Relationship Thread

[asian]

Yup, this is the relationship thread. post any proplems with a girl/guy you like, or girlfriend/boyfriend and the skilled bleachers here will give you their advice on what you should do. ^_^.

[Chih1ro]

I havent slept with a girl since July :sad: :sad: :sad:
There are very few girls at my university... it's a huge sausage fest here.... I doubt I'll have any real relationships any time soon....im transferring out in a year.....

BUT! Ill get some lovin' when I go to tokyo in a few weeks :biggrinlo
But I want a real relationship... What should I do??? From what Ive been told, I 'm rather intimidating because I always have the "**** off, don't talk to me" aura surrounding me at all times. So not true!

[asian]

well, jsut prove everyone wrong and just talk to some girls and show how nice you are. if you just wait for them to come to you they'll be too scared becuase you give off that "**** off" additude.

[Hinatetsu]

Ah Asian is a love expert! This is so exciting. My life is a soap opera!

There's this guy, Zach, who is my dad's best friends son, and my ex-boyfriend. I went out with him two years ago but the relationship didn't work because his sister stole my cat and I got angry and he thought it was funny. (Quite frankly, I was looking for an excuse to break up with him because we had just gone to vacation together and he has a problem with me just talking to other people, which I tend to do alot.)

So he hated me for a while, but then I discovered I still liked him. Then he asked me out again but I was mad at him so I said no. This process repeated itself for about 4 rounds (all the while, I had to constantly see him because of our fathers and the fact that Zach became best friends with my brother) until recently when he's been chasing after me and spreading rumours about me to his friend (the friend I talked about in the "Are You A Virgin" thread). However, now I fully realise that he is a lazy bum who is worth nothing. His dad is going bankrupt and needs to sell his house and get a one bedroom apartment. Does Zach care? No, he refuses to get a job, makes his dad pay for his van, puts his father down because he can only afford a one bedroom apartment and conned his dad into buying a 4000 dollar cello.

Yes, he is a lazy moron. But he won't leave me alone - and I can't get rid of the jerk, he even keeps bugging me to go to his senior prom with him...Should I just drown him in a lake?

Please tell me your expert advice, oh wise instructor. After this one I have another guy to get advice about.

[Darren337]

chihiro: dont walk around scowling like ichigo.

hina: slap the mofo in front of somebody. scream and yell and make a scene. start just going off like "you laugh when your sister steals my cat, you refuse to help your dad when he needs it, you dont do a thing for yourself, you didnt get the hint after 5 NOs, and now you're still asking????" just go off... but do it in class or somewhere everyone will hear you.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

^ i dont really see how that helps darren. You give cold shoulder. Then do the outburst. Cold shoulder And an outburst in public. It works, cold shoulders break the person down sometimes.

[Pipp-ORK]

Ah Asian is a love expert! This is so exciting. My life is a soap opera!

There's this guy, Zach, who is my dad's best friends son, and my ex-boyfriend. I went out with him two years ago but the relationship didn't work because his sister stole my cat and I got angry and he thought it was funny. (Quite frankly, I was looking for an excuse to break up with him because we had just gone to vacation together and he has a problem with me just talking to other people, which I tend to do alot.)

So he hated me for a while, but then I discovered I still liked him. Then he asked me out again but I was mad at him so I said no. This process repeated itself for about 4 rounds (all the while, I had to constantly see him because of our fathers and the fact that Zach became best friends with my brother) until recently when he's been chasing after me and spreading rumours about me to his friend (the friend I talked about in the "Are You A Virgin" thread). However, now I fully realise that he is a lazy bum who is worth nothing. His dad is going bankrupt and needs to sell his house and get a one bedroom apartment. Does Zach care? No, he refuses to get a job, makes his dad pay for his van, puts his father down because he can only afford a one bedroom apartment and conned his dad into buying a 4000 dollar cello.

Yes, he is a lazy moron. But he won't leave me alone - and I can't get rid of the jerk, he even keeps bugging me to go to his senior prom with him...Should I just drown him in a lake?

Please tell me your expert advice, oh wise instructor. After this one I have another guy to get advice about.
Nooo!! Don't drown him! Smear yourself in pig shit and slit his throat with a rusty letter opener!! O_O That ALWAYS works! :doindadom (I know from experience...He..hehe.. :eek13: )

[Uzichida Cantameru]

... "Smear yourself in pig shit" how would that help in anyway."slit his throat with a rusty letter opener" why must it be rusty? he will die either way."That ALWAYS works! (I know from experience...He..hehe.. )" how many times have you done this 5?
thats more on the side for insane >< lol no offence pipp ^_^;

[Pipp-ORK]

Ok. I was lying. That might not work. ;_; Just tell him to **** off, and get the stick out of his ass. Tell him that you'd sooner date his father rather than him, and when he's a dirty hobo living in a soggy box, you may consider giving him a sandwhich. He just MAY get the message..

[Hinatetsu]

I couldn't do that...I'm the type to let people walk all over me. -.-;; I'd REALLY be a scene if I actually stood up for myself.

(I think that the last time I stood up for myself was when I was in elementary school and this fat girl, who I hated, was bullying me.

I turned around and punched her in the stomach, but she had so much blubber that it didn't even make her blink...strangly enough. Even her mother continued to haunt me, by telling me that since most of my friends were boys, I would be pregnant before I was 16...

I didn't even stand up for myself then.)

Anyway, I do ignore this guy, but since he's my brother's friend he is over at my house ALL the time.

[Koyuk]

pipp-ork, thats kinda scary,.... and very wierd, but im gonna agree with uzi on this 1, cold shoulder can really f- with a persons head, trust me, its happened to me, and it hurts, but then again it depends on how he feels about you, if he is just attracted or, in love. If hes just attracted, it just might dent his ego a bit, but if hes in love it will really mess with him.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

easy, kick ur bro out and change the locks :P

[Koyuk]

Try and leave when he comes over, or just stay in ur room.

[Pipp-ORK]

Tell him that you're sorry, but you're just not interested.

[Hinatetsu]

No, he's in "love" with me. He's told me repeatedly that he wants to marry me. o.O Scary, ne?

Maybe I will just ignore him. ^^ But then I'd feel bad about it, but I'll have to get over that.

[Koyuk]

yeah, then go with could shoulder, it will mess with him, and everytime he tried to talk to you just look in another direction and walk away.

[Hinatetsu]

Alright, then it's decided. I shall ignore him! Ok, what about my next problem...

My other ex, who didn't quite ask me to marry him before he assumed I would say yes and told the flower shop - which sent me congratulations (shocking, isn't it?), is now engaged to the first person he went out with after our own dramatic break up. (Hell no, I wasn't going to marry him.)

His fiancee is a slut. She flirts with other men and sleeps around, uses his credit card to the max and treats him like crap. He's still with her though because he knows that once she's married, she'll stop. (haha, fat chance.) This boy seems to be desperate to get married! And I feel really bad for him because he's actually putting up with all this crap, he even admitted to me that he doesn't even like the girl.

He's been one of my best friends for about 7 years now and I'm concerned about this. The only way HE would break if off with this girl is if I go back out with him... I don't want to, but I don't want him to make the mistake of a lifetime because she'll suck him dry every penny he has. How do you guys think that I should get him to understand that this isn't the right thing to do?

[Darren337]

ok hina: here's what i say. tell the guy in the bad relationship soon to be bad marriage that youre "interested." you can kill two birds with one stone here. you can save him from himself and the slut, and you can get the freak away from you because he will saa you with another guy. dont actually go out with mr. doomed tho, just tell him you're interested, and have him over to hang out when mr. freak is hanging with your brother.


another thing: hina plz stand up for yourself, i ended up being stalked becuz i didnt stand up for myself. my stalker found out the general area i live in and knocked on all the doors at 7 in the morning to find out which house was mine.

[Hinatetsu]

another thing: hina plz stand up for yourself, i ended up being stalked becuz i didnt stand up for myself. my stalker found out the general area i live in and knocked on all the doors at 7 in the morning to find out which house was mine.


Ahhh! That's so freaky, did you call the cops!? I would probabally cry! Was it an internet stalker?


And thanks for your advice. ^^ I think I may try it...but I don't know how it'll turn out. Stupid Chris is agressive and would probabally try to beat up Zach. And Zach would stand there all the while with a dumb look on his face. Hmmmm...

[Darren337]

define zach and chris


also, this was a girl in my class (middle school). i sat right in front of the teacher, and the teacher made us give our phone number to the person next to and behind us. she was behind me. from knowing a friend of mine, she figured out where i lived. she called almost every day, she used to walk by my group of friends with one of her friends every day at lunch and just stare while blabbering to the random friend she dragged along... i wrote about 15 pages in a legal pad about how much it ****ed with me.

[Hinatetsu]

Awww, the young love, with stalking included. How sweet.

Zach is the ex who is my dad's best friend son, my brothers friend. And Chris is the one who is engaged to the tramp.

[Darren337]

ok well chris beating on zach may be for the better. but like i said, DONT go out with chris, just hang out with him more. if zach sees that maybe he'll get the message.

[Pipp-ORK]

He said he wants to marry you? Woah...He's...'infactuated'...O_O Try to tell him that it won't work, and you need more space or something..
And fellow bleachers, I'm not crazy! O_O Those other posts were not to be taken seriously! I was in a hyper mood (chocolate usually does that to me.) and just wrote some random crap. ;_; Sorry!

[Darren337]

pipp: its cool, i like the crazy ppl. even if they were just a joke, it sure made convo interesting. you should see my posts when im lacking sleep

[Hinatetsu]

Aw Pipp, I was kidding.

But yes, well no. He didn't tell me directly. He told everyone BUT me. They both did. Zach told my dad and Chris was talking to my father about our future finiancial life and told the florists (and everyone else). It was freaky.

[Darren337]

Aw Pipp, I was kidding.

But yes, well no. He didn't tell me directly. He told everyone BUT me. They both did. Zach told my dad and Chris was talking to my father about our future finiancial life and told the florists (and everyone else). It was freaky.


screw what i told you earlier, just kill him. better yet pay me i'll kill him for being so stupid. *hehehe*

[Hinatetsu]

I used to beat Chris up in high school, but I think that made him like me more. I told you he was weird. As for Zach, ignoring him would be enough. After all, I won't go out with someone who won't even help his dad in a time of desperate need!

[Darren337]

good for you hina, i hope all goes well in the end. i hope you can save yourself from zach and save chris from himself.

[Hinatetsu]

"save chris from himself"

roflol. I like that. I hope so too, maybe I'll just lock him away in a closet for solitary confinement for 7 years or something until he sees the light.

[asian]

ok hina sorry its taking me a while to reply >.< stupid lens crafters...
first problem, ok just talk to him tell him that he needs to learn that you don't like him lik he likes you. if you don't he'll keep bothering you. and you have to tell him to start supporting his parents becuase things like that get around and he'll be screwed as the jerk who sucks money from his parents. just tell him to stay away from you and if he doesnt ask your guy friends to help you, back you up for emotional support. you have to stand up for yourself because if you don't you will never be truely happy being pushed around. trust me, i was stepped all over until i decided to take my life into my own hands.

problem two, talk to him just tell him that there are soo many other girls that will love him for who he are not his money. if he doesn't comply then just tell him that hes gonna end up finding her in bed with another man after they're married. just talk him out of it. explain what would happen if he stayed withher. he needs to tell her that its over even if it does hurt to not be married. just tell him that he can find a better girl that he'll be a lot happier with.

[Darren337]

asian you have the right idea, and now its all in hina's hands. we'll see what she has to say in the time coming.

[asian]

damn stright i have the right idea! haha kidding. well hina, good luck!

[kinonai]

If I were to describe my love life, even in sentence, it would put you all to sleep. It's really that exciting...

[Darren337]

mine is twisted... sorta. not as bad as sahiden, but thats all in the past now, so im just gonna kick back and be single until something better comes along.

[kinonai]

Good luck with that, then. I've been single for 16 years...

[Darren337]

being single is fine until you have a relationship. you think its doom cuz you're like "ive never had any1 of my own!!!" *sobs* but its actually worse after you ve had someone who you really had feelings for. then its like "NOOOOO I HAD IT! why did i lose it WHY!?!?!" *falls over*

single for almost 6 months now. currently im a lil envious of my friends who have ppl, but its ok, im cool as is.

[Pipp-ORK]

My friend broke up with her boyfriend because he ordered pepperoni pizza instead of pineapple. O_o He really loved her, too...Sad. What a mean *****. He even spent $300 on some necklace he bought her for Christmas. O_O

[Darren337]

My friend broke up with her boyfriend because he ordered pepperoni pizza instead of pineapple. O_o He really loved her, too...Sad. What a mean *****. He even spent $300 on some necklace he bought her for Christmas. O_O


i would kill her. and if i were you i wouldnt be her friend. thats seriously wrong. she's the kind of girl that creates bad guys.

[Pipp-ORK]

I'm NOT her friend. She started spreading rumours about me,too, when I chewed her out for being so insesitive. Rumours such as, " She is SUCH a slut!" and "Yesterday, I TOTALLY saw her checking me out! She MUST be a lesbian!" *****. No one believes her though, 'cause she's a real ***** and everyone knows. ^_^ And I'm NOT a lesbian. Jesus, if she doesn't even know the difference between 'checking you out, sexy.' and 'I'm gonna rip out your ****ing throat and shove it up your ass, *****', then she needs..help. :whatevah:

[Darren337]

I'm NOT her friend. She started spreading rumours about me,too, when I chewed her out for being so insesitive. Rumours such as, " She is SUCH a slut!" and "Yesterday, I TOTALLY saw her checking me out! She MUST be a lesbian!" *****. No one believes her though, 'cause she's a real ***** and everyone knows. ^_^ And I'm NOT a lesbian. Jesus, if she doesn't even know the difference between 'checking you out, sexy.' and 'I'm gonna rip out your ****ing throat and shove it up your ass, *****', then she needs..help. :whatevah:


im glad she's not ur friend, and im sorry she's a slut you have to deal with. also the whole lesbian thing is like *sigh* since i dont really care one way or another.

[Tanpaku]

ehh, it seems like everyone around me is in some relationship and half of those people are having some kinda problem with it

Pipp, that person you know has some issues and just wants attention. maybe you should teach her to be nicer?

[Darren337]

ehh, it seems like everyone around me is in some relationship and half of those people are having some kinda problem with it

Pipp, that person you know has some issues and just wants attention. maybe you should teach her to be nicer?

the problem with trying to teach someone to be nice is that they have to want to change. you cant change someone who wont give in to change. if she absolutely refuses to be anything but a slut, then pipp will only be wasting her time.

[Ballistics]

@_@;; kinda lost...

so we are typing about how pipp's friend needs to change her personality? whoa, that would be a huge undertaking I guess...like Darren said...its hard for people to change form something we see as negtive to something we persive as postive...like take me for example...I'm super lazy...to the point that I'm slothie and might go to hell if I don't get my act going...people have tried to get me to lose the lazyness and few have made me even think twice about it...but thats me and I'm stubbern when people try to beat postive things into me...maybe pipp will have more luck with her friend....

Well there you have it amgios, I don't really know what the problem is but I just kinda used what i could get from the post above mine. Ballistics out...[B]

[Tanpaku]

@_@;; kinda lost...

so we are typing about how pipp's friend needs to change her personality? whoa, that would be a huge undertaking I guess...like Darren said...its hard for people to change form something we see as negtive to something we persive as postive...like take me for example...I'm super lazy...to the point that I'm slothie and might go to hell if I don't get my act going...people have tried to get me to lose the lazyness and few have made me even think twice about it...but thats me and I'm stubbern when people try to beat postive things into me...maybe pipp will have more luck with her friend....

Well there you have it amgios, I don't really know what the problem is but I just kinda used what i could get from the post above mine. Ballistics out...[B]

heh, that reminds me of something. we call on of my friends the motivator cause that's basically what he does. convinces people to try harder, ect. anyway, he tells me, "you're so lazy you have motivated me not to motivate you anymore and THAT is a great accomplishment"

[Ballistics]

lol, I guess he needs more drive...more hunger for something else...lol I like fights and the sorts...from Street Fighter and KOF to Karate Class and just fighting with my brother...it gets me active...that and girls...that too...But its been a while now that Fights are just not as good as before...and the girls all have kids and STD's and god knows what else...*sigh* I'm just waiting for a girl like Orihime to come and bring my restless soul to peace...or a Awesome Fight that I'll never forget...A fight where ether I lose or win...my name will never be forgoten...*sigh* Its just that last girl i loved...you know when its true love...and then everything just goes so wrong...

Well there you have it amgios, I've felt everything I could think of. Ballistics out...[B]

[Hinatetsu]

Everyone here seems to be waiting for Mr/Miss Perfect to come along. lol. It's sad how, when you finally think you found that person and waste all your time with them, they turn out to be a total jerk.

God should have just built LARGE magnents (sp?) in each couple and make it so they would find each other right away instead of having to go through all this crap. ><

And I'll try that advice that everyone gave me too. Thanks alot! ^^

[Ballistics]

hehe, I guess I do kinda sound like that...really weak and low...I hate that...

If we came like that I think I might just get sent flying to the moons pull one night...@_@ much colder in space...hmm but I guess in life A man without a name is like a fire without a flame..@_@ damn that does sound kinda deep...that boxer knew what he was talking about...

Well there you have it amgios, I wish you luck Hinatetsu. Ballistics out...[B]

[asian]

ahh yu guys are lucky if you haven't had a bf/gf yet, i've had three boyfriends and they were jerks. the forst one told everyone in his class that i was gonna sleep wtih him. the second didnt respect me and the thrid was too clingy and now hes a stalkerish person...

[Aboroth]

Hmm ;x really helpfull thread ;d im kinda happy with my gf got only one problem some guys trying to make her brake with me cos as he says hes "in love " with her and as he states i dont deserve her i talked with her she said its cool hes an idiot but hes pissing me off comin at her house when im not there phonin to her sometimes hes phonin to me and starts some crappy talk ;d well whatever ill just wait till he irritates me and probably beat the crap out off him but than again hope she wont have problem with it ; )

[asian]

hm...just have your girlfriend say that shes in a relationship right now and she doesnt want to get out of it...or osmething, and if that doesnt work get a retraning order ^_^ after you break his face in.

[Tsinsanato]

not to mention unbreaking it also
thats loads of fun ^_^

[Rhian]

I had a relationship with this guy that always threaten to kill himself over every petty arguement because he thinks that I'm about to leave him. I left him in the end but he began to stalk me and would stay in the park near my house for days during the 1st week and follow me everywhere even when I'm going to school. And... he threaten to beat up all the male classmates i have if he sees them talking to me. I really don't know what to do about this pest and my classmates are all afraid of me because they know i have a crazy ex watching my every move.

[Darren337]

I had a relationship with this guy that always threaten to kill himself over every petty arguement because he thinks that I'm about to leave him. I left him in the end but he began to stalk me and would stay in the park near my house for days during the 1st week and follow me everywhere even when I'm going to school. And... he threaten to beat up all the male classmates i have if he sees them talking to me. I really don't know what to do about this pest and my classmates are all afraid of me because they know i have a crazy ex watching my every move.


seek help. tell your teachers, the cops, anybody and everybody you can. if i was someone in your class i would still talk to you because i really dont care for the idiots who talk like theyre going to jump everybody.

[Tsinsanato]

if i was one of your classmates, that stalker guy be freakin frighten
no1 at my school tries to mess with me, cause i'm known as the "big scary black man" (i'm not even all that black)

[asian]

go with darrens idea, go talk to a consuler and they can probably have the officer guy help you and such. and if i was your classmate i would beat the crap out of him like.......ehi cant find a metaphor at the moment...but the point is break his nose and he'll stay away.

[Tsinsanato]

go with darrens idea, go talk to a consuler and they can probably have the officer guy help you and such. and if i was your classmate i would beat the crap out of him like.......ehi cant find a metaphor at the moment...but the point is break his nose and he'll stay away.
hehee
"and the moral of the story is, if you break they're nose, then they'll stop"
great children story

[asian]

lol, i should amke a book like that. it should be called "his nose doesn't look right anymore"

[Uzichida Cantameru]

lol the better name is,"anger management and you"

[asian]

lol, i dont think little kids know that anger mangaement is...

[Tsinsanato]

no no no
"How to do look like Michal Jackson 3 easy steps!"

[asian]

lol sounds good to me!

we are soo off topic.

[Uzichida Cantameru]

whats this off-topic? i have been gone for exactly 16 hrs and u magically get 350 posts. Also some how im still beating darren by over 50 since i joined lol.
Thats off topic

[asian]

eh? 350 posts???

[Tsinsanato]

points? what points? i see no points???
(oh wait, that wasn't a question...)

[Darren337]

on topic: asian, the metaphor you were looking for was "beat them the way ichigo dropped on the 3 punks who knocked over the flowers near his neighborhood."

tsinsanato: anger management and you is a good read, pick it up, you might enjoy.

uzi: is there a problem with me catching your post count?

[asian]

ohhh nice one darren

bored DOESN'T ANYONE HAVE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS?!?! *sigh*

[Darren337]

i HAD relationship problems... i guess my only one currently is that its hard for me to hang with my friends... let me explain. almost all of my friends are dating another one of my friends.

Chris x Karin
Joe x Emily
Jon x Alessia
hector x abby

the list of pairs goes on, and im sorta left out since im like the 15th wheel when we all hang out.

[asian]

well don't feel left out cause before you know it you're gonna have a girlfriend and you'll be all happy and such. but, i don't think it would make that big of deal you know? i've been in that situation before and i just realize its better to be with your friends then just think that you don't ahve anyone when in fact you have people that care about you all around you.

[Tanpaku]

hmm, yes that does sound depressing

here's a problem if you guys are bored, what advice do you have for a situation where you and your friend end up liking the same girl? just you know and he doesn't

[Darren337]

asian: this isnt a big deal to me anyway, i was just giving you a reason to stop yelling *hehe*

tanpaku: you gotta let things happen as they may. if she pays your friend no attention as far as relationships go, then make your move, but considering you know about him liking her first, then give him the courtesey of not blocking his attempt. it may end up that you dont get her, but it may be for the better that way.

[Tanpaku]

sounds like good advice to me

anyone else have problems?

[Darren337]

the better question is anyone willing to open their hearts to the CB community?

[Aboroth]

well she told him that i told him to pass on her he only said like "im willing to do big things for her so quit" im just getting pissed more and more everyday everytime i see him ;d its getting paranoid sometimes i go to her place to see that he was there first waiting for her ;d she says to him leave me alone no i wont go down to you im busy hes just ignorin it i see only one option ;x even talked to her about beatin him she asked me not to do it cos he was her friend or something like this but how the hell can i act as a blind ignorant or tolerate the fact that some guy is screwin around with me ;d bah girls are sometimes strange ;d

[Tsinsanato]

i laugh at the thought of me needing anger management....
i might be the hardest person to piss off...

[Darren337]

well she told him that i told him to pass on her he only said like "im willing to do big things for her so quit" im just getting pissed more and more everyday everytime i see him ;d its getting paranoid sometimes i go to her place to see that he was there first waiting for her ;d she says to him leave me alone no i wont go down to you im busy hes just ignorin it i see only one option ;x even talked to her about beatin him she asked me not to do it cos he was her friend or something like this but how the hell can i act as a blind ignorant or tolerate the fact that some guy is screwin around with me ;d bah girls are sometimes strange ;d

girls hate confrontation too, and they hate to be the reason for a fight.... USUALLY. in this case she doesnt want to be a cause for violence. just tell her that she can ask anything of you (as long as you're willing to do what she asks of you) and tell her that you want to be her friend, maybe more if things work out.

[Darren337]

alright this is a problem that JUST arose, and im posting shortly after... my last relationship ended at the beginning of november, my g/f broke up with me. why? i still dont know. apparently its because my personality reminded her of her abusive step dad, but i think there was more behind it. i had nothing but love for her, no matter what she did. ive talked to her maybe 4 times since we broke up, 2 right after, once about 3 months ago, and just now. she called and i got off the phone with her a few minutes ago. i wonder what you here think i should do... should i continue a friendship and let the past be the past, or should i call it quits as a friend because the stress may be too high?

[boozy]

Darren, let the past be the past, if she didn't want to be with you at any stage of your relationship, what makes you think she won't have these thoughts going through her head later on down the track when you're more attacted to her? If anything that would just cause you more stress over it, as for friendship? Why not? Maybe being friends will help you understand her more and vice versa, that way later down the track if both of you start to have more mature feelings towards each other and you're both confident that you guys won't be falling in to this cycle of breaking up and getting back together business. BTW being friends first helps to eliminate some the stress when the infatuation stage is over.

[Darren337]

boozy: thats what i want to do, but she has a really weird effect on me. i cant explain it, but after talking to her or seeing her i always usd to get a headache, like i was coming off a sugar high. i think it was an endorphine high, but no matter what caused it, i always got a headache. after i got off the phone with her, i still got it... almost 6 months down the road, she STILL has an effect on me. i dont know what thats going to do to me if i try to be her friend, ya know?

[boozy]

heh is her name Mary by any chance?
Well it seems you need to get over the infatuation phase, your anxiety is probably the cause of your headaches and its probably because you're anticipating or expecting something everytime you see or talk to her.

[Darren337]

*sigh* when i met her i almost instantly fell for her. and no her name isnt mary. at first i thought i was just trippin cuz i was single for a while, but i wasnt. i really liked her a lot. we got along great too, and it was always wonderful to be with her. she made my day great just by being around me so there was really nothing more i could ask for. as far as the cause of my headaches, they would come even when i was still smiling about the great time i just got to speng hanging with her, so i dont think anxiety is what was causing it. infatuation is probably the root of it, and you're right. i need to get over it, but that may take a while *sigh* her voice just sort of sucks me in. just when i thought i had rid myself of her too.

[boozy]

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
Because you have many more years of this crap to go through and you need to straighten yourself up if you want to make it in this world, I mean damn I know how you feel only because I've been there, so yeah just treat her like you would treat anyone else, that would help you be ok around her because you'll get use to it.

[Darren337]

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
Because you have many more years of this crap to go through and you need to straighten yourself up if you want to make it in this world, I mean damn I know how you feel only because I've been there, so yeah just treat her like you would treat anyone else, that would help you be ok around her because you'll get use to it.


im 19, and i know what you mean. ive other than just now when she called, i havent really had any feelings of wanting her in about 3 months (around the last time she called i guess it hit me that i need to get over it fo real). ever since then ive been pretty much like "oh yeah, her, ok." no big deal. but i do need to spend more time around her to see if that makes it easier... just jade myself to her effect on me.

[boozy]

heh, you're as old as I am and dude, things will work out if you take things one step at a time and yeah TAKE YA TIME, good luck with this aswell man you'll need it.

[Darren337]

heh, you're as old as I am and dude, things will work out if you take things one step at a time and yeah TAKE YA TIME, good luck with this aswell man you'll need it.


i live one day at a time, knowing that whatever happens, things will move forward. if something bad happens, all i need to do is figure out how to overcome the aftermath. this is how i live.

[boozy]

Welcome to the club.

[Aboroth]

girls hate confrontation too, and they hate to be the reason for a fight.... USUALLY. in this case she doesnt want to be a cause for violence. just tell her that she can ask anything of you (as long as you're willing to do what she asks of you) and tell her that you want to be her friend, maybe more if things work out.

Well u misunderstood me or i typed it wrongly ;d its already my girl and this bastard is tryin to get us seperate i talked with her its cool she wont break with me but im getting pissed on him she told him to stop i told him the same ;d but the confrontation thing is right it really sucks i would be glad to inflict some damage to him but than again i dont want an argue with her that what i did is wrong ;d kinda hard to solve ;p

[Crysallis]

heh just got my divorce from my backstabbing ex wife finished the 5th of april w00t yay

[asian]

er....congratulations??? that sucks that your wife stabbed you in the back though >.<

[Tanpaku]

she must've been really bad since you sound so happy to be divorced

like asian said, that sucks

[Ryudell]

Hate backstabbing wives.

[Corgeta]

hmm girlfrined's well some are bad some are good i now how to get with them and stuff but some i dont now what they are meaing alot i do tho since i hung out with girl's mostley whole life alot of them liked me in gradeschool lol and still do my resent ex girlfrined we call her Tallie she is vary VARY WERID.
ok we were going out for like a week or two and then some kid walked up and goe's is that who u are going out with im like yes why ? and he goe's she is a freaking slut started calling her name's and was about to hit her and i jumped in Blocked he's Punch then he tried to hit agian and that is when i took him to the ground and then she walked off i was like ok and then about 3 class's after first she walked up and broke up with me she was afred if me fighting even tho she was about to get Punched

[Ryudell]

i think she's more afraid of u getting hurt for her sake.

[Hinatetsu]

Or there may have been another underlying reason behind it. I don't think that someone would break up with a guy JUST because they defended their honor.

[Ryudell]

true. Most girls would usually find it flattering, though maybe the girl in question has some other reasons to act otherwise.

[Hinatetsu]

Exactly.

For example. I went to my senior prom (last year) with a guy friend who was a grade lower than me. We weren't even dating but when another guy (who I hated, and my friend knew this) tried to get fresh with me, my friend threw the guy to the floor (in the middle of prom). I really appriciated this, even though I'm a black belt and more than capable of defending myself (one more second and that guy would have been crying), I was thankful that my friend had the guts to stand up for me.

She had other reasons for breaking up with you Corgeta, sorry.

And for someone (I forgot who posted the message) who said a girl broke up with him because she was reminded of an abusive step-father. That's also a lie. I used almost the same exact excuse when I broke up with Chris (the engaged ex). Sorry to say, but it's not true, if you didn't do anything abusive toward her then that's all just a bunch of crap. She probabally lost interest because you were TOO nice to her. Some girls prefer to do the chasing, and there was nothing to chase if you gave her everything she wanted.

I know, us girls are weird like that.

[Ryudell]

being handed everything on a silver platter can be boring after a while. If that's the way then you're no longer a bf but a slave, hohohohoho

[Tsinsanato]

being handed everything on a silver platter can be boring after a while. If that's the way then you're no longer a bf but a slave, hohohohoho

ahmen brotherin(inside joke)
that is one of the reasons y i am single, cause i don't give them everything...

[Ryudell]

Erkh...from what I've seen, girls usually like their partners to be a bit mysterious and not too open about themselves. It keeps the interest in a relationship.

[Hinatetsu]

If a girl doesn't want to do anything but take, then they really don't like you anyway.

If a girl really likes you she'll go out of her way to make you happy too. Be glad you are single, that way you aren't wasting your time with selfish b******.

[Tsinsanato]

i am glad, but also pissed, cause of mainly this standardize style of relationships that these humans have...
"if your not taken, then your worthless"
how dishonorable

[Ryudell]

XD It is boring when people measure your worth by where you stand in the social ladder. Frankly I don't mind being at the bottom if it shuts the masses up

[aya724]

Yeah... ppl think ur bullshitting when you way ur a happy single, damn them >_< (this is coming from a gal who is a happy single) I mean, it's always great to be in a relationship when it's worth it... but it's always exciting to be looking for one, adds a spark to ur day~*

other singles on bleachforum, good luck~

[Ryudell]

*takes luck and puts it in a cookie jar* hope it comes in handy someday ^^

[Darren337]

my luck needs to come in the form of actually meeting a girl who has some sense! hehe most of the ones i run into.... yeah... they lack sensibility. they only love shopping and such things as mall cruising and "oh lets go to starbucks!"

[Hinatetsu]

Girls do tend to act rather brainless - as a whole. I'm a girl, I've been through it, and I admit it. I think it's because they all want to fit in so everyone pretends to like same things so they'll be popular and keep their friends.

I personally think it's boring. I tried the "Oh, shopping and coffee! Golly gee, what fun! Let's go boy hunting too!" thing for about 2 years before I couldn't stand it anymore. <.<;;

[Tsinsanato]

hehe, yea...
with me, somehow, i attract the loud mouth, hate the president, lets be martial art wannabe, and lets go goth females...

...thats not me, i don't do,or dispise those things....

i just don't wanna be loud, hateful to others, wannaba, or goth
...or both...

and that whole mall thing, THE SAME STORES GONNA BE THERE!!!! theres not reason to go 1-5 times a week....
and if your searching for a guy/girl, then you either want closer, money, sexins, or to obtain a image
and if your searching for the reason of a meaningful, serious relationship, then more power to ya!

[asian]

i dont get that, the whole, lets be something we're not thing. i've been myself and always will be. i may wear baggy guy clothes and girls give me weird looks but you know what? i don't care cause someday someones gonna like me for how i am, not what i am at the moment.

[Corgeta]

im alway's my self :) i open door's for girl's i talk to them on phone for hour's even if it it noy my girlfrined i help other's with the Problem's im like a big Borther to my firned's that are girl's and more to my girlfrined :) lol i usely wear shirt's with a dragon on it baggy cloth's i HATE TIGHT CLOTH'S ON ME i cant move what so ever i try to move and boom hole in pant's lol im wild to who love's Streeking.

and @asian i love girl's with Baggy cloth's and act them self's :) lol

and u now what is funny when people try to hard to be nice to girl's lol me i just am nice to them like a Gental man but i got a frined jonny he try's so hard it is just funny.

i say just act your self dont try to fit in if people dont like u how u are Screw them find people who do like u how u really are

[Tanpaku]

some pretty good advice coming out of this thread

meh, i tend to be too pessimistic when it comes to advice for myself and maybe a little too optimistic for everyone else. as my friend said, "those girls are unreachables" (girls that you could never get to like you in a million years) just seems it always happen to be the one i'm interested in

i still don't see how some people can talk for hours on the phone. i know some people who do and i find it amazing. i'll only talk to someone if i have something to say or they start talking to me. guess i'm just lazy :whatevah:

[Corgeta]

lol those girl's people say u cant get if u get courage to ask them out and talk to them they usely do like u but alot guy's are to Chicken to ask those girl's out so they only go out with the guy's who are ass's and are hot or so becuase those guy's will ask the girl's out like my ex girl frined let me find a pic of her.

here we go found them and p.s DONT DARE THINK ABOUT MOVEING TO WERE WE LIVE AND TRY TO GO OUT WITH HER AND HURT HER OR KIDNAP HER WHAT SO EVER U WILL HAVE ME KILL U AND THE WHOLE SCHOOL. there we go cuz i now we got those's Perv's online lol.

i didnt think i had a chance with her i asked her out and what do u think she said yes :) im like wow cuz she hang's out with alot of guy's

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v397/Odins/heh.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v397/Odins/57733978_l.jpg

[Tsinsanato]

ummm, corgeta, is that you?
if so, then... umm... i'll let some1 else finish my sentence....

[Corgeta]

me noper's that is my ex girlfrined trying to go back out with her agian lol and the girl next to her is Alisha her ex girlfrined alisha trying to go back out with her to

[Tsinsanato]

thats one wierd love triangle
but hey, whatever floats your, or their boats... eh?

[Corgeta]

she like's both of us and we are fine with 2 girl's and 1 guy

[Darren337]

i still don't see how some people can talk for hours on the phone. i know some people who do and i find it amazing. i'll only talk to someone if i have something to say or they start talking to me. guess i'm just lazy :whatevah:

here's how i did it: my last g/f (who i spoke on already) was never allowed to see me. actually it was a (mom speaking): "you're never allowed out of the house and no1 is to come over EVER!!!"

so instead of actually getting to be with her, i spent as much time on the phone with her as i could since that was the closest i could be to her outside of school. on my cell, in one month, i put almost 3600 night and weekend minutes down. thats 60 hours of talk time. i bet you over 59 of them that month were to her. this is a very extreme case tho, so i may not validate the "hours of phone" thing.



corgeta: what the 3 of you have is veeery interesting. some guys would be envious, and others would be slightly jealous. i wish you the best and have to say that a 3 way love life isnt something ive ever been involved with.

[Corgeta]

lol ya and thx but ya other guy's wont try with her she is to complacated she only like's certin kind's of guy's and she need's to now u for some time before she goe's out with u she is scared of guy;s plus her dad is VARY PROTECTIF this one guy that liked her before went to say hi at her house and he got shoot at with a shotgun lol lucky dad missed or he didnt wantt to hurt kid but he doe's have right to kill people if they go on he's land lol

[Darren337]

lol ya and thx but ya other guy's wont try with her she is to complacated she only like's certin kind's of guy's and she need's to now u for some time before she goe's out with u she is scared of guy;s plus her dad is VARY PROTECTIF this one guy that liked her before went to say hi at her house and he got shoot at with a shotgun lol lucky dad missed or he didnt wantt to hurt kid but he doe's have right to kill people if they go on he's land lol


yeah thats worse than my last situation, my last g/f's mom was only gonna try and tear me limb from limb. and i usually wasnt around to provoke her since i knew she was crazy.

[asian]

>.> parents need to lighten up...

[Tsinsanato]

lucky for me, my parents don't care on who i date
just date responsibly...

[hasuke]

Relationships? I think I've heard of them...
All goofery aside i've had one, years ago, lasted a week, ended cause the girl couldn't handle how shy I was (and also the fact she was being a slut and running around when she was with me). I've been forced into a sheltered life, that, plus i've always been a social reject. Girls find me downright ugly or stupid (because i'm a geek. Oh noes, god forbid i'm not some ripped muscle brained jock, eh?) so I never really bothered talking to them. No clue how to act around em (aside from tomboys, which I prefer since I can't stand girlie girl crap.). But either way, I guess the girl was just too rush rush and couldn't understand I had no idea what to do (this was back when I was 16). So here I am, 2 years later, still alone, sour, and spiteful.

My hopes are finding some nice otaku/geeky girl like me, but alas, living in a town nicknamed "Little Beverly Hills", I know my chances of finding someone with similar interests as me are slim to nill. That, plus I don't drive and lack a car >___O

[Ryudell]

Uo... don't be so disenhearted. There's plenty of nice otaku girls who aren't too girly out there. My mom told me everyone is has a soulmate and they're sure to meet - unless one dies first^^. Cheer up, have a bagel *munch*

[Darren337]

plenty of otaku girls that i cant find either. *sigh* oh well. but dont be bitter, it only makes it worse. you have to find a shy girl and see if the two of you can help eachother out of your shells. or maybe a tomboy who can pull you the hell out of yours *hehehe* in any case good luck.

[asian]

yeah, you'll find some hot otaku chick that will totally love you man ^_^. and dont just sit there waiting for her, look around.

gasp! corgeta! you stole my old avatar! haha

[kinonai]

Heh, Hasuke, I have the exact same problem (only with guys). It seems that they are all freakin' jocks and act like they are the best things god graced the earth with. Ironically enough, I seem to always fall for either the most normal guy in sight, the geek, or the punk. Don't give up hope, I am sure there are plenty of girls out there with 'bad taste' like me ;).

[Chih1ro]

Go to a tech institute. There are lots of nerdy/geeky girls that may be of interest. I personally don't dig that type that much. Oh and corgeta, Id hit ur ex-gf :biggrinlo

[Tsinsanato]

this is what happens when you'r gone for more than a day,....
u don't know whats going on....
which is how i feel right now....
Whats going on???

[kinonai]

Not much, really. I'm sure you could start up with anything you like, and no one would care.

[Tanpaku]

yeah, all the topics go way off until someone comes and brings us back to focus. if you really wanna find out just read the past couple of posts. something about them finding otaku girls

[Darren337]

otaku girls... yum. ANYWAY, yeah the pont of the thread was..... oh! to speak on relationships past and present, hapy or failed.

[Tanpaku]

and to get advice for any kind of relationship issue

[Ryudell]

Then someone help me on a dilemma, please.

Last night a girl friend called me up to ask for advice. She revealed that she has a crush on a former classmate, but can't seem to gather the courage to tell him. The guy is as close to an ice block as a human being can be, and although he is civil *think Ishida* he isn't the kind to entertain girls. So she told me that had knitted someting (and she knits very well) a scarf actually - all 2 meters of it by hand. All ready to give it.

And she can't.

Since urging her to go tell is an obviously stupid choice (she'll faint first), I'm wondering there is another... different method to confessing one's feelings without saying 'I Love You' to a crush?

[Darren337]

wow, thats a hard one... let me think on it as i roam the forum and i'll let you know what ive thought up. (i may have questions).

[Tanpaku]

a guy like a ice block? hmm... does he ever smile or anything? even a little? maybe he's just distant because he's afraid? how well does your friend know him? i dunno. this is a interesting one.

[Ryudell]

Hardly smiles. We were in the same debating team, I know him very well. Stoic too. He's not distant, it's just him being him. He'll respond if you talk to him, but no more than he has too.

[Darren337]

what is his record with ladies? how many girlfriends has he had? does he not talk about girls at all or does he just show little interest?

[Tanpaku]

well for her to like him she must've accepted the way he is. umm, i'll wait till Darren gives his opinion before i say anything else

[Darren337]

YOURE LATE hahahahaha

[Tanpaku]

yeah haha, took too long to post

[Darren337]

if this girl HAS accepted your "ishida" for the way he is, i would almost say go for it.

i would almost parallel the two here as sasuke and hinata, since sasuke is cold and hinata is really shy.

[Ryudell]

what is his record with ladies? how many girlfriends has he had? does he not talk about girls at all or does he just show little interest?

Ummm...for the first and second question: Null. None that I know of, that is. He doesn't talk about girls much, but from what I can gather he doesn't really mind them as long as they're not falling all over him. He is very good-looking, but his frostiness wards people away.

The reason why he never had a gf? I think the ladies can't stand him, hahahaha. But this particular friend of mine likes everything about him, even the way he frowns!

if this girl HAS accepted your "ishida" for the way he is, i would almost say go for it.

i would almost parallel the two here as sasuke and hinata, since sasuke is cold and hinata is really shy.

That was my advice three months ago, my advice when she began that scarf and I ALMOST wanted to say it last night but realized that it's pointless.

[Tanpaku]

well then, everything seems good. would you happen to know if he would want a gf? other than that i say go for it

[Ryudell]

Now that is what I don't know. I don't know if he's open to a relationship (he is 20, a guy at 20 never having a gf is so...strange) and I don't make it my business to ask. My girl friend is something like Hinata, but her inferiority complex is off the scale.

[Darren337]

i say you help our hapless "hinata" with her confidence. if she likes everything about him, then lord frost wont be the problem, it will be her.

[Tanpaku]

i agree with Darren. i wouldn't go so far as to say there's nothing to lose but maybe it's worth the chance? just convince your friend and like Darren said, help her with her confidence

[Ryudell]

Mmm... maybe I should play cupid whether she wants it or not, huh? And sorry to bother you guys, but she called me at the unholy hour of 3 a.m IN TEARS (I'm weak with people crying) but she still sufficiently annoyed me to the point where I couldn't give her an advice.

Though I am a ruthless cupid. Digging a hole and pushing the both in isn't past me. Any ideas?

[Tanpaku]

she was in tears? because of this...?

[Darren337]

if you can really build her confidence, the worst that happens is that she gets turned down. BUT! heres where it gets good.

for whatever reason, a girl who makes a move is suddenly seen by the guys who didnt notice before, and suddenly will take interest in her. it will work to her advantage at any rate.

another sidenote, if she does make a move on the guy, HOLD OFF ON THE SCARF. that should be a later gift that she explains when she is more confident while around him.

[Ryudell]

she was in tears? because of this...?

I told you she's shy. Just the thought of confessing verbally made her so distressed she called the first number on her phone. Which happened to be me.

[kinonai]

Confidence is really the key to everything. People will view you differently depending on your body language. If you body says, "I am weak! Do not notice me! Leave me alone please!!" then people are more likely to talk behind your back, bully you, and reject you. The opposite is true too. I hate to say this, but people are just like wild animals and love to prey on the weak...so be strong and then there is not so much to worry about.

[Darren337]

I told you she's shy. Just the thought of confessing verbally made her so distressed she called the first number on her phone. Which happened to be me.

well whatever compelled her to make that decision, she called the right person :winking56

you came here and asked for backup, and here we are. i say you can play cupid after you've helped her confidence.

[Ryudell]

That will require a three-month-long intesive therapy with a shrink! A shortcut, please?

[Tanpaku]

if you want something like this to work out you can't just rush it

[Darren337]

ok here's your shortcut, you hang out with her, get her drunk and have her talk about "ishida/sasuke."

then you go to this guy and you go "oh man i just had the weirdest night" and if he asks, tell him... and then go "dude, you should ask her out, she's cool"

[Tanpaku]

haha, nice plan. but if he's so cold what makes you think he's interested in what happened?

[Ryudell]

I am not rushing anything, but I admit I am a bit tired of her shyness. Oh yes, I tried that trick Darren, with another girl who also liked him a few years back. Sadly his answer was "If she likes me she'll come talk to me herself."

[Tanpaku]

here's another idea. get her to come to the boards so you have more people to build up her confidence

[Ryudell]

Oh, that might work. I'll talk to her later and see if she wants to. Any others?

[Darren337]

ok thats more insight into his character.

what i would do since im a guy who lives off dark humor is tell your friend, "ya know, i would make this simple by just getting you drunk and taping you babbling about how you like him so much, but i tried that on him once and it didnt work, so trust me, go talk to him and see what happens. say hi, ask him how he is, and then tell him you want to talk."

[Ryudell]

*sweatdrop* Well it isn't any more extreme than my 'dig-a-shattered-shaft' idea. Maybe direct confrontation is the only way huh? But let's do this with flair! ^^

[Tanpaku]

you might as well. create a situtation that forces them together

[Darren337]

how about you chain them together and tell them that they wont be set free until they resolve this issue (yeah its a joke but who knows, right?)

[Ryudell]

that might work, but I might get flayed alive after I release them. In no way am I going to jeoperdize my safety for the sake of a friend's love life.

Ah, perhaps an empty lecture theatre during a deserted afternoon when called by a false lecturer on a non-existant matter will do. They won't be able to pick it, I've picked most of the locks in my first month at uni^^.

[Darren337]

nice... i commend you on your lock knowledge.

*sigh* in the end the best knowledge is that you need to get that girl to just talk to him, bring her around!

[Ryudell]

If her shyness is equivelant to resistive force, she can defy gravity. But I'll try my best, for my sanity's sake. I can't have my sleep disturbed any more than it should.

[Darren337]

lets see if we can make her fly!

[Tanpaku]

you're lucky you don't have me as a friend. i'll bet that strawberry shortcake i'm even more shy than she is

[Ryudell]

Really? Explains why you didn't get that joke. Don't worry about strawberry shortcakes, there's plenty more. I'm baking another as I'm speaking.

[Darren337]

but you're talking to us so i doubt that. THE SHORTCAKE IS MINE!!!!

[Tanpaku]

yeah well... it's not like i'm gonna ask you guys out.... *shudders*

[Ryudell]

Not really, the pc is five steps from the oven, and my little sister is helping. Tanpaku just took the last slice, so you'll hav to wait for this one to finish baking, haha!

[Darren337]

tanpaku: hey, we're not all that bad...



...are we?





*hehehe*

[Tanpaku]

by the way, thanks for the cake. it was great haha

and no, i didn't say you were bad. just i wouldn't ask you guys out

[Darren337]

yeah but you went *shudder* as if it was a bad thing. hehehe. its all good tho, no hate!

[Ryudell]

If we were living across the street from each other I would probably make you meet my Hinata friend...just to see how two shy people interact

[Darren337]

hahahaha, i would love to see that. im not a very shy person, but when im at school i tend to act more like your friend sasuke. its not that im cold, but i dont look for interaction, so none usually happens

[Tanpaku]

heh it would probably be very uninteresting with two nevous people with nothing to say. unless i really know you then i'll be shy but sometimes even then i still won't know what to say

by the way Darren, i found the name of the cat you were talking about in some other post. kuroneko. just means black cat, very creative

[Ryudell]

It would be interesting from a psychologist's point of view though. Maybe I'll mention this scenario to a shrink friend of mine.

[Darren337]

it would be interesting to me because i watch body language as well as listen to what's said. and thnx... kuroneko, hahahaha. dorks!

[Seriph]

On the topic of the girlfriend. Unfortunately she my find this is a big case of the rose colored glasses. I have seen and played cuipid in this situation, and her odds are not the best. However due to human emo-chem she will likely need to get it out of her system or face the hauntings of her own emotions for quite sometime. So keep that in mind as you advise her into this....

BTW, Hi My name Seriph, RL frined of Darren's

[Ryudell]

Hullo^^. Have a cookie, seriph. And thanks for the advice, I'll keep that in mind^^

[Seriph]

*chewing sounds* *mumbled speech with crumbs flying: Nice to meetcha!*

[Darren337]

its really fun to infect someone. bleach poisoning.

[Ryudell]

*sweatdropps* here's a napkin to go with it as well.

[Tanpaku]

heh, welcome Seriph. i'm guessing Ryudell's cake isn't finished yet?

anyway, now Ryudell's situation sounds like she should just get her friend to do it since she'll have to overcome her shyness at some point or another. unless she plans to be alone.

[Ryudell]

No my cake has been swallowed by the black hole. I just gave her the customary welcome cookie^^

[Porkchop Express]

One cookie per person Rydell! I'm still worried that these metaphysical cookies are gunna start another war... You weren’t here for the pocky war... you don’t know the pain of the pocky war!!! Your playing a dangerous game...

[Tanpaku]

all this talk of pocky on this board is making me want to go out and buy some

[Seriph]

I'm a 'he' or 'him' or a 'hey you'. Unless of course I have some profile trait set wrong somewhere, which is entirely possible. hehe

[Ryudell]

One cookie per person Rydell! I'm still worried that these metaphysical cookies are gunna start another war... You weren’t here for the pocky war... you don’t know the pain of the pocky war!!! Your playing a dangerous game...

Uwo? I think I did make sure one person only gets one cookie...but maybe it slipped. I wont ask about the pocky war since it seems to be a painful topic, so i'll just leave it. I'll be careful next time^^

[Darren337]

the pocky war... muhuhahaha!





....moving on.


so anyone else have a problem they care to voice and get feedback on?

[Seriph]

I have a problem, I'm crafting in EQ2, and I keep running out of belladona root, any suggestions? =D

[Porkchop Express]

Uwo? I think I did make sure one person only gets one cookie...but maybe it slipped. I wont ask about the pocky war since it seems to be a painful topic, so i'll just leave it. I'll be careful next time^^

That maybe the case but I see cookies and cakes flying around everywhere... this is always how it starts... very small... then all of a sudden your cookies stash is being infiltrated by wave after wave of bleach club members. Hellbent on using the cookies to overthrow the world as well as every single thread in the forum... The humanity!!! The horrors of war.. I don’t think I'm ready to talk about it yet.

[Darren337]

yeah, get a girlfriend, you dork *hahahaha*

or should i say, go hang with her instead of playing EQ2 (that soul stealing evil thing)

[Seriph]

She plays with me, she'll go harvest stuff for me sometimes..she likes harvesting. =)

[Darren337]

that i know, you're both sucked in. now THAT is a relationship problem *hahaha*

[Seriph]

It's like a forum, with a more interactive GUI. Now thatd be kinda cool. Take an online 3d game, take out the game elements and enhance the chat type elements, make it free.....

[Tanpaku]

like a rping kinda forum? i think i saw one of those before but it didn't interest me at the time.

ahh, a pocky war.... stabbed in the tounge by pocky. broken sticks lying everywhere

i got some problems but i'll share them later, i should be going. for now i'll leave you guys with this, why does everything always seem to go wrong?

[Ryudell]

Everything does go wrong?

[Porkchop Express]

Maybe... Sometimes I think I’m going to pass out from all my philosophical thinking.

[Ryudell]

Keep it up.

[Darren337]

yeah the philosphical thinking can kill. anyway the pocky war wasnt that kind of war, it was a war for the pocky. i won. (hehehe) and everything goes wrong because of murphy.

murphy's law, anything that can go wrong, most likely WILL go wrong.

[Seriph]

Yeah, eventually you do pass out..but you wake up deeply moved. Usually to the floor.

[Ryudell]

I thought murphy's law 9among some states that:
Toast alwasy land on the buttered side
Food that is soft will go hard when stale and food that is hard will go soft when stale

[Darren337]

Weee:

http://www.cpuidle.de/murphy.shtml


EDIT: NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES LEAVE YOUR LOGIN COOKIED ON A FRIEND'S COMPUTER.

this post was supposed to be from seriph, but i left my login cookied on his computer when i huhng out at his house a couple days ago.

[Ryudell]

*laughs* This is great! Thanks, Darren ^^

[Seriph]

Word. *nod*

[Porkchop Express]

Dam! I'd just written the history of murphy law, its well know to all aerospace engineers.

[Seriph]

Nah google it. Google everything. Google your brother, google your dog.

[Ryudell]

really? I thought it was just a law to explain the consistency of things going wrong^^

[Darren337]

thats basically what it is, but of course it explains why toast lands butter side down and so forth,

[asian]

i thought it was because there was a little more mass on the butter side...or because it falls out of your hand and doesnt have time to spin and land butter side up...

[Porkchop Express]

Resent studies have shown that buttered toast, if dropped has roughly a 20% survival rate. If the toast has a layer of jam or marmalade the survival rate droppers rapidly to near 5%.

Some say this is due to the buttered side being heavier, I say its a modern phenomenon... simply because trying to understand the science rubbish of it at 3:40 in the morning is just to much... take a look.

http://www.thiel.edu/academics/physics/projects/toast/models/toastmod1.htm

[Darren337]

hmm. well i dont eat toast enough to care. anyway, back on topic...

my ex (the one with the crazy mom) has been calling to talk lately.

its really weird talking to her, since i found out the guy that she went out with the day after breaking up with me is sorta stalking her.

[Ryudell]

Oh? That can't be good

[Darren337]

what her calling me or her current guy being weird?

[Ryudell]

Having a stalker after her can't be good. And no, it's not wierd to find her calling you since it's quite normal to turn to someone whom you've trusted in the past.

[Darren337]

*thinks* yeah i guess. it was weird to break up with her. she made my life wonderful, and yet she felt it necessary to end the relationship. at any rate, she still trusts me, which means a chance at friendship still exists.

[Ryudell]

It's saddening that when a couple decides to go their seperate ways, they think even friendship is out of the question. Why?

[Darren337]

i didnt THINK friendship was out of the question, but being around her is still a lil hard for me, so its like "how can i just be a friend when we had so much more...?" but at any rate, i will try to be a friend to her, she needs one right now. she probably remembers the fact that i promised her i would still always be there for her if she needed me.

[Ryudell]

Now THAT is a gentleman^^. Keeping your word no matter what. Just out of curiosity, why did she decide to break up with you? No need to answer if you don't want to, I'm just perplexed.

[Darren337]

yeah she broke up with me. im really not sure why, but my best guess was the fact that we never really got to hang out as much as we wanted. we both tried really hard to, but her mom made it so hard.

[Ryudell]

Hmm... I did remember you once said something about raking up 60 hours on the phone. Well that's pretty normal when you're going out.

Here's something I found in a book, can't remember where.

"It's not important to see your love every day. What's important is that somewhere in your busy lives, you remember each other."

[Darren337]

heh, i wish it was so simple, but sometimes you need that warm embrace, ya know?

[Ryudell]

Of course. You men and your life-sized pillows *sigh* Which brings me to another question. It's a survey of what type of girls do guys like. Don't give me that supermodel answer, please. To be clear, what kind of girl would you like to hug?

[Darren337]

oh god i wish i had a picture of my last girlfriend. she is so cute IMO (still) anyway


i like girls with long hair, any race, and generally near my height (that usually means shorter since i cant find any taller than me, im 5'11".) there has to be something with the eyes, and i like nice legs. for whatever reason, its what i like. *sigh* unlike most guys, i dont like the orihime type, i always think they're going to fall over, being so top heavy.

[Ryudell]

Ek*blinks* that's new. I haven't heard that one before. SO you'll go under the 'non-typical' category then. Thanks^^

[Darren337]

yeah most of the time i like what's atypical, but get this... my last girl used to be a cheerleader. before her i was determined "oh i'll never go out with a cheerleader, theyre always so stuck up and worry only about being pretty *sees HER* and i think i was just proven wrong."

[Ryudell]

Now that is typical thinking, hahaha! Casting one's personality based on what he/she is a trait humans can't seem to avoid. But that should be a reminder to you, not to blindly judge people before getting to know them^^

[Darren337]

yeah SHE was a great lesson in that. not becuse she was exactly the kind of girl i like, but because she just happened to be a cheerleader. i ended up being friends with a bunch of cheerleaders, tho i cant say that most of em were very bright *sigh* and thats without pre-judging them, hehehe.

[Ryudell]

Heh. You can't win 'em all.

[Darren337]

well i wasnt trying to win any, but i ended up winning one, and she was more than i could ever ask for.

[Tanpaku]

guess i got on too late. i missed your whole discussion heh

by the way, that site is great. thanks :D

[Darren337]

what site is great...?

[Ryudell]

I dunno tanpaku, maybe I missed some holes. Why don't you go over them and see if I missed anything? Raspberry muffins if you do^^

[Tanpaku]

that site with Murphy's laws.

nope, you covered everything. haha Ryudell, you always have some kinda food on you

[Ryudell]

That neighbor of mine is baking again. I honestly think she's trying to fatten me up. Yum.

[Darren337]

that site with Murphy's laws.

nope, you covered everything. haha Ryudell, you always have some kinda food on you

give link props to my friend seriph, who had my login cookied on his computer... he accidentally posted as me *hehehe*

[Tanpaku]

ahh well thank you to seriph then.
mm.. these laws are all true. they seem a bit pessemistic though... ahh well, fits me perfectly :LOL:

[Darren337]

laws are pessimistic, ppl arent!

[Porkchop Express]

Lots of people are pessimistic! I always approach a challenge with an I'm going to fail kind of attitude. That way it’s nice when you surprise yourself.

[kinonai]

I approach things with a, "It doesn't matter because we are all going to die anyway, so I might as well do it," attitude.

[Darren337]

when i do that i worry people, they think im becoming a demon... or for here, i should say a hollow, but it matters not. i only "care" in ths moment, i live day to day and care for that day only in that day.

[kinonai]

My main goal is to just enjoy every minute of my life that I can until it runs out.

(By the way, you didn't really sound like yourself there Darren...at all. Did your friend mess up with the cookie thing again?)

[Tanpaku]

hmm... if you think you're always going to fail then you fail to see a point in trying after awhile. and just accept your loss before anything begins.

as for the "we're all going to die" attidude. yeah, but not for awhile unless you get in some kind of accident. you end up living with the failure in your memory unless ofcourse you forget. i dunno, i just tend to get stuck on the past most of the time and not move on. heh, i'm gonna turn into a hollow

[Ballistics]

Damn I haven't posted here in a while...Well from what I can get outta this page is...

Kinonai feels that whatever we're afraid to face or reluctent to do shouldn't really hold us back because in another 1000 years from now nobody will give a damn what most of us did or didn't do...no biggie right?

Darren cares for the moment guys. So if you haven't picked up some of darren's care its available (Limited Time Offer) So you don't care about the days past eh? So what happened yesterday and the day after doesn't mean much huh? hmmm do you care about the days coming? The Past makes the Furture and the Present is only the link between them. All that make the Chain of our lifes and of our deaths. If you keep wanting to pull off old links in your chain, then how much do you have to hold on to?

Tanpaku enjoys to try...Getting on our high horse before everything will also make us lose sight of our selfs. Going Balls out for everything isn't really that great of a tactic. Hiding and avoiding isn't going to fix anything, thats for sure. But taking your time, thinking and understanding with some guts and originality will help you get by. Thinking about yesterday will help but getting to the point where you dwell on it means you don't understand. To understand means to know. Knowing comes with time and time is tomarrow.

Yeah most of that could make you think...but I don't know...maybe I'm forgetting something...I'm not any of you so think what you like. If I typed anything that was maybe a little outta line then I'm sorry but I just typed as if I was talking to MYSELF about that stuff.

Well there you have it amigos, These are my thoughts and it may or may not reflect on any one elses. Ballistics out...[B]

[Tanpaku]

Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past.

i dunno, just seemed to fit sorta after Ballistics post

[Darren337]

here's an example of my take on life:
i go to car shows to see incredible cars. do i EVER take a camera? no. why? because i came to see the cars, not take pictures. and if anyone wants to see the cars, they can go to the show.


and while i live for today, i do care of past and future. my past is a record of all that has happened, good an bad. i use this to make decisions about events in the future that reach me in the present. i only plan for the future when planning is necessary.

i never PLAN a hang out day since i shouldnt have to say "i can make you a hang out appointment for friday at 6pm if you'd like."

^how retarded is that anyway???

at any rate, i live to live, and i will die with the intention of bringing my life full circle... i dont plan to die any sooner.

[asian]

er...i just live the day as it comes...i don't have some words of wisdom on that.

[kinonai]

Damn I haven't posted here in a while...Well from what I can get outta this page is...

Kinonai feels that whatever we're afraid to face or reluctent to do shouldn't really hold us back because in another 1000 years from now nobody will give a damn what most of us did or didn't do...no biggie right?

Yes. That is what I was saying ;).

(Sorta ;)). :doindadom

[asian]

lol, well at least ballistics got the point...