hi... tip number one.

[asian]

be confident when you tlak to her. if you aren't confident well...stuff goes bad. and smile, not a biiiggg smile, just a little smile to show that your confortable being with her. chicks like guys who smile, but don't turn it into a smirk either. and make eye contact with her or else it looks like your not interested with her. *looks at ceiling*...i think that's all i have for the moment...

[Uzichida Cantameru]

"say hi... tip number one." did that darren
"just a little smile " i always smile in public cept when im tired or serious. but ill try to be more confident etc. thanks

[greenrider85]

try to relax, she might be nervous too..??

[Uzichida Cantameru]

See about that thing what green said, im always nervous constantly thats what i need help on really, DAMN MY NERVES*rips them out* any advice on that?

[greenrider85]

well, um just try to be yourself..breathe a lot?? sorry uzi i am pretty nervous around guys so i am just as bad as you..

[Uzichida Cantameru]

Thats why we need the overally to nice people club like i mentioned b4 cause that would b awesome ^_^

[netorcs]

Can I join the club?? I am nice..

[zanoubia]

i dont have any relationship problems, i just wanna bother people :P

[ZeroWind]

yea UZi u sure are a jack man.

[greenrider85]

hey, some people aren't good at talking to people they don't know well..i suck at it..

[kenshinsan]

I don't suck at talking to girls but I just don't like to talk to them, I have to be in the mood because they usually talk alot about stuff I really don't care about.

[Saori]

Okay... I didn't know we girls did that....

[kenshinsan]

Sorry...didn't mean to offend anyone just my view, it could be wrong.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

Kenshinsan, i semi agree cause i was at a family party tonight and it was me and one of my uncles 20 yr old friends and the conversation went to were they got purses and makeup, so he said"i have no idea what there talking bout" i said me either.
But you forget its good cause u learn bout them and intrests.
So yea i like listening to girls but have hard time asking them out and stuff.

[sinkinswimmer]

i sent my ex an email the other day... and for the first time since we split, she replied right away, seeing as how i had it in my inbox the very next day. unlike most times when she emails me, i didn't have any mood swings... probably cause she didn't talk about any guys. just her and her family. for some reason, i still hate the thought of her being with anyone else...

[asian]

awe, that's good...at least...i think it is....i'm pretty sure it is...*looks at ceiling*...yeah yeah...it's a good thing...right?

[sinkinswimmer]

*sigh* i should try to stop talking to her... but i can't bring myself to do it.

in the most recent email from her, she told me she often wondered if we could still work things out... this caught me off guard cause she hasn't said a word to me about anything of the sort since we split. actually right after the breakup, she said, she was almost 100% certain she wasn't meant for me... and now this? *confuzed*

in that last email she also said that of all the relationships she had been in, she thought ours would have lasted... again... why tell me this now? *confuzed*

*sigh* 2 weeks before we split, i was the best she ever had, and would be heartbroken if i left her life for good... then we split, i was the worst she ever had and never wanted to talk to me again... somehow we've managed to keep up the communique... but that mixed in with her recent revelations to me... *insanely confused* this make sense to anyone? anyone at all?

[Ballistics]

damn man...thats a really "confuzing" place to be in...hmm...well look...if your not seeing anybody at the moment, then...you gotta think about what you should do...but if number 1 applys to you then naw man just keep it friends...but if it doesn't...

( looking to be a complex post about something quite complecated)

if you can't think of her being with anyone else...and you didn't mind her company before you broke up...if you can't stop talking to her at all then...yeah no harm in trying it again...

but if not then remember what old blue eyes said, " Leave your worrys on the door step just direct your feet to the sunny side of the street!"

Well there you have it amigos, I used to walk in the shade with the blues on perade. Ballistics out...[B]

[asian]

she's having second thoughts i guess...a lot of me friends do the same thing...

[greenrider85]

that sucks sinkin...that is wierd..seems like she wants another shot?