Relationship Thread

[dai-suki]

Yep been withh andy for two and a half years n very happy

[Dounick]

no... im too young xD but yea... noone loves me... T_Tthere is always someone for everyone, its just that you dont know it yet

[azumi149]

ade.hel, someone did pmed me... and he posted in this thread. but i wont tell his name because he might get angry... lol

i'm stilllooking forward that guy (if he will be patient with me!) lmao!!!!!

[Isis]

Currently not in one though was gonna but then so many problems arised, mainly one of my best mates because they had a thing going but she didnt want to do anything about it and now she's acting like the most jealous person Ive ever met plus she's got a family problem,same as me so no go,sadly. At least he's ok with it and there might be a chance later in the future.

[azumi149]

oh... i do wish someday to be owned and to own somebody... lol... isn't beautiful, having someone who's your inspiration?

[General Cox]

lol, it is nice to have someone to share everything with, unfortunately i seem to always fall for the most complicated people on the planet.

sucks when that happens iladys, people do always say put your friends first though :/ My friends wouldnt complain whever i went out with as long as i still saw them, so i dunno how that feels tbh.

lol, i feel like an old hat at this relationship thing, but I've only had one, it's taken that much outa me lol

[demonbane91]

u guys alright? poor u, life isn't easy, u cant get everything u want

[Z_Blitz]

I have the most complicated love life ever. Everytime I like someone she HAS to like a friend of mine and not me, but she thinks of me as a very close friend of hers who is always there for her when she needs me. Her friend though (which I do not like as much) gets obsessed with me! This leads to double dates which kinda make me feel weird really. Here is the girl that I like sitting opposite to me talking with my friend and enjoying her little romance while I'm trying my best not hurt the person sitting in front of me thinking that I'm her soulmate! *sighs* Life can be cruel...

It happened just once though that the girl I like falls for me. It was short lived though. She left to study abroad. I see her every now and then but I think that relation is dying.

So basically I am "not taken" as some will subtly put it... But frankly I am in no position to start a new relation unless I think its a serious one.

[demonbane91]

interesting story Z_blitz

[yumisan]

O.o..that is sure a weird story you had Z_blitz.but pity you also.

[Dounick]

there is pityness going on here? or am i only reading something wrong.....

[Kira_yamato69]

girls arnt scary, even if they are ugly that doesnt mean they arent the nicest person in the worldIt is the truth!

[Dark Fire]

im not that desperate, and are you a guy? if so..... thats somewhat weird because i dont know of a guy thats that desperate

yah I'm a guy but I'm not really despreate I am just looking for a long term relationship

[Dounick]

yah I'm a guy but I'm not really despreate I am just looking for a long term relationshipah, i see, then that is ok, im sorry for what i meant

[pilotpete]

yeah this thread is a different one how old are you folks lol? Like 14 for the average I bet hey maybe someone should make a poll to see how old bleach fans are lol. Um in relation to the thread um no relationship, not tooo worried about it. Though if anyone around my age is interested and is of the opposite sex of a guy and are in Canada maybe we can talk lol but I REALLLY DON'T CARE lol I'd rather know who you would all want to date from the Bleach world.

[shadowfox1323]

yes im in a relationship but i think its going to end soon i dont know i hope it does because i love this girl with all my heart but if it doesnt work it then i guess it wont well if it doesnt ill look for someone on bleach hahhhaha lol

[Pipp-ORK]

yeah this thread is a different one how old are you folks lol? Like 14 for the average I bet hey maybe someone should make a poll to see how old bleach fans are lol. Um in relation to the thread um no relationship, not tooo worried about it. Though if anyone around my age is interested and is of the opposite sex of a guy and are in Canada maybe we can talk lol but I REALLLY DON'T CARE lol I'd rather know who you would all want to date from the Bleach world.
I'm 19; I'm guessing about half the members here range from 14-17. :P

[Ethanol]

18 here...hmm..isn't there a post in the randomness section about ages? But I think that age-range that you gave Pipp makes sense from the brithdays listed everyday on the bottom of the page. lol

[Pipp-ORK]

Haha, yeah. The youngest member I've seen so far was Blazedsouls, I think, who's only 10. :eek13: I thought he/she was older than that.

[Dounick]

well i seem someone that was 46 here..... it was kinda creepy knowing he was on here

[Ethanol]

Haha, yeah. The youngest member I've seen so far was Blazedsouls, I think, who's only 10. :eek13: I thought he/she was older than that.

Wow...that surprises even me. lol

[Pipp-ORK]

well i seem someone that was 46 here..... it was kinda creepy knowing he was on here
Ooooookay, that's weird. :eek13: I can imagine still obsessing over anime when I'm old and such, but joining a forum rife with teenagers? Ah, NO.

[Dounick]

does that mean he was 9 when he started this?

Ooooookay, that's weird. :eek13: I can imagine still obsessing over anime when I'm old and such, but joining a forum rife with teenagers? Ah, NO.umm... when i had shown my friend the first thing that had came out of his mind was "Stalker and Petifile" lol but i dont think he was serious about his age though

[Pipp-ORK]

Who, Blazedsouls? I don't know. I'm just surprised at his/her age, he/she must be pretty mature. :redbiggri

[Dounick]

yeah, i think he/she is smarter then me. but meh i dont care

[Pipp-ORK]

How old are you?

[Dounick]

How old are you?I am 15 turning 16

[General Cox]

we might still be here with the teenagers when we are 46 :p

the anime should have been dubbed by then, so a new lease of fans!

[Dounick]

we might still be here with the teenagers when we are 46 :p

the anime should have been dubbed by then, so a new lease of fans!yeah that is true... then we would have lots of post, and we would be club bleach legends

[Pipp-ORK]

LEGENDS? We'd be.....FAMOUS around the internet! We'd be worshiped! We'd even have a page soley about us on Wikipedia!! :doindadom

[Dounick]

LEGENDS? We'd be.....FAMOUS around the internet! We'd be worshiped! We'd even have a page soley about us on Wikipedia!! :doindadomyeah that is most definatly true but i doubt that we will devote our lives to the internet

[Anil]

you guys having a nice chat..?

No I'm not in a romantic relationship... and never really have been...

I'm not surprised there's a ten year old on here... I have some friends around that age, they are cool..a little annoying at times but cool nonetheless...

[Dounick]

yeah we actually are but we are taking it to the randomness now

[Pipp-ORK]

you guys having a nice chat..?

No I'm not in a romantic relationship... and never really have been...

I'm not surprised there's a ten year old on here... I have some friends around that age, they are cool..a little annoying at times but cool nonetheless...
Relationships are overrated. They're WAY too much work, really. :P AND they eat all your food. If you have candy, you're compelled to give him/her half of it, and so on. :cussing:

I'm not surprised there's a ten year old on here... I have some friends around that age, they are cool..a little annoying at times but cool nonetheless...
For some reason, that reminds me of my 8th grade cousin. Who dates 5th graders.

[ISAMU]

Relationships are overrated. They're WAY too much work, really. :P AND they eat all your food. If you have candy, you're compelled to give him/her half of it, and so on. :cussing:

Oh come on there are SOME advantages... :winking56

[Anil]

Relationships are overrated. They're WAY too much work, really. :P AND they eat all your food. If you have candy, you're compelled to give him/her half of it, and so on. :cussing:


For some reason, that reminds me of my 8th grade cousin. Who dates 5th graders.


Ummm... riiiiiiight....

I don't date ten year olds... but kids are fun...especially when they are smart...


I thought as much...

[Dounick]

yeah, who dates 10 year olds? *shivers* not saying they are cool, but they are to young

[Anil]

YEAH REALLY... that's bloody insane...

I don't mind talking with them... but dating a ten year old is twisted stuff...

[Dounick]

yes.... that is twisted, i dont remember the last time tlaking to one

[Ethanol]

Pipp....I think you really are hung up on this sharing food thing. LOL

Well, maybe it is twisted to us...who knows? two mature 10 yr olds could be hiding on this forum *shrugs*

[Dounick]

*shifty eyes*

[Apocalypse]

Single. To be honest, I've met some "O.K." girls in my life, but none that I felt was "the one". I'm 17... and haven't had a single girlfriend in my entire life. To some that is strange, I suppose, but I look foward to a girl I can get along with. I don't really feel it is right to go out with a girl you can't see having a future with. Probably due to my some-what abusive older sisters, I'm really... not so great around females. I'm sure if I find one having similar interests and stuff though, I'd probably be a bit more... cool about it.

[Pipp-ORK]

YEAH REALLY... that's bloody insane...

I don't mind talking with them... but dating a ten year old is twisted stuff...
Well, she also tried to convince her 9 year old boyfriend that her mom bought her a house. She told me that I was adopted. T_T I don't really like her all that much..


Pipp....I think you really are hung up on this sharing food thing. LOL
HUNG UP? No, I bought ice cream, candy, grapes, and various other sweets FOR ME to gobble up late at night. My ex had half of it gone within the hour. :( You don't find that depressing...?

[SLVR]

Relationships are overrated. They're WAY too much work, really. :P AND they eat all your food. If you have candy, you're compelled to give him/her half of it, and so on. :cussing:
Ypur doing something wrong Pipp if ya feel that way.

[SLVR]

Nah, she's just being a GREEDY GLUTTON. :cussing: You're going to get FAT, Pipp.
Sounds like depression. Depressed people like to eat. And they usually do get fat.

[Anil]

...this is quickly becoming a very dangerous thread...
guys and girls I'm not a mod but please try not to be even REMOTELY insuting... because people can only read what you type it is sometimes difficult to understand the tone in which you are addressing someone...

Pipp, I understand what you are saying... there is nothing wrong with sharing, but I would think your boyfirend would be more considerate than to eat HALF of your food...
*shakes head*

[azumi149]

nice chat, guys? oh, well, this thread seems to catch up many's interest... is it because ppl here are too romantic? lol













maybe.

[Anil]

hmm.... am I romantic...? maybe in my head...

I real life I'm over-pratical about picking...hence my utter lack of luck in this field...
But I've heard some stuff that would make most people cautious... too many times at that...

[yumisan]

I am 15 turning 16

hohoho..you are just the same as me:D I to is 15 turning 16.

[moat]

no. i am not in a relationship right now...and i'm quite bitter about that.

[strydr]

dude, find out what she likes firstly, cause once people can relate you can get closer to them - try to find it interesting. then maybe try talk about past times and your guys pastimes(hobbies), cause you say you know her since kindergarden right? so you guys can talk about how those days was, or ask if she remembers how those days were.
To xyouxarexuglyx2

[Dounick]

ok i made someone upset because i told them that i was going to stop going on the computer and that wouldve meant that i wouldve had to stop talking to them, and they were upset and i sort of said that whats the point of talking if we are never going to meet and i went on today (i dont think i should of and now they are really upset)
for 1: i dont know what to do
for 2: i dont know if they will believe me if i tell them what i feel

[Daeruke]

yup. it is better if u no each other 4 a long time. n i need a gf. most of the girls i no r like my friends. not 2 close though. n some r just crazy.

[Dounick]

but they are like my best friend and i screwed it over

[Daeruke]

ok i made someone upset because i told them that i was going to stop going on the computer and that wouldve meant that i wouldve had to stop talking to them, and they were upset and i sort of said that whats the point of talking if we are never going to meet and i went on today (i dont think i should of and now they are really upset)
for 1: i dont know what to do
for 2: i dont know if they will believe me if i tell them what i feel
umm jsut confess. tell ur true feelings. what can b worst then this? umm well she could hate u but, just try to apologize n stuff

[Dounick]

umm jsut confess. tell ur true feelings. what can b worst then this? umm well she could hate u but, just try to apologize n stuffhate seems like the right word....
does sarcasm fall under that as well?
because i already tried apologizing and she was intent on using sarcasm saying she understood

[Daeruke]

umm try talking to her again. maybe get her some flowers or chocolate

[Dounick]

umm try talking to her again. maybe get her some flowers or chocolatehmmm.... yeah that i will try... i will post again to tell you how things went

[Daeruke]

k. good luck dude. hope u make it

[~Anime4Life~]

my love life is screawy, in the last week so many things have happened... so curntly this guy DJ that i like, ive tolled him a like him, and about a few weeks later he said he liked me back(or so he says) so like nothings happened since then. its like i realy wanna kiss and hug and all that but i have no clue how to say it.. can any body help

[General Cox]

relationship thread will help you out, if anyone actually looks at the blooming thread anymore

[~Anime4Life~]

relationship thread will help you out, if anyone actually looks at the blooming thread anymore
i dont think so from just you posting..

[Daeruke]

umm just kis him. or make out or something. he admitted he like u back. but the thing is do u "really" like him? watch Suzuka it shows some advice

[~Anime4Life~]

umm just kis him. or make out or something. he admitted he like u back. but the thing is do u "really" like him? watch Suzuka it shows some advice
i like him so much, i cant seem to jump up and make a move around him somethings holding me back... its like im so close to him yet i cant get near.. its strange..

[azumi149]

you should not. you just have to wait for the right one to come. the worth-waiting one.

[moat]

you should not. you just have to wait for the right one to come. the worth-waiting one.

haha. that's why i'm bitter! i've already found her. i just can't 'have' her yet. i have to 'wait' for her i guess, but she is worth waiting for, its just that its kinda painful.

[moat]

maybe. i use the word 'yet' only to please my fantasy world. what the future holds, i really don't know.

[ade.hell]

wandering if I should reply to those single guys... maybe I'll find someone interesting?...

[Nudel]

ade: Oh hehe, on guy-hunt? ;)

Well I'm single but alright with it so far. If someone crosses my way, alright, if not then not. I pretty mich don't care.

[Dark Fire]

I am single AND looking

[NARUTO41691]

im single right now but i like this one girl but i dont think she likes me well im single and looking for a girl.

[Shinomori]

Yes. I love my computer and it loves me back.

Just kidding. I'm not in one currently, but fairly close to one.

[Daeruke]

hey just try to talk to him. if he stay way from or avoid u ,ask him y.

[~Anime4Life~]

hey just try to talk to him. if he stay way from or avoid u ,ask him y.
he doesnt realy avoid me(well besides when i ask to him to come to a sleep over he just says hes "busy")

[Daeruke]

well u went too much with the sleep over. i mean a date is ok but a sleepover? that WAS ur ffault. try to ask him on a date. like the movies or something. ask his friends if he is really busy or not.


any1 have any good advice on getting a gf?

[~Anime4Life~]

well u went too much with the sleep over. i mean a date is ok but a sleepover? that WAS ur ffault. try to ask him on a date. like the movies or something. ask his friends if he is really busy or not.


any1 have any good advice on getting a gf?
how is that too much? i dun get it? im not trying to sleep with em O.o btw i cant go on dates cause i dont have any money
and with getting a gf... all i can think of right now is be realy kind, be careing giveing, ect. ect. and when the time is right tell her that you like her and all that (well thats what Brody did with Sam and they turned out ok)

[Daeruke]

i have a friend named brody. but the SAm i no is a guy! so i wil just ignored that. there is a problem with being nice... i have split personnalites n evil is one of them. so i m screwed. n the sleepover part.. thats kinda unusual. usualy girls invite gils n guys invite guys n play video game n watch movies all night. anyway.. try asking is friends when he have time for something.. n for the money part... try asking parents 4 allowence or sell lemonade

[~Anime4Life~]

i have a friend named brody. but the SAm i no is a guy! so i wil just ignored that. there is a problem with being nice... i have split personnalites n evil is one of them. so i m screwed. n the sleepover part.. thats kinda unusual. usualy girls invite gils n guys invite guys n play video game n watch movies all night. anyway.. try asking is friends when he have time for something.. n for the money part... try asking parents 4 allowence or sell lemonade
kinda hard to ask my parnets when there seperated and poor... and im too old for that lemonade shit
some girls like evil guys, its ok, the most important thing is who you are, you cant lie to someone that your some one your not or they may be hurt by the lie. so i think maybe you should be yourself and try showing a few signs(not too many O.o) and posply when the time is right tell that person how you feel

[strydr]

my love life is screawy, in the last week so many things have happened... so curntly this guy DJ that i like, ive tolled him a like him, and about a few weeks later he said he liked me back(or so he says) so like nothings happened since then. its like i realy wanna kiss and hug and all that but i have no clue how to say it.. can any body help

do you by any chance live in Cape town, africa

how is that too much? i dun get it? im not trying to sleep with em O.o btw i cant go on dates cause i dont have any money
and with getting a gf... all i can think of right now is be realy kind, be careing giveing, ect. ect. and when the time is right tell her that you like her and all that

about the money issue, it doesnt hafta be suffiecient in a relationship, cause me and my girlfriend just take long walks and long talks, with some sweets, and most of the time just look at stars and stuff.
u should try it

i have split personnalites n evil is one of them. so i m screwed.

dude, i think i am the same. i was really evil when it came to beating people up, i was known in the family as being someone who wasnt suppose to be alone with any1 or they may be beaten. I am also very cowardly and very protective, kinda like no one hurts the people i hurt, so leave them alone. the people i beat up were cuzns, friends, sisters, and the abuse ranged from emotional, physical, MENTAL was my favourite. i had evil thoughts even my LoVe was twisted ie. eVoL...lol.
but one person i could never hurt was my mother.

and then i found my girlfriend Ra, who was someone so Goddess like that i could not hurt, emotionally, physically, mentally... its almost as if she came to save me.and as time went by i controlled my anger... she is the perfect person for me. i have grown so much these days from her its amazing. and all that anger goes into pumping iron to protect her, it is a vicious cycle of love, i love it.
dude i think u hafta search for ur special person, only then will u learn control.

[~Anime4Life~]

do you by any chance live in Cape town, africa
about the money issue, it doesnt hafta be suffiecient in a relationship, cause me and my girlfriend just take long walks and long talks, with some sweets, and most of the time just look at stars and stuff.
u should try it

i dont live in Africa..
and i cant do that with him cause he lives at teh obasied side of the lake so i cant see him much and it would take hours for us to walk home

[TeckBandit]

I'm not very good with my relationships... So I'm not in one. I just don't really know how to talk to girls that well. And then when I do end up talking to a girl, she'll think were too close of friends to get into a relationship. Makes no sence... That is just from my guy perspective though.

[_strangechild_]

Yes. I love my computer and it loves me back.

Just kidding. I'm not in one currently, but fairly close to one.
Lol. I love my computer too, he loves me back also. He's called Sam!! =D [Hugs computer].

TeckBandit, I know guys in the same situation as that. Poor souls.

[Felonious Funk]

I'm not very good with my relationships... So I'm not in one. I just don't really know how to talk to girls that well. And then when I do end up talking to a girl, she'll think were too close of friends to get into a relationship. Makes no sence... That is just from my guy perspective though.

I'm in the same boat as you, man.

Funny thing is if you're preoccupied with something, be it work, hobbies, or if you're with your friends, you won't notice a thing. But if you ever have that moment when you have some time to kick back and chill, once you even think about it, you realize, "Damn... it would be nice if I had someone I can snuggle up with."

[TeckBandit]

I'm in the same boat as you, man.
Well what can you do, ya know? Haha. Just have to deal and look elsewhere. Thats what I've done. (Offtopic, you a Roots fan?)

@ _strangechild_ Yeh, we are. Haha.

[_strangechild_]

Lol. I don't look around for anyone. I can't be bothered to make a relationship come to me. O_o. I'm just happy admiring people.

My mate's in a Bloc Party video! =D

[StoneTitan]

Nope not in a relationship, nor have I been in one(good thing or bad thing hmm...)
I guess I might like freedom a bit to much, since I have never felt anything like that for anyone.

Who knows if ill ever get interestet in a relationship.(only time can tell)

Or if the strange thing should happen that i gets found by someone...(doubt it)




If anyone wondered what i look like,



http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v423/StoneTitan/Mig/Billede015.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v423/StoneTitan/Mig/Billede037.jpg

[Felonious Funk]

Well what can you do, ya know? Haha. Just have to deal and look elsewhere. Thats what I've done. (Offtopic, you a Roots fan?)

I'm a fan of music as a whole. The Roots, a little bit of Hieroglyphics, Michael Jackson circa 1980s, Al Green... Too Short even, especially his old stuff. A lot of stuff I like, but I just don't know who they are.

Come to think of it, I think music may be my girlfriend.

[TeckBandit]

Well you have a beautiful girlfriend. Haha.

[_strangechild_]

Tello StoneTitan! =) If yous be remembering me.

Friends are all I really need. I think if I were in a relationship, it'd be more like a friendship. =) I love my friends [hug for friends]. They're my only loves. Especially Tom. =D He's great. He rocks my socks.

[StoneTitan]

Tello! to you aswell Strangechild.
Yup i do remember you, and i remeber posting in a similar thread a long time ago.
Even partly rememberig what you told back then.


Edit: You got pretty far with your posts since last time.

[Felonious Funk]

Well you have a beautiful girlfriend. Haha.

Thanks, man. :D

[General Cox]

Friends are all I really need. I think if I were in a relationship, it'd be more like a friendship. =) I love my friends [hug for friends]. They're my only loves. Especially Tom. =D He's great. He rocks my socks.

when you are in a relationship you will know the difference :p when you love someone (in the romance way) it really is like no other feeling and cannot be described. You have to find it out for yourself :p

[_strangechild_]

I've been in a relationship before.
Another kind of love for a person, still I prefer friendships =)

[cetamora]

Hmm, I realy miss someone, I dunno who but that person isn't there :( dunno what to do realy I don like the idea of to active search for partners or stuff, seems like not real. But it still bothers me and I can't point it out. I have a tendence to go in to myself and realy don wanting to socialize but most of my friends thinks it's good cuz I can be to talky sometimes err. But even when I try I have no sence of timing. I mean how can u be friggin born without any timing what so evver. When it realy matters is situations that realy matters I always a small doubt and then it's to late. Okay if it is happening one or two times but Ican never say the right things at the right time and this is for all occations. When it's on a forum it's turnbased, it's fine but in real-time my brain seems to go on off mode. Hmm I've just speculated a little about myself here, ju don have to mind about me, don't.

[Komamura Sajin]

I used to be in alot of relationships but now im starting to stay away from relationships and concentrate on my school work

[Wabisuke]

haven't been in a relationship in a while

mostly my own fault though. i'm such a damn hermit

[munkey]

i have trouble talking to girls too... i joke around alot with my friends, which led to my last break up... yaahhh she didnt like it when i joke around...sigh
so i broke up with her cause if i cant joke around than i cant be with her.
i need a girl with a sense of humour:)

[Cyrus]

Well I'm single and dont really enjoy it. Really though I only have myself to blame.

I have do not want nor need to socialize...But it just so happens that makes it kinda hard to find a nice girl.

It also does not help that I am really very picky, Plus I'm so shy it is almost retarded. In any sort of situation where I talk to a hot female I tend to freeze up,stutter, pretty much become a total idiot:face82:...I doubt I could even manage to remember my name if a hot chick started talking to me.

Here on the net when I want to I can act pretty much like a normal person...mainly cause I have time to think my stuff out.

Things I looks for in a woman:Sense of humor, loving and caring, somewhat pretty(I mean honestly...my standards are not all THAT high but there has to be a degree of phyical attraction), and she needs to have a few things in common with me Such as my love of anime,manga,and games...one of the three would work for me lol.


It's sad I know...But it is how I am.:p:

[asian]

I didn't realize that Asian started this thread OH-SO long ago... (like back in April!)

And because I'm wanting some Asian love advice, here goes:

I need a date for Winter Formal, which is in February. I'm single right now, and it doesn't seem like anyone's going to ask me. I'm not sure to ask any of my guy friends, so Oh Wise, Asian, what do I do?

*giggles*

haha, yeah i started this ages agoooooo >.>
anyways, just make subtle hints in front of your guy friends, asking them if they're gonna go to the dance, who they're gonna take stuff liek that. also just saying things like "i do't have a date" or "I don't know who to go with" will always get them to catch on.
if that doesn't work just ay it bluntly that you need a date and ask someone.
*shrug* something like that works most of the time.

[Nudel]

Things I looks for in a woman:Sense of humor, loving and caring, somewhat pretty(I mean honestly...my standards are not all THAT high but there has to be a degree of phyical attraction), and she needs to have a few things in common with me Such as my love of anime,manga,and games...one of the three would work for me lol.

Hehe, maybe I might be that right girl for you then :P ;)

I actually am not that picky, I just need to feel comfortable around this person.
Sure there are things that I'd like to have in common but they aren't really something I'd pick my guys after.

[Darren337]

haha, yeah i started this ages agoooooo >.>
anyways, just make subtle hints in front of your guy friends, asking them if they're gonna go to the dance, who they're gonna take stuff liek that. also just saying things like "i do't have a date" or "I don't know who to go with" will always get them to catch on.
if that doesn't work just ay it bluntly that you need a date and ask someone.
*shrug* something like that works most of the time.

i agree and i will tell you why it works from the guy's side of things.

1. If no one's asking, they most likely think you're already taken.
2. If you start dropping hints like the ones asian mentioned, we WILL catch on.
3. If we don't act on it, it's probably because we all think one of the other guys who probably heard you, asked you first, and seeing as how we dont take rejection all that well sometimes, we just avoid the chance of it at all.
4. If you ask a guy and he's not already going with someone else, he will most likely say yes. Unless he's already asking someone or he's an ass.

[cetamora]

Cyrus! That is almost like how it is for me. When it isn't any feelings involved I move around pretty good and can talk with everyone but the slightest spark in the heart makes me unbeliveble shy and reserved and I start to talk with a strange voice (jupp) and feel very uncomfortable and have troubles to stay still and as Shania Twain said:
That don't impress em much ><//

[asian]

haha score <3
asian=rocks at this stuff
i should get like...a cookie for this

[I fail at life]

There's this girl I like and she truly, completely detests me. Anyway how I can get her to like me too?

[Felonious Funk]

Hmm... maybe you guys can help me figure out something. Back when I was a junior in high school, there was this girl I liked. Thing is we ended up becoming good friends, so for me, (fortunately or unfortunately, depending on your point of view) that feeling of liking a girl goes away when we become homies. One day, she told me about she had a dream; and it was about her and me... umm... how can I say this... knockin' the boots. At the time, I didn't think of it as anything, so I said, "Hey, that's pretty cool," and that was it.

So my question to you folks is: when a girl tells you about a dream like that, is that a sign that's she's into you?

[lmegera]

Thats not very subtle from my opinion at all. She probably wants you, even if its a subconcious thing. Or maybe she was lying. You never know...

I HAVE A PROBLEM.
What if you love someone that lives in Australia and you live in the US and you're insanely depressed that you'll never see this person ever in teh life, but you really love him and spent two hours crying last night about this??

/me waits for Darren's opinion.

[lmegera]

Haha! shyness in boys is cute, but it gives the girl no real inkling if you like her or not.

[Felonious Funk]

Ahh, darn. But hey, thanks for the input, Imegera. Any kind of somewhat of a closure is always appreciated.

And sorry to hear 'bout your problem. Hope it gets resolved somehow.

[Ethanol]

Haha! shyness in boys is cute, but it gives the girl no real inkling if you like her or not.

Yeah...I'm rather shy in real life. Online everything is fine, *shrugs* I guess the search continues.

[Cyrus]

Nudel I have seen your pic in the Picture thread...and you are really hot. Which means I have like 0.0001% chance of ever getting a woman of your caliber.

You are on that level of beauty where if I ever had a Face to Face Conversation with you I would totaly freeze up therefore ruining my chances with you.

I know that whole bunch of stuff probably sounded fairly stupid and a little sad but it is true nonetheless.

I am a complete and total nerd with major social problems...Hot girls send me into a high level of retardation.

[akin_t]

Thats not very subtle from my opinion at all. She probably wants you, even if its a subconcious thing. Or maybe she was lying. You never know...

I HAVE A PROBLEM.
What if you love someone that lives in Australia and you live in the US and you're insanely depressed that you'll never see this person ever in teh life, but you really love him and spent two hours crying last night about this??

/me waits for Darren's opinion.

Umm I'm not darren but you could always fly over to australia, it should cost around 600 bucks ... tops. So chizu ... get a job ... work for a month and a half ... get yourself to australia,

Hmm... maybe you guys can help me figure out something. Back when I was a junior in high school, there was this girl I liked. Thing is we ended up becoming good friends, so for me, (fortunately or unfortunately, depending on your point of view) that feeling of liking a girl goes away when we become homies. One day, she told me about she had a dream; and it was about her and me... umm... how can I say this... knockin' the boots. At the time, I didn't think of it as anything, so I said, "Hey, that's pretty cool," and that was it.

So my question to you folks is: when a girl tells you about a dream like that, is that a sign that's she's into you?

Well maybe she does like you, you can never be too sure. I'm thinking she finds you physically attractive and not neccesarily wants to be involved romantically, either way just go for it.

[InuRukia]

Ok here is my problem, I meet this girl on my space and i have only talked to her a couple of times but i think shes really nice and im starting to fall for her, can anyone give me some advice on how to get this to work?

[Pipp-ORK]

So you're talking about an online relationship, InuRukia? Hm. I'm not too sure about that one; considering, online, you can only have a certain amount of the whole trust aspect going on (among other problems).

[asian]

yeah, i'm gonna have to agree with pipp-chan
online relationships don't work out that well...my friend had one and it ended in disaster. take some time and really sort out your feelings for her before you do anything rash.

[asian]

currently not in a relationship. not really looking for one

OFF TOPIC: HACKED!!!! i haven't seen you in ages! *glomp*

okay, continue back on topic ^.^

[InuRukia]

its not online, she goes to my school but i have been talking to her online

[asian]

OH, okay okay that helps.
hmm so have you ever spoken to her at school?
usually it helps to speak to someone in person and such. so just talk to her for a while, give it a couple weeks, a month or so... and if you think she might like you back tell her that you like her and see what happens from there.

[hoopla]

i've never gone out of my way to start anything with anybody. in other words i've never really looked or tried. i usually get tongue-tied and and i can't seem to think straight when i'm around someone i find attractive--so, i end up being really quiet around them with nothing to say (out of fear of saying something weird or dumb). currently, someone does seem to find me of interest though and that's comforting.

[Felonious Funk]

Well maybe she does like you, you can never be too sure. I'm thinking she finds you physically attractive and not neccesarily wants to be involved romantically, either way just go for it.

Ahh, that could have been a possibility. If she did find me attractive, for some reason or another, I didn't see it coming.

Oh well. You learn from your mistakes and move on. Many thanks for the input.

[Nudel]

Nudel I have seen your pic in the Picture thread...and you are really hot. Which means I have like 0.0001% chance of ever getting a woman of your caliber.

You are on that level of beauty where if I ever had a Face to Face Conversation with you I would totaly freeze up therefore ruining my chances with you.

I know that whole bunch of stuff probably sounded fairly stupid and a little sad but it is true nonetheless.

I am a complete and total nerd with major social problems...Hot girls send me into a high level of retardation.

Well yes that mostly happens. Nothing much anyone can help you with unless you thaw up yourself. Maybe you just need to jump over your shadow once to realize there's no need to be that shy. I'm shy myself, yes believe it, but people kind of forced me to be a bit more open.

But anyways, thanks for your words. ;)

[Shinji]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months.

[moat]

my day was miserable! all i thought of was "her" today, so i was sad the whole day.......holy crap i miss her..........what kinda bullshit life is this, that i meet the girl of my dreams, the ****in one! and i can't have her?!?!?! goddamnit!!!.........i'm gonna go take some vicodine now.

[l2ed]

im single and kinda bored hoping to have someone soon

[boozy]

Meh relationships are over-rated if you're a college/uni student, burns a hole in the pockets too, i'm happy just being alone.:doindadom

[shikari]

i've been with my gf for a year and 2 months

[hoopla]

Meh relationships are over-rated if you're a college/uni student, burns a hole in the pockets too, i'm happy just being alone.:doindadom

agreed. i feel the same way. i've been perfectly fine being alone so far.

[strydr]

i have liked this girl for 2 years, but only asked her out a month and a half ago, hoping it will go far, cause she is really (Me-person) - the right one for me

[Keisuke8911]

yes, recently i got a girlfriend =d

[azn_mafia88]

i am in a relationship now

[sphericvigil]

yeah I've been in a realtionship for 8 months

[skyde534]

I'm not in one right now. Oh well, I have some fear of commitment.

[qball546]

i am currently single

[qball546]

it seems that a lot of girls i like already have a partner

[akin_t]

At the moment I'm not in a relationship, not seeking for one either; but, I might reconsider as soon as my parents stop whining about the kinds of girls I get involved with.

[hawkmun]

In an amazing relation myself right now. ^^ wouldn't have been possible a few years ago, but now with webcams and MSN and money for bus tickets 3 hours isn't that far anyway. ^^

[CW MoneyBags]

Definately single and going on being even more single. I guess that's why I turned to anime to use my time effectively.

[Talimor]

I'm Single and looking for a girlfriend. I'm 6'1, 150lbs, brown hair, blue eyes, dashingly handsome, adventurous, and in love with Bleach. Oh and I live in Maryland, USA. :redbiggri
:doindadom :doindadom :doindadom

[Evil.Rabbit]

Got a girl atm. Not really serious yet, but who knows.

[dark soul slayer]

no i lookin for some one :redbiggri

[me_and-all_me]

i never been in relation ship :), my mom would pretty go mad but then i dont dink i get one, cuz im planning to join airforce or marines so yup!

[lil_lee_boi]

single at the moment

[shadoewhunter]

yup. with kisuke. altho, it's not really defined. i told him to wait for another 10 years, meow. ~

[azumi149]

cute... u guys having a debate here... i'm having an impression of it now...

[Sami]

yeah im in a good relationship =3

wouldn't mind dating hitsugaya though ;]

[InuRukia]

i wish i was..

Topics like this make me want to carve my brain out of skull out of sadness.

[aerikh]

in a relationship 4 d past 1 1/2 years.. :)

[lee]

nope... still single...

[Bakuretsu]

i am single :(

[Kounetsu]

I'm single, have been for the past three years, sadly.

[anaguma_kun]

I'm single, have been for the past three years, sadly.
awww u male or female?

why is it that lots of u guy/sals are single is there somrthing ppl have against anime lovers
neways yeh bein single sohuldnt rele matter as long as u have fun. but then again im not single so u could says it easy for e to say this but meh

[Morb]

yes, im with a relationship with a girl, not from bleach community heh, but hey, still love her :)

[dhtlee]

This is for those who are still single and feels 'left out'. It ain't that bad. Even though i'm currently in a healthy relationship, sometimes i wished i was still single. I'm sure some of those in a relationship would share the same feelings as me.

[setlogix]

Nope, never been in a relationship before and I'm not in one right now =\

[Ichigo8u]

yes for almost 4 years and she is about to give birth to my son anthony!!!!!!! :) (sorry happy daddy here)

[vejitto3]

i wish i was in a relationship too bad only fat chicks dig me:eek13:

[SpartanX]

yes for almost 4 years and she is about to give birth to my son anthony!!!!!!! :) (sorry happy daddy here)
Congrats man.

Used to be (for like an year) but not anymore, Im single now (my g/f left me because she moved away *goes away now*).

[Mizu no Kokoro]

wah~ didnt noe there was a thread on relationships^^;; how interesting~~ lolz, i have so many guy problems its not funny~ it's odd, and kinda sad that i never had a bf>< last yr in high school too~ always feeling like i'm missing out on something...

[Ballistics]

yep, this little thread has been here for a good while...what a life we all live huh amigos? love is such a feat we all say is so great and so wonderfull...but really...its much more to that...we all understand how love can feel when its not returned to you...but when it is...wow, such a feeling is something rare today. Ya see...i grew up...and i noticed things...i learned and i forgot...i won and i lost...but the one thing i never knew...is how one person can affect another...it took me so long to understand that...to know that a girl cryed over you...from then on i knew that i never wanted to see tears in a girls eyes again...i was used to seeing fear and anger...i was a tool and i was bully...i was also alone and i was wild...i know the black to the white in my life...but when somebody cared about me...it was something i never new about...but its been so long since then...ya know, its hard to want to wake up the next day when your little cus sees you in the hospital and she gets runs away scared...i remember how alone i felt...when my family left me alone in there...just laying on that cold hosptial bed alone...ya see amigos...i know how it feels to be sad...so sad i want to die to make it stop...so i know what i'm talking about when i talk about love...hahaha, but yeah this isn't about me...its about love...

about that dream...crazy...yeah i guess she did think of ya in that kinda way but if she didn't go ahead with it then i guess it wasn't very strong...talking about that dream...i had a dream where one of my friends was getting his butt kicked by a lot of black guys...but then after that...i was in a huge hole in the playground i used to play in as a kid...i just laided there and looked up...and i saw a friend of mine...i haven't talked to her since my childhood...i think she liked me...i would always walk her home...and she would always wait for me to walk her home...but this time...she was like she was in high school...and she wouldn't answer to me...but only throw dirt on me...she had a look like i was dead...damn what a dream...

yeah about that thing "moatilliatta" well if ya don't know how it is to not have her around...how can ya really appreciate her...you know..."you don't know what you have till you lost it"...

Well there you have it amigos, I'll shut up now i'm sure you all don't want to hear about my problems. Ballistics out...[B]

[strydr]

my day was miserable! all i thought of was "her" today, so i was sad the whole day.......holy crap i miss her..........what kinda bullshit life is this, that i meet the girl of my dreams, the ****in one! and i can't have her?!?!?! goddamnit!!!.........i'm gonna go take some vicodine now.

wow! you feel like this too! i saw this girl like every week twice a week the time n4 we started goin out, then we start as a couple and i dont see her two weeks - its really irritating, all you can do is phone her, and thats not enough.
dude sometimes you gotta force da issue of a date, cause some girls dont get the point...
so, you gotta be upright and say that you really wanna c her, if she misses you then she'll really wanna see you.

[Paladin77]

ell here is my problem. Unlike most ppl I don't have a problem getting a girl being a med student not bad on the looks and all, but my problem is keeping the girls that is the tricky part. I mean I have alot of things to do like chores for my house my studies and my work as a medical assistant, there doesn't seem to be a place for a girl in my life thats why all my relations are short terms and one night stands.

[I fail at life]

ell here is my problem. Unlike most ppl I don't have a problem getting a girl being a med student not bad on the looks and all, but my problem is keeping the girls that is the tricky part. I mean I have alot of things to do like chores for my house my studies and my work as a medical assistant, there doesn't seem to be a place for a girl in my life thats why all my relations are short terms and one night stands.
The number one advice: Make time for your girlfriend.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

haha~ sounds like a busy life paladin77~

[Ballistics]

yep, i gotta agree with that...if ya don't make time for one there won't be one at all...so if ya really want to have a girlfriend then you gotta make the effort to make time...hmm about the "forceing a date" i think force is a little to strong of a word but you should be trying to get somewhere in that relastion...

Well there you have it amigos, are we demented or am i distrubed...the space thats in between insane and insecure. Ballistics out...[B]

[Chobi]

well i got a GF but i'll guess she will leave me cause she says i love anime more then her :P

[Osxcar]

I could start one of now but I don't think it would be fair to the girl since don't think that it would last long. Hurt her more then if I let it be.

[blove54]

yes yes i am

[Future]

I don't have a girlfriend, but i'm working on it

[A2k]

*Relationship thread merged with the "are you in a relationship?" thread*

[Mizu no Kokoro]

haha~ is merging a good thing?^^;;

[InuRukia]

Yeah, ive kind of got a slight problem. Ok you see me and this guy who we will refer to as "BOB" have been good friends for a good long time. But BOB and I like the same girl. I dont want to make a fight between BOB and I but how can i get the girl without pissing him off?

[Mizu no Kokoro]

haha, being a girl i would say u 'might', just 'might' wanna leave that up to the girl~ or if not, u gotta work it out between u two~

[Ballistics]

damn what a prob...well then..."InuRukia"...lets see...if you know for sure who she likes then maybe nether are right...but if shes not in anything at the moment...then go for it man...become friends and see if anything sparks...sure your friend "says" he likes her but...if he just sits there and does nothing...then he really isn't doing all he can to make things happen...if you want something to work...don't brake it...so i guess thats really all i can tell ya about that...wait...and wait...and understand your subject...and understand her heart...and then understand all that around you...

Well there you have it amigos, Someone falls to pieces sleeping all alone and someone kills the pain. Ballistics out...[B]

[strydr]

hey, i think this is quite a common story, but just wanna know how you guys and gals would feel.
My girlfriend's ex is still in love with her, but i dunno all the details about the whole break up, just that recently her younger sister liked this guy and found out that he still likes her sister... so she told me.
I mean i know that my girlfriend loves me and stuff, and i trust her with all my heart, so i am not worried about her, just that the feeling might fade...
I live in town and she in a residential area outside the city area, like 5 minutes drive away (i cant drive yet :) ). but her ex lives around the corner, and he comes there everyday and he goes to her school. so he sees her like 7 days a week and i see her twice a week if i am lucky but i definitely see her once a week.
I dunno, but i trust her but i trust that guy... why the hell is he still around after their break up and he still comes there when he knows i am her boyfriend now... i just dunno why i feel like this... someone tell me why.

[Paladin77]

The number one advice: Make time for your girlfriend.
Well my friends easier said than done I mean after going to school, finishing reports and doingg all the my daily chores. at the end of the day i have too little time which i use it to watch anime or hang around forums.

[Dark Fire]

I can talk to chicks and have fun with them (no inuendo intented) but I always end up just beeing their friends I'm not that aggressive when it come to a relationship and thats why my last one failed. When I am in a relationship I just want to be near that person and brace your selves ya I'm 17 and never been kissed. I get close to people and they don't even see me. It's pisses me off soo freaking much I feel like I'm about to erupt

[Ballistics]

OH GIRL~ ON MY MIND~ PLEASE SAY YOU WILL BE MINE~ *ahem* hows it going fellow bleeding hearts? lets see if i can put some of my time here to use...*although my advice might not be used, heard, or be anygood at least i'll hear ya out!* lets see...."stryder" hmm yeah it does sound bad...this guy still lingering around after she already has a new boyfriend...that being you...damn...just make sure you don't fly off the handle...but i don't know...she shouldn't feel for him cause she says she loves you but seeing how they where a item before...i'm sure they still have a strong friendship...maybe you should see if ya can make more time to be with her...and it wouldn't hurt to try to make her feel that when shes with you its like she didn't know what she was missing...in other words that "you were ment for me" feeling...

hmm...I haven't been kissed in a long long time...haha, really i wouldn't believe it if it wasn't photographed...but as a adult...nope...so its not a big deal...yeah "Dark_Fire" well hanging around them is always fine and dandy but thats why your the friend amigo...when your hooked with a girl sometimes ya gotta have some time alone and dates and sometimes ya gotta have some space and quite...its give and take but never be so shy as to not make the right moves at the right time or putting your foot down and make a stand when you have to...let me put it this way...if ya don't dance you'll be nothing but a wall flower...
Well there you have it amigos, I AIN'T NOTHING BUT A MAN IN LOVE~ Ballistics out...[B]

[MaskedDrifter]

I have never had a relationship. I have never been kissed, never held hands, never felt a warm touching embrace. Never. I am deprived. I always fail. I have attempted many times. But either, I am too late, they hate me, or they just want to be friends. When will that one special one arrive?

[Mizu no Kokoro]

hahaha~~ this thread is getting funny^^ not in an insulting way~ just interesting to see what the other side is thinking~ lolz~ and um, Ballistics, ur not making too much sense^^;;;

[MaskedDrifter]

Interesting to see what the other side is thinking huh? Same here. Have anything of your own to add?

[saycheese]

I have never had a relationship. I have never been kissed, never held hands, never felt a warm touching embrace. Never. I am deprived. I always fail. I have attempted many times. But either, I am too late, they hate me, or they just want to be friends. When will that one special one arrive?

hahaha quote ftw

[Mizu no Kokoro]

Interesting to see what the other side is thinking huh? Same here. Have anything of your own to add?

hm... actually no~ guys are too hard to understand~ but yea^^;; although if u have any problems i'd be glad to help u^^ i think i'm pretty good at giving advice (lol, not reli, but watever)~

[Darren337]

Well my friends easier said than done I mean after going to school, finishing reports and doingg all the my daily chores. at the end of the day i have too little time which i use it to watch anime or hang around forums.


i read everything else on this page and this just stuck out. honestly, you'd rather sit on a forum than sit in a park with your girl? *shakes head*

moving on...

Interesting to see what the other side is thinking huh? Same here. Have anything of your own to add?

hm... actually no~ guys are too hard to understand~ but yea^^;; although if u have any problems i'd be glad to help u^^ i think i'm pretty good at giving advice (lol, not reli, but watever)~

guys fall into a few main categories (aside from the ones that i call REAL failures... stalkers, predators, those that are in jail for harassment related crimes, etc...)

1. the nice guy - usually the guy who is a great candidate as a solid steady guy... he cares and is considerate, but flys under the radar when it matters.

2. the cold guy - not to say that this kind of guy is mean, but his outward appearance and actions may leave girls thinking that he has little to no interest when in some cases its the exact opposite... he's trying really hard not to seem like he's coming on too strong and thus ends up shooting himself in the foot.

3. the goof - yeah he's the one who girls think is kinda cute and acts funny but is just too weird or out there to date. he tries to be the fun guy for the girls, but it almost seems like he tries to hard.

4. the servant - this one is what some girls would love... by choice he voluntarily throws himself to his girl's disposal. if she wants food, he either takes her out or cooks. she's cold? he'll give up his jacket, find a blanket, wrap her in a blanket. (you get the idea.)

5. cool guy - regardless of what happens or what goes wrong, this guy generally holds his cool and keeps a straight face about it. he's almost like the cold guy but he doesnt come across as stand-offish, his feelings still show through a bit.

6. the knight (with or without shining armor, as per current fashion) - this one is a rare kind, and honestly i think this has more to do with a correct blend from all of the other categories. of course, the rarity makes this the most sought.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

oooh~ some interesting stuff Darren337! haha~ i think i may have liked at least one guy from each category (except for the last XD) in my short life time^^;; needless to say, it never went too well~~ kkk, question 4 u guys out there~ do u have some tiny thing against girls who are um, how to phrase... too perfect? as in the sense that they're smart, nice, and tall, mildly pretty, and all them other stuff i cant think of? perfectionist in a way too? dunno @_@ uh, yea. and which category from Darren's list do u fall in?(out of curiousity^^;;)

[akin_t]

Mizu, no one really seeks out certain qualities when it comes to girls, it's just the whole package. You see some things are very compromisable and that's how most people make picks, no one is perfect ... I mean, when it comes to me, how smart a girl is isn't really a concern of mine; as long as she isn't down right stupid, I'm good to go. However, intelligence might matter alot to someone else and they won't compromise it for even for the best of looks.

I don't have anything against the type of girl you desribed, perhaps you mean intimidation? Well I'm not intimidated by girls that are supposedly perfect, there's really no perfect girl to be honest; people like different things in girls, so one man's meat would be another's poison.
Of course some guys get intimidated by beautiful girls, if that's the case then he was just awed by her beauty and when he gets over it (yeah it'll take a while but it happens) I doubt he'll still be interested in approaching her.

Most girls make the mistake of assuming that guy#1 would like the things that guy#2 did, this isn't the case, guys are different individuals and although the movies say otherwise, you can't assume you're dealing with "a guy" anytime you're in a relationship, you'll end up messing up over and over. Just take some time to study the person you find interesting, before you even approach them - you should know what he or she likes and dislikes, if you really like this person then try to compromise somethings about yourself that this person might not like ... you never know, it may even be a quality that you might be better off without. All that talk about changing for no one is nonsense IMO, people should be willing to make sacrifices if they really want to make it work.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

lolz~ dunno, just had this person (guy) say that i was a little too 'over perfect', most of my friends thought it was an insult^^;; but, yea, intimidation was more of a correct word to use rather than perfect~ since no one's perfect afterall, that was my bad in word choice>< haha~ i mean, i dont think i'm model material or watever, but guys always seem almost, scared to approach me^^;;; i think its my attitude or watever~

[akin_t]

lolz~ dunno, just had this person (guy) say that i was a little too 'over perfect', most of my friends thought it was an insult^^;; but, yea, intimidation was more of a correct word to use rather than perfect~ since no one's perfect afterall, that was my bad in word choice>< haha~ i mean, i dont think i'm model material or watever, but guys always seem almost, scared to approach me^^;;; i think its my attitude or watever~

I understand; maybe they're intimidated by you, maybe not. What I do know is that you should get more than one opinion before worrying about something as trivial as that. Some people just talk without making much sense, you shouldn't take him seriously that's just one mans opinion.

You should make some guy friends; if no one approaches you then try to approach them, guys get shy too you know. In any case, try to compromise things if need be, there's nothing wrong with changing for someone, all that talk about staying true to yourself can harm people in the long run.

[MaskedDrifter]

Iknow that I am scared to approaach girls and that is what gets me everytime.....

[Mizu no Kokoro]

I understand; maybe they're intimidated by you, maybe not. What I do know is that you should get more than one opinion before worrying about something as trivial as that. Some people just talk without making much sense, you shouldn't take him seriously that's just one mans opinion.
You should make some guy friends; if no one approaches you then try to approach them, guys get shy too you know. In any case, try to compromise things if need be, there's nothing wrong with changing for someone, all that talk about staying true to yourself can harm people in the long run.

thanks!! i guess i can try that^^

[MaskedDrifter]

I need to approach girls more myself. I get a little scared whenever I see a new one and I don't even try to approach for a while.....

[Umi]

Awww, come on! It's not like we bite....often.....>.>......<.<.....^^;

[MaskedDrifter]

The girls around where I do bite. And often!

[Umi]

lol Oh ^.^ Never knew my very own US could be so dangerous!

[MooseVW]

Yeah... the first time I asked a girl out was hard, but it ended well. If you really like her, then it should be easy. Wait, did I just contradict myself?

[MaskedDrifter]

UH......Yeah.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

hahaha~~ US guys are so funny^^ lolers~ jkjk~ continue~~

[MooseVW]

I am not a loler! But yeah. It's hard at first. Now no contradiction. I think.

[Umi]

It's hard, but once things are said and done, and turn out o.k., you forget how hard it was.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

lol~ haha, i didnt mean u were a loler~ haha~ lolz, loler~ dunno, my friends use it often^^;; srry if i offended u ;_;

[MooseVW]

No offense taken. Just making fun of your spelling, I knew you meant loser. Sorry.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

haha~ srry about that^^ it wasnt meant to be a spelling mistake^^;;;

[MooseVW]

It's okay... anyway, back to the actual topic...

[Mizu no Kokoro]

well~ being a girl i find it interesting to hear guys talk here^^ enlightening in many ways~ yesyes, do continue then~~

[InuRukia]

Ok here is my new problem. My best friend and i like the same girl. I really like this girl but i dont want to lose the friendship with my friend. Ok 1st. How should i go about getting her because in the past people have said when i like them i tend to smother them. How can i still be around here and near her when the oppertunity arrises but not seem like i am smothering. 2nd. How can i keep the realtionship with my friend.

[HallowDude]

tough one... i used to b like that, the both of u should lose intrest in her before its a death combat

[moat]

i'd say you're s.o.l. like floating down a river in a boat with no oars.

or to put it bluntly.....you're fuct.

[InuRukia]

Im not gonna lose interest in this one, she is not like any other girl i have ever met. So get that idea out of your head/

[Darren337]

well who started chasing her first? does your friend feel as strongly as you about this girl? find out. you two need to talk about whether or not you want some girl (no matter how great she seems) to cause the end of your friendship.

[Ballistics]

guys fall into a few main categories (aside from the ones that i call REAL failures... stalkers, predators, those that are in jail for harassment related crimes, etc...)
1. the nice guy - usually the guy who is a great candidate as a solid steady guy... he cares and is considerate, but flys under the radar when it matters.
2. the cold guy - not to say that this kind of guy is mean, but his outward appearance and actions may leave girls thinking that he has little to no interest when in some cases its the exact opposite... he's trying really hard not to seem like he's coming on too strong and thus ends up shooting himself in the foot.
3. the goof - yeah he's the one who girls think is kinda cute and acts funny but is just too weird or out there to date. he tries to be the fun guy for the girls, but it almost seems like he tries to hard.
4. the servant - this one is what some girls would love... by choice he voluntarily throws himself to his girl's disposal. if she wants food, he either takes her out or cooks. she's cold? he'll give up his jacket, find a blanket, wrap her in a blanket. (you get the idea.)
5. cool guy - regardless of what happens or what goes wrong, this guy generally holds his cool and keeps a straight face about it. he's almost like the cold guy but he doesnt come across as stand-offish, his feelings still show through a bit.
6. the knight (with or without shining armor, as per current fashion) - this one is a rare kind, and honestly i think this has more to do with a correct blend from all of the other categories. of course, the rarity makes this the most sought.

so Darren, you've known me for a while now so what class do you think i belong to? i wonder...anyways...yeah i didn't make much sence? i guess its my way of writting or something...haha, gotta get used to my style...its not very common...so...that question again? "InuRukia" i already give ya my awesers back on page 169 in this thread...sorry if its not good advice but thats what i think...hmm but darren does have a strong point about who liked her first and figure out if shes worth it...but most of the time when your in love...lots of people don't care for costs...anyways...from the people that know me what kinda person do you think I am? heres what i think...



Well there you have it amigos, Blue days~Black Nights~ Blue tears keep falling for you dear~but now your gone~ Ballistics out...[B]

[Darren337]

you fall mainly into the cold guy category, B. not to say that youre cold and heartless, but you generally keep it all in... except when you talked to me but thas a whole different story.

[saycheese]

change the word knight to hyprocrite.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

lol~ dont be so cynical saycheese^^

[Tyenkrovy]

Of the categories listed above by Darren337, I'd say I have qualities of both the Nice Guy and Servant categories. And that, unfortuantely, has led to my downfall when it comes to women. There's only been one girl that went out with me for more than one date, and she was… well, let's just say she was a few weights short of a shipwreck, and it didn't end well.

[Darren337]

saycheese: neg that ruins the point of the "knight in shining armor" cliche

kokoro: did you look at his sig?

mantis: yeah thats what happens when you blend those two. *sigh*

[Mizu no Kokoro]

saycheese: neg that ruins the point of the "knight in shining armor" cliche

kokoro: did you look at his sig?

mantis: yeah thats what happens when you blend those two. *sigh*

heh eh~ that figures~ i must of missed that^^;; well~

[strydr]

when do u know u loved someone?? cause i think i love my g'friend, but i dont know where the boundary lies

[strydr]

like not understanding what it means to be "BEJESUSED" but you are, u just dont know... kinda like that feeling

[akin_t]

when do u know u loved someone?? cause i think i love my g'friend, but i dont know where the boundary lies

Well it differs for everyone, the line between love and just caring for someone is very thin and most people mix them up alot. Infatuation, which is a kind of attraction, also comes across as love sometimes but it's very far from it. You might see someone somewhere and all of a sudden feel in love with them, this person might not even be physically attractive at all and because of that you may be decieved that you love the person for who they are, and that isn't the case at all. There's just a trait the person has that interests you and that is all. I mean, people get attracted by different things not only appearance, some of them are bad behaviors like arrogance, or being rude.

The answer to the question you're asking differs for everyone, and it's a hard question to be honest you can never be too sure if you love someone, even if you're in a relationship with them; I mean, haven't you all of a sudden just lost interest in someone altogether before? If that happens then you were most likely just infatuated by them.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

well~ that pretty much explains all of my past crushes^^ simply attracion and infatuation~ sigh><

[frbbls]

awww, i actually got a tear stuck in my eye reading this.

[strydr]

ok, let me say this. Well this person we can call Ra just for convenients sake. Well lets see... i wouldnt mind spending my whole day with this person, i would pay a taxi to take me to her house so that i may help her, i care much for this person, i want the best for her - when it comes to her own achievements, i will gladly say that she is my girl friend - even though most people dont like her - but shes with me, i dunno... yesterday i walked down my hill to the shop she might go to after school - and the chance of seeing her was slim to none. but i wanna tell this person that i love her... akin_t maybe give me your definition of love, with questions so that i can see if my understanding of love is similar . . . cause i told my last g'friend that i loved her and then got dumped... so love is ...

[Daedalus]

ok, let me say this. Well this person we can call Ra just for convenients sake. Well lets see... i wouldnt mind spending my whole day with this person, i would pay a taxi to take me to her house so that i may help her, i care much for this person, i want the best for her - when it comes to her own achievements, i will gladly say that she is my girl friend - even though most people dont like her - but shes with me, i dunno... yesterday i walked down my hill to the shop she might go to after school - and the chance of seeing her was slim to none. but i wanna tell this person that i love her... akin_t maybe give me your definition of love, with questions so that i can see if my understanding of love is similar . . . cause i told my last g'friend that i loved her and then got dumped... so love is ...


Lol Well I aint no like PRO at this but I know alot, not from experience but common sense.

Well, I didnt read it all completely cause you worded it funny but if shes your girlfriend and everything, It all actually depends on how long you've been with her. If you have been with her for like 3 months, it would kinda be a shock cause shes only been with you for a lil while, If its longer, perhaps 1-2 years maybe more, then saying "I love you" or telling her your true feelings would be more appropriate for that time. Tell her everything about how youd do anything for her and what not and that will work out well for you.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

i agree with Daedalus~ it reli depends on the timing~ u noe, as a girl i would love it for my bf to say 'i love u' ~ but it reli varies with the person u r with and how 'close' you two are~

as for the definition of love.... i have problems believing in love at all these days~ so i'm no help^^;;

[Darren337]

i agree with Daedalus~ it reli depends on the timing~ u noe, as a girl i would love it for my bf to say 'i love u' ~ but it reli varies with the person u r with and how 'close' you two are~

as for the definition of love.... i have problems believing in love at all these days~ so i'm no help^^;;

i found somethingt that kinda worked. dont go outright at tell the person you love them. ask them what love means to them, and how THEY define loving someone (or being in love with someone). with that you imply your feelings and make it somewhat obvious that you want to test the waters. of course the truly dense will miss that hint... O_o

[Mizu no Kokoro]

hm... now thats a idea~ it will probably work pretty well too~ lol~ i shall wait for the day someone dares to ask me that question~

[saycheese]

i could honestly get the phrase recorded. and carry a small pocket sized player with me to play it each time i press the button.

[strydr]

i agree with Daedalus~ it reli depends on the timing~ u noe, as a girl i would love it for my bf to say 'i love u' ~ but it reli varies with the person u r with and how 'close' you two are~

i hope by closeness you talking physically - cause the closest we ever got was a hug - we going out for 2 months now TODAY! Yeah!
But the whole thing about me is that i am really slow when it comes to building courage to go further into the physical part of the relationship... am i slow??

but we tell each other everything... oh just to say, i met her 1 and a half years ago and tried to get into a relationship with her - ya, so i know her from head to toe if i might say - she only said yes two months ago, but i was still speaking to her and giving her gifts and stuff... and we both knew that we liked each other a year ago (complicated story - wanna know??), so to me it seems that we've been going out for so long, but in actual fact we've liked each other for over a year

[Mizu no Kokoro]

strydr, what i mean by closeness i usually mean spiritually^^;; i'm a pathetic romantic when it comes to that, i dont believe in physical closeness *coughcough* if u get wat i mean^_~ if u tell each other everything, i think thats a great sign, and u both like each other for a while rite? i think things are looking optimal~ a word of caution, NEVER smother a girl, dont be too obsessive~ i noe this friend who was with his gf for 2 years, he said he was in LOVE, but then she broke up with him later because he was too posessive about her~

[strydr]

strydr, what i mean by closeness i usually mean spiritually^^;; i'm a pathetic romantic when it comes to that, i dont believe in physical closeness *coughcough* if u get wat i mean^_~ if u tell each other everything, i think thats a great sign, and u both like each other for a while rite? i think things are looking optimal~ a word of caution, NEVER smother a girl, dont be too obsessive~ i noe this friend who was with his gf for 2 years, he said he was in LOVE, but then she broke up with him later because he was too posessive about her~

wow... i think we spiritually close, but i think that illness of possession too... i hate it though. why must i be like that - but must actually say that with my last g'friend i was worst... damn, i forgot to be polite earlier... sorry, i just escaped my house to see her and i forgot to walk her to her friends place... anyway, thanx a lot.
still i dont understand the whole love thing, if we close spiritually what does that mean?

[Mizu no Kokoro]

and we both knew that we liked each other a year ago (complicated story - wanna know??)

forgot that part! and yes, i'd like to hear the story^^

being spiritually close? haha, i'd say this kind of love is way more important than physical love~ you care about her because of who she is, how you feel when u talk to her, when ur around her etc. having a much more profound understanding of each other should bode for a longer lasting relationship~ the illness of over potecting ur gf may cuz her to be annoyed or frustrated~ u need space from her as much as she needs it from u~ afterall, u dont (pardon the usage) 'own' her, rite? i say if u two share a spiritual higher affection type of bond, things will turn out fine so u shouldnt worry~ if it doesnt, well, then it wasnt meant to be in the first place~

[MaskedDrifter]

I need to write all that down.....

[Mizu no Kokoro]

I need to write all that down.....

haha~ u mean the stuff i typed or wat? got problems? maybe i can help^^

[Icestorm]

really i couldnt agree more with you mizu ive encountered that same thing with a friend of mine who smothered his Gf within the first couple of months and the girl basically backed into a "corner" and started to get claustrophobic or however u spell it. Its a feeling that you get where silences arn't awkward but comfortable around that person you like, its like you dont need to say anything, i know you we dont need to struggle to grab conversation just enjoy the time with them. A connectionm in a sense.

But then to explain it in words alone is to demean the feeling, its something that when you feel it, you know what it is.

[strydr]

forgot that part! and yes, i'd like to hear the story^^


July and August of 2004 i went to tour malaysia, it was great.
She was on the tour with her grandparents, and as soon as i saw i liked her, just the way she was - and i cant deny that i really think she is beautiful. So i mean on the tour i got really close to her (spiritually) i got to know who this person was, and she did some weird attracting stuff - like give me a foot message and stuff like that.
So, after getting so close to this person - we get home and i find out who she really is, she was a "player" before and was really into drugs - i thought that so dumb, cause she had so much potential to become a flower, so i gave her a piece of my mind - she says, " you are the first person i ever listened to " to me.
Then i found out that we both left for malaysia with somebody else on our mind. The difference with us was that she didnt want to hurt the guy she liked before... which made no sense - maybe he was a good friend, i dunno. After a while we confessed to each other our love, but i thought that meant we would be going out, but the strangest thing is she didnt want to commit, didnt want to make me her b'friend. so for a whole 8 months we were closer to each other... but werent going out.
Then there was a point in time - 21st of september - we went on a date... so that night i called her to ask what we are... as a couple. she said that she didnt want a boyfriend, then i got pissed cause i thought she was sending signals to me, but i mean i cant read signals right. i decided that it wasnt meant to be... so thats how it was and each day i liked her less until one day i forgot about her completely, i felt so happy... i was finally over her.
A month later i called her, cause it was her bday - so i was invited to her party... how she was, her spirit, her essence is what i loved that night... and found out that i really liked who she was... that was attractive to me.

So i asked her out on 28th of November... she said yes eventually.
I think i might have missed something out, so tell me what u dont understand.

[Icestorm]

Well i guess in the end its all about what u feel towards her.. maybe think about it when you are around her.. ask yourself what is this feeling? is it love? or is it a attraction? I think you are the best person to answer that question

[strydr]

Well i guess in the end its all about what u feel towards her.. maybe think about it when you are around her.. ask yourself what is this feeling? is it love? or is it a attraction? I think you are the best person to answer that question

ok, i gotta tell u first that i want to what love means to the ClubBleachers.
We havent done anything, i just like being around her... i think its her spirit, her essence. i really enjoy being with her so much, ill do anything for her in this point in time.

[thief.13]

We havent done anything, i just like being around her... i think its her spirit, her essence. i really enjoy being with her so much, ill do anything for her in this point in time.

that's a very nice thing to say! it means it's more than your ordinary liking because it goes beyond the physical. but is it love? well, i don't exactly know what love feels like either.but i have this ideal that love is not just a feeling, it should also be a resolve. that even when she's not in her nicest mood, you still want to be with her and you're still willing to do something for her. it's also a resolve to protect her from anything that might not be good for her whether from a bad decision that both of you might regret.and i also believe that love is best tested through time. like good wine, it tastes even better when it's older.

[saycheese]

man, this is pointless. u can find love in the english dictionary, as u can with life

[Mizu no Kokoro]

ok, i gotta tell u first that i want to what love means to the ClubBleachers.
We havent done anything, i just like being around her... i think its her spirit, her essence. i really enjoy being with her so much, ill do anything for her in this point in time.

aw... the story of u two coming together is one of the most complicated i ever heard^^; but the more u two go through the tighter ur friendship/love will be~ stydr, as long as u dont become too possessive and maybe once in a while take it slow, i think you two will be fine^^ it sounds like u have something quite unique with this girl~ and as a last note, do wat u believe is right in ur heart, anything said by other plp dont mean a single thing because deep down, u already noe the answers to ur own question~ so trust urself to make the right moves, since confidence is one thing girls tend to be attracted to~

lol, i hope that all made sense^-^

[Icestorm]

Yeah i think thats exactly what i was getting at, In the end its all up to you and believe it or not you may already know the answer to the question and if you dont it will come to you with time, not everything happens fast but most likely it will happen and in that split second of an instant you'll know the answer. Give it some time and the rewards will be far better than jumping the gun.

Also i think defining the word love is hard for anyone because, the feeling of love is different for everyone and it may be different for you, i know its hard at this stage and you ask the question "but what is love?" but I think the answer is that in the end you'll know that feeling and in your own way you'll experience it. But for us to try to explain what exactly it is, would be poor showmanship on our behalf because u may experience it differently and not reconise it by the way we explained it.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

i agree completely icestorm~ its simply human intuition~ instinct and etc~ u cant define it, its totally random and varies with the plp~

[Icestorm]

Cool :) Im glad we're on the same "wave length" Contridictions suck lol

[Mizu no Kokoro]

lol~~ yupz^^

[Icestorm]

oh wow.. that was quick..!

[Mizu no Kokoro]

huh? wat was quick??

[Icestorm]

lol your post.. was like 1 minute after mine

[Mizu no Kokoro]

oh, ahhahaha~^^~~

[Icestorm]

But yeah anyway us "advisers" here in this thread will help you with any conflictions in your relationships if your willing to share it like stryd has set a good standard, told us the whole story allows us to give you our opinion, you dont have to agree with it but its always good to get anothers point of view.

[Mizu no Kokoro]

uh huh^^ lolz~ i'm an advisor~ its funny when i advise a person i have a crush on><;;; i always end up doing that~ its kinda sad ;_;

[silverwolf801]

why don't you just let the person do what they want to do in a relationship

[Mizu no Kokoro]

dude... that kinda isnt the point here...